Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[ladysapphire]

kasi may Pride din naman kami. there are times na kahit nagngingitian na kami ng girl, hindi naman ako ganun ka desperate and cheap to approach her and ask for her number. haha lalo na kung first time ko makita yung girl. pero let's say nagkita ulit kami nung girl maybe in the same place or sa iba pa then same thing happened na nagkatinginan and nagkangitian, then maybe lalapitan ko and kakausapin ko.
if she's my type, siyempre i'd make a move 

but for us girls, it's like loosing the window of opportunity. just my 2 cents. pinaguusapan namen yan after. ahaha

[junepets]

^ i guess.. iba-iba talaga style ng mga guyz..
meron naman iba.. kahit na sabihan mo na na ayaw mo.. makulit pa rin.
umaasa na magugustuhan ka pa rin..

yun iba naman.. type na pala si girl... wala naman ginagawa...

[tough_guy]

kayo ba mga lalake kapag sinabi nyo ayaw nyo magpakasal, hindi nyo nakikita sarili nyo na may asawa, kapag ba nakilala nyo na si "the one", possible pa kaya magbago ang isip nyo?

kung mahal talaga ng lalaki "go", dapat pakasalan niya yung tao makasama niya habang buhay.pero sa panahon kasi ngayon hanggang gf/bf or live in nalang, para pag nagkasawaan palitan lang. bihira na lang yung kasal2 na yan.

so, paano ang approach nyo, guys, sa mga babaeng supladita at maldita?

eh di supladuhan din, hahaha joke mahirap iapproach yan. kaya madami tumatandang dalaga eh.

[jtansanco]

^ Girls with make up looks are perceived as high maintenance. And yes, us guys do notice at how much make up you put on your face. If you're fair, I suggest you put red lipstick only. That should do the trick.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@amethyst028: i think most guys talaga prefer na light or no make up for girls. for me, gusto ko yung natural look lang. Lip gloss and light blush pwede na. i don't know about your BF, pero why don't you try minsan na totally wala ka make up then ask him if you look better that way.

[jtansanco]

^ Typical problem ah.. Ganito lang yan. If you're single, do what you do best to attract men. Just like wearing heels, putting on make up is like a ritual for you girls to make you feel more beautiful or confident. Nagkakaroon lang ng problems if nagkaroon ka na ng bf because most guys would like you to tone down your makeup and the way you dress since ayaw nilang may ibang lalake na tumitingin. Anyway, to really answer your question, mas prefer ng guys na simple lang. Maging fashionable ka nalang if you're going to an event or if you're going out to the clubs. If normal date lang, just be simple. May ibang times kasi, you girls wear make up and you feel good about it but, in our eyes, parang "pilit" yung dating and nawawala yung true beauty niyo.

[Naughty^GuRu]

Sabi niyo guys prefer no makeup. Ano ba ibig sabihin non, like all the time no makeup or pa minsan minsan mag makeup din kame?

depende naman sa occasion. if weekend mall date lang naman, ang off naman if the girl wears heavy make up. binabagay naman yung make up depende sa time and sa event. like if it's a dinner date sa fancy resto, pwede na mag make up na "mejo" heavy. i noticed kasi, may mga girls na kahit out of town or kahit nasa beach, naka make up pa rin 

Another thing pala. Regarding sa outfits, do you guys prefer mga simple lang yung hindi nakaka attract ng attention or hindi fashionista ang dating?

Parang ang confusing kasi. We girls spend so much time trying to look our best for our man tapos sasabihin samin na we are doing it wrong. Ganon din ba tingin niyo?

my take on this: first, kung saan ka comfortable then dun ka, and i'm sure nagustuhan ka naman ni guy for what you are so bakit mo babaguhin diba? my point is, wear anything that makes you comfortable and confident, may it be make ups or outfits. yung ganda kasi ng babae lumalabas sa kung anong nararamdaman niya inside. I don't agree dun sa girls na depende yung sinusuot sa kung anong gusto ng BF or hubby nila. a good tip is, kung magshoshopping ka, bring your guy then ask him bago ka bumili ng damit.

[Naughty^GuRu]

^
ganyan ako with GF. i don't have problem kahit anong isuot niya as long as comfortable and confident siya. there are times na siya pa yung magtatanong if masyado bang daring and sexy yung suot niya. i am proud of my GF and gusto ko din na may nag aadmire sa kanya, confident naman ako na hindi ako ipagpapalit and hindi papatol sa iba GF ko and hanggang tingin lang sila 

[jtansanco]

^ Baka naman talagang may gagawin? Anyway, if that bothers you, ask him. Tell him you're not sure on the changed date since you "might" have to do something on that day then ask him why he changed it.

[mimiku]

Do guys play games during dating or should I say, test yung mga nagugustuhan niyong babae - like not texting or so?

[jtansanco]

^ Only immature guys and players play games. Keepers don't.

[sacred cow]

Do guys play games during dating or should I say, test yung mga nagugustuhan niyong babae - like not texting or so?

Ganito lang 'yan, kung ang babae tinetest ang lalake para makasiguro if he's real or not kaya andaming s**t test na binibigay.
Guys should also know how to respond to those s**t tests in return para hindi sumablay. If the guy is making a girl ask questions like the
one you're asking right now, then he's doing it right

Dating isn't supposed to be thinking if "mature" ba 'to or hindi...kasi kung diyan pa lang palpak na lahat ng babaeng gusto ma swept off her feet by her dream guy.
seduction is supposed to be about having fun much like playing a game, nagkaiba na lang 'yan kung fair ba yung kalaro mo.

[KittiEKittiE]

Do guys play games during dating or should I say, test yung mga nagugustuhan niyong babae - like not texting or so?

parang mafifeel mo naman kung ganyan ang guy. Kung di ka itext wag ka ring magtext. Kung interesado talaga sayo madalas magparamdam yan or he will make time makita ka lang di lang puro [textspeak!] or call. Pero kung minsan lang magparamdam posibleng tinetext ka lang nya dahil bored sya or di lang talaga sya ganun kainteresado sayo. Kung nakikipaglaro ang lalake dapat marunong ka rin maglaro. Let him taste his own medicine. Its also a way to guard yourself. Wag agad agad nafo fall dapat pairalin din utak para di masyado masaktan

[Myealexis21]

^ Only immature guys and players play games. Keepers don't.

Couldn't agree more! And besides instead of playing mind games mas maganda siguro to get to know the other person better.  That's why when I was single (after the first bf) di na ako naniwala sa ligaw.  IMO, Mas mabilis ko kase nakikilala yung guy if he is not trying to impress me. 

[princeza08]

bakit kasi kailangan mambuntis ng ibang girl kahit ng gf na kayo? ibig ba sabihin non hindi nyo talaga mahal ang gf nyo?

[Mr.Punch]

^ Well, I doubt if attached guys intentionally impregnate girls other than their partners.  To answer your question, no, hindi kailangan ng lalaki mambuntis ng iba kahit my gf na.

As for the second question, sorry to say, there are guys who really do love their partners but can't help f*cking other girls.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@princeza08 i agree with Mr.Punch, last thing na gugustuhin ng committed guy eh makabuntis ng iba. also agree that there are guys who really love their partners but still f*ck other girls, include me in that list.

so, hindi ginusto ng guy na mabuntis niya yung girl. tatanga t**** lang siguro siya and hindi nag iingat. 

[princeza08]

hahaha... yang mga ganyan tipo ng lalaki ang dapat iwasan, yun mga mahina sa temptation. i still believe na hindi lahat ng guys eh pare pareho. parang girls lang, hindi lahat ng girls pare pareho :-)

[snowhite_12]

why do an attached guy na may gf na suddenly making parinig and saying nice things to me?
gusto kung patulan kasi medyo like ko si guy pero i don't want to end up na mang-aagaw.

[Myealexis21]

^Sis don't make patol, ikaw din mahihirapan in the end.  And besides a man like that does not deserve your attention, if he can do that to his present gf now,,, gagawin niya rin sa yo yan

just a typical type of person na di makuntento kung ano meron hayzt...not referring to men lang ha... there are plenty of women na ganyan din.

why do they do that? I don't even want to know, coz whatever explanation they have for such behavior is unacceptable.  IMHO