Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[KittiEKittiE]

^ If you aren't interested then just ignore his messages. Magsasawa rin sya. NAgkaexperience din ako ng ganyan and since di naman talaga ako interesado di na ko nagrereply. Then he stopped sending messages na.

[Naughty^GuRu]

Guys, pag ba like may nakakasalubong kayong random girl and then you just randomly hold eye contact/continue to look at here like what does that mean? Are you checking her out or like wala lang? Haha, sorry, sobrang clueless ako about this! =))

definitely checking her out. why would hold an eye contact kung hindi ko type. 

guys, majority ba sa inyo nakatikim na ng hookers? say, if ililibre kayo ng friends nyo...kakagat ba kayo?
and how do you view guys na kumukuha nito? alam ko kasi sa girls iba ang view. Thanks.

my first and last time to get a girl was in Highschool, pumunta kami ng barkada ko sa massage parlor, yung mamimili ka ng number with no idea anong itsura nung girl na magmamassage sayo. i was in a small room with a single bed, and as soon as the girl entered the room I yelled to the Manong bouncer, "kuya papalit naman ng masahista". Manong bouncer replied: "ang arte mo, walang palitan ng number dito". then sabi ko nalang dun sa girl: "miss massage lang ah". that was the first and last time i went inside a massage parlor. nakapasok na din ako sa "cabaret", yung may nagfafashion show ng nakahubad. surprisingly, ang gaganda ng mga girls dun sa napuntahan ko. pero hindi ako natuturn on knowing there are guys around me na nanunuod din ng "fashion show" na nakikita ko. so to answer the question, i never paid for sex, and never din tumanggap ng libreng "prosti" from a friend. hindi ako naeexcite and natuturn on sa paid sex, walang challenge and it's all scripted. pumapayag lang yung girl kasi paid sila, and parang pag ginawa ko yun, i would feel pathetic and cheap din.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@newsoul: i agree with KittiEKittiE, if hindi ka naman interested dun sa guy, then just ignore him and don't reply. most guys kasi, hindi marunong makaramdam kung interested ka ba sa kanila or not. and hanggang nagrereply ka sa kanya then iisipin niya na OK lang nai-text ka since nagrerespond ka naman

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah, anything can change. Pagbata pa, syempre ayaw pa namin magpakasal because of the many factors involved. But as time passes by, once we feel that we're ready, we also want to have our own family.

[sassycai]

so, paano ang approach nyo, guys, sa mga babaeng supladita at maldita? 

[Girltalker2]

What is the general feeling guys have when they love their GF/wife?  To take care of her or to be taken cared of?

Kasi lagi ko naririnig from men on how they want to take care of by their GFs pero pag nag asawa na, how they want to be taken care of by their wives.  Ganun ba talaga yun?  Pag mag asawa na, hindi na nila inaalagaan ang wives nila?

Or is it BOTH wanting to take care of her and also to be taken cared of?

 

[jonielle]

@girltalker

when I got married 3 years ago  nothings really change if meron man mas napabuti pa mas naging caring ako sa kanya. ayoko napapagod sya kaya hangat maaari ako nagawa ng gawaing bahay lalo na sa paglalaba.

[ladysapphire]

definitely checking her out. why would hold an eye contact kung hindi ko type. 

i'm curious about this as well, like sige given the eye contact. pero bakit most of the time hindi naman nag-aapproach si guy. like say sa mall or coffee shop syempre nakakatitigan na minsan may exchange of smiles na, pero hanggang dun lang hindi naman magpapakilala. enlighten me boys. hehe

[Girltalker2]

@girltalker

when I got married 3 years ago  nothings really change if meron man mas napabuti pa mas naging caring ako sa kanya. ayoko napapagod sya kaya hangat maaari ako nagawa ng gawaing bahay lalo na sa paglalaba.

This is my point.  Pag mag GF palang, caring ang mga guys but not necessarily mga girls?  at ok lang ba ito kay Bf?  Pero kung mag-asawa na, nakakaramdam na si GF (now wife) na kelangan na nya mas alagaan si hubby (bf dati).

Bakit?

[jtansanco]

^^ Cuz most of the time, you girls would think of us guys as creepy or we wouldn't know how you'd respond if we go to you. Plus, hindi kami sanay mga guys na lumapit sa isang random girl sa random location. Wala rin kami maisip na sabihin e.

so, paano ang approach nyo, guys, sa mga babaeng supladita at maldita?

If medyo mataray yung dating ng girl, chances are, no way na makakausap ko siya unless there's a way to break the ice. May ganyang experience ako recently sa gym. Pretty yung girl pero mukhang sobrang taray. Matagal ko na nakikita. Kahit nagkaroon ng eye contact, parang no reaction lang so di ko na tinry na kilalalanin. But then, pumunta friend ko doon and kilala din niya yung girl. Long story short, after pakilala and all, parang long lost best friend ko na yung girl ngayon. 

[cottondoll]

^^ Cuz most of the time, you girls would think of us guys as creepy or we wouldn't know how you'd respond if we go to you. Plus, hindi kami sanay mga guys na lumapit sa isang random girl sa random location. Wala rin kami maisip na sabihin e.

^Makes sense. Haha. Mejo naenlighten din ako


Another question: If, say, you found out that a girl (can be your officemate or whatever) has a thing for you and you don't really know each other directly but nakakasalubong niyo siya and stuff, whenever you see her, what goes through your minds knowing na this girl likes you? Is it like, "Oh, there's one of my fans" or like wala lang? =))

[Naughty^GuRu]

so, paano ang approach nyo, guys, sa mga babaeng supladita at maldita?

ako kasi, whether i like the girl or not, pareho lang treatment ko. let's say I like this girl na maldita and mataray, usually I just ignore her. example officemates kayo ni malditang girl, yayain ko yung friends niya or office mates namin for lunch or kung ano man, pero siya hindi ko siya iinvite. yung tipong ganyan. haha kung maldita at suplada ka then hindi ako gagawa ng way para magpapansin sayo. usually kasi ang mga matataray at suplada, the more na lalapitan mo at magpapapansin ka the more silang nagiging mataray, may pagka Egoist.

i'm curious about this as well, like sige given the eye contact. pero bakit most of the time hindi naman nag-aapproach si guy. like say sa mall or coffee shop syempre nakakatitigan na minsan may exchange of smiles na, pero hanggang dun lang hindi naman magpapakilala. enlighten me boys. hehe

kasi may Pride din naman kami. there are times na kahit nagngingitian na kami ng girl, hindi naman ako ganun ka desperate and cheap to approach her and ask for her number. haha lalo na kung first time ko makita yung girl. pero let's say nagkita ulit kami nung girl maybe in the same place or sa iba pa then same thing happened na nagkatinginan and nagkangitian, then maybe lalapitan ko and kakausapin ko.

Another question: If, say, you found out that a girl (can be your officemate or whatever) has a thing for you and you don't really know each other directly but nakakasalubong niyo siya and stuff, whenever you see her, what goes through your minds knowing na this girl likes you? Is it like, "Oh, there's one of my fans" or like wala lang? =))

if she's my type, siyempre i'd make a move 

[NickSparks]

hi guys i need your help there's this guy who i worked with before and who got my number from another co-worker and since then has never stopped texting me. at first di ko sha kilala so i replied then after exchanging texts for a while i got annoyed and decided to not reply to him kasi naiirita na ko sakanya. honestly really not interested in him at all, siya lang talaga ang pumpipilit. after not having heard from him for a month cuz i texted him i was moving out of the country, i got a viber message from him. what should i do ba cuz he doesn't seem to get it 

its a guy thing, na makulit lang talaga

[KittiEKittiE]

kung maldita at suplada ka then hindi ako gagawa ng way para magpapansin sayo. usually kasi ang mga matataray at suplada, the more na lalapitan mo at magpapapansin ka the more silang nagiging mataray, may pagka Egoist.

Exclude me here, I look mataray and suplada but pag may nagttry magstart ng conversation ineentertain ko naman. Depende rin sa approach ng guys eh. Pag ang yabang ng dating and really trying to get my attention iniignore ko talaga and will make him feel na ayokong makipagusap.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@KittiEKittiE: madami din kasing girls na wala sa lugar mag taray at mag sungit  pansin ko lang, yung mga matataray, masusungit and snobbish girls are those who are less attractive.

[KittiEKittiE]

^ so you just ignore kahit na type mo? You don't even try to know the girl? Maybe it's just a facade, hindi naman talaga mataray si girl, so sayang naman yung chance mo. What if mabait naman pala talaga si girl.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@KittiEKittiE: Mararamdaman naman yun if the girl is interested or not. and not totally naman na iignore ko, magbibigay naman ako ng hints that I like her. and if makakuha ako ng negative respond, then i'd stop. it doesn't mean na quitter na yung guy pag ganun, hindi lang desperado and makulit hehe. hindi ko lang nakikita sarili ko na sinisiksik yung sarili to someone na hindi naman interested. i'd feel cheap and pathetic pag ganun

[KittiEKittiE]

^ i see naliwanagan ako haha thanks for the reply

[junepets]

^^ follow up question..
what if you really like the girl... as in first instance pa lang ba na showing of no interest ayaw na talaga?
what if di pala sya ganun..? what if pwede naman pala?

[Naughty^GuRu]

@junepets:it really depends. ako kasi, nararamdaman ko naman if the girl is interested or not kahit mataray and suplada pa siya. and i guess depende din kasi yun sa guy eh. Meron kasing guys na hindi marunong bumasa ng signs and meron din guys na hindi agad sumusuko. Ako kasi, when I really like the girl, I make an effort para malaman niya yun and I am also vocal about it. and from that hint, mararamdaman ko naman kung "kakagat" or not si girl.

ladies, yung replies ko dito are my personal Point Of View ah, I don't really represent yung lahat ng lalake, i just represent my self here. So depende talaga sa guy how he handles the situation.