Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 3)

[anon]

^Because most men are DICKheads. They let their dicks do the thinking.

[Mr.Punch]

Removed as per request.

[Mr.Punch]

Yeah, this too. 

[Mr.Punch]

^Believe me, I'm shaking my head too.   

*shakes head*

[entwife]

*And I'm rolling my eyes. Lol

[Naughty^GuRu]

hahaha... yang mga ganyan tipo ng lalaki ang dapat iwasan, yun mga mahina sa temptation. i still believe na hindi lahat ng guys eh pare pareho. parang girls lang, hindi lahat ng girls pare pareho :-)

yes, madami pa din namang guys na matitino, pero mahirap na malaman yun ngayon. i'm not trying to discourage you, sinasabi ko lang na sa panahon ngayon mahirap nang malaman sino ang player and sino ang hindi. kaya nga pag nakipag commit kayo, try not to give lahat lahat. magtira ka para sa sarili mo para pag nalaman mong niloko ka, hindi ka kawawa

why do an attached guy na may gf na suddenly making parinig and saying nice things to me?
gusto kung patulan kasi medyo like ko si guy pero i don't want to end up na mang-aagaw.

typical girl na nagoover analyze. the guy saying nice things to you might or might not mean anything. baka naman inaappreciate ka lang or he might be flirting with you, well kung ano man intentions niya, ikaw ang in-control. this is a no-brainer, alam mo naman palang may gf yet parang kino-consider mo pa siyang patulan? i don't think yung pagpaparinig niya yung issue dito, i think the issue here is you.

[NickSparks]

can i just spill the beans... Men are simply polygamous  by nature due to shorter lifespan.
Nature designed it that way. In modern times, increased human population gave rise to
the need of marriage . This promoted Monogamy.

Now, Modern man is faced with a conflict, nature vs. norms.

[KittiEKittiE]

Sometimes we just need to accept the fact that guys are really like that and we can't change it. I think nasa babae pa rin kung paano ihahandle yan like kung sa pagbubuntis ng wala sa plano, dapat girls maging prepared din like bring a condom. Hindi mo pwedeng iasa lagi sa lalaki na sila magdadala nyan, kasi ikaw mismo ineenjoy mo rin yung deed.

Yes, men are polygamous. They are naturally flirt, wala naman tayo magagawa dun. I'm not defending men pero it would be easy for us girls na iaccept na ganun talaga sila. Istress lang natin sarili natin kaka-rant sa behavior nila. What we can do is avoid men na ganyan.

[jtansanco]

^ If your guy goes to the gym, compliment his body like napapansin mo na pumapayat siya (if he's chubby) or lumalaki na yung braso/nagiging macho na siya (if he's slim/lean). Mabilis lang naman kiligin ang guys.

[anon]

@cecily-- anything to stroke a guy's ego like saying "you're better than most guys I've met"

[jonielle]

As for the second question, sorry to say, there are guys who really do love their partners but can't help f*cking other girls.

This

^Sis don't make patol, ikaw din mahihirapan in the end.  And besides a man like that does not deserve your attention, if he can do that to his present gf now,,, gagawin niya rin sa yo yan

lagi kong naririnig to sa mga nangangaral, malay mo naman maam dito na magbago si guy. last na diba

[Myealexis21]

^ang tanong if dyan sa sitwasyon ni Sis snowhite_12 eh sya na talaga ang last IMHO, Mas maganda pumasok sa isang relationship na walang problema - wala kang sinaktan o inagawan. 

[bubbles_sandy]

how much patience can you hold for the love of your life, example if too much emotional si girl?

[Naughty^GuRu]

@bubbles_sandy: most guys have short patience pero when it comes to relationships kaya naman naming magtiis. it's a matter of give and take and adjustments. for me, willing naman ako magtiis and mag sacrifice as long as nakikita ko rin from her na nag aadjust din siya para baguhin yung flaws nya, at the same time eh i-accept din yung mga flaws ko.

[bubbles_sandy]

@Naughty^guru, that is soo sweet 

[blackgreen]

guys, pano malalaman kung ready na magsettle-down si bf? hindi kasi masalita bf ko and hindi rin kami mahilig magusap ng future, though paminsan minsan may mga nababanggit siya referring na kami in the end.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@blackgreen: first, i think most of us guys hindi talaga vocal about settling down and some even avoid mga ganung klase ng conversation. but it doesn't mean naman na hindi kayo mahal nung guy or na ayaw ka niya pakasalan. me and GF are living together now, napag uusapan din naman namin about settling down, pero for now hindi ko pa siya maisip, parang its a big responsibility para sa aming mga lalake and it scares us. to answer your question, siguro one of the best hint na gusto na ni BF mag settle down is kapag nag open up siya about having kids. yung mga habang nasa mall kayo magsasabi siya ng "sana pag nagka baby tayo ganito.. ganyan". another hint din siguro is kapag nag sasave kayo sa joint account niyo and iniinvest niyo yung money niyo together.  pero huwag niyo kaming madaliin sa kasal, it may sound immature or wrong or kung ano man, pero marriage is a big step para sa aming mga lalake, bigger than what most girls think.

[KittiEKittiE]

^ kaya pala ako nasabihan na para akong lalaki kung magisip :p

[bliss15]

How do I get my guy friends to treat me a bit like a girl and not on of the boys?
For example, nagyaya ako mag hang out they always assume na I'm rich anyway okay lang sa akin mag adjust kung saan mas convenient sa kanila.  Or, magtetext sila sa akin last minute na magtreat ng pizza wala man lang allowance.  Or, nagpromise ako itreat ko siya sometime tapos kinukulit ako kahit busy ako.  Or, meron rin guys na niyaya ako makipag inuman... 

[anon]

@ bliss -- not sure if this'll help but try dressing more girl-like...