Still Childless

[luckymommy88]

^uttered a prayer for you sis...Happy Monday

[sazleang]

Sis i_am_zayda, I understand how u feel. Don't lose hope sis. He knows best kaya trust him and continue praying lang. Everything will come in GOD's perfect time. Marami tayong sis dito more than 35 pa pero they still got BFP kaya never lose hope. Kaya yan.

Baby Dust to all!

[margeL]

I agree sis sazleang. In God's perfect time talaga. If ever naman na talagang, we're not destined to have babies, let's just then pray for God's comfort. He will not give us something na hindi natin kaya.

[Beng01]

Hi sis i_am_zayda, baka naman masyado maaga ang pt mo nung June. Try mo uli ngayon, baka positive na yan

Ganyan kasi nangyari sakin I was more than 2 weeks na delayed at overdue then nag pt ako after 2 weeks, ayun BFP na.

Don't lose hope sis. Bata ka pa and always say your prayers.

[i_am_zayda]

hi mga sis, thanks for the support and prayers.

Unfortunately, BFN talaga ako. I consulted with my OB. So what she did is pina-take na nya ko ng Provera para magkaroon na ako and then nag-start na kami ng fertility pills (ova-mit) and then pinapainom na rin nya ko ng follic acid. She also advised us of the dates when me and my hubby should have contacts. I really hope that with the guidance of our OB eh maging BFP na ako...

Kaso nga lang, LQ kami ngayon ni hubby. Tinulugan ba naman kasi ako kagabi! I confronted him this morning kung ano ba talaga gusto nya, gusto nya ba magka-baby kami... oo naman daw. Nung sinabi ko na nasasayang yung guidance na binibigay ng doctor sasabihan nya ko na pine-pressure ko sya... Sya pa ang na-pressure...

Ang sa akin lang, sayang naman yung oras and pera sa pagpapa-check up sa doctor, sa pagbili ng meds kung wala naman ring mangyayari, kung hindi namin susundin yung naka-sched... (pero hindi ko na to nagawang sabihin sa kanya)

wag na lang kami mag-follow up checkup sa doctor kung sa tingin nya eh na-ppressure sya...

tell me mga sis, out of line ba ako sa issue naming dalawa ng asawa ko?

[trendy]

^relax, sis. God will give you your own baby in His own time. Don't pressure yourself nor your husband. Lovemaking should be a happy "activity" for you both and not just a task.

Let go and enjoy. The more you think about it, the more na magiging mailap ang pagkakaron nyo ng baby. I know of a lot of women who just let go and let God and one day, they got the biggest surprise of their lives - a BFP. so sis, relax lang ha. Enjoy every minute of your time with hubby.

[i_am_zayda]

Thanks sis...

Although I too find it clinical to schedule our lovemaking. But I am just following doctor's instructions din lang naman... I try to let go. But I will keep on praying for God's blessing.

[gwendy730]

Hello mga sis. Just want to share my story din.

1 year ++ na kami married ni hubby, and still childless. I just turned 29, and he will be turning 36. We both have weight issues. I consulted with a fertility specialist, did some tests and ayon, PCOS ako. No cysts, pero all other symptoms like anovulation, hormonal imbalance, thin endometrium, immature follicles, andun because of my weight. It was a wake up call. I started dieting and hitting the gym. Now, normal na uli yung cycle ko. Did an ovulation test kanina (coz supposedly fertile ako today according to my fertility calendar app) and ayun, fertile nga ako. Here's hoping that my hubby and I will have good news next month. Keeping up the hope!

[KimSuni]

Hello mga sis. Just want to share my story din.

1 year ++ na kami married ni hubby, and still childless. I just turned 29, and he will be turning 36. We both have weight issues. I consulted with a fertility specialist, did some tests and ayon, PCOS ako. No cysts, pero all other symptoms like anovulation, hormonal imbalance, thin endometrium, immature follicles, andun because of my weight. It was a wake up call. I started dieting and hitting the gym. Now, normal na uli yung cycle ko. Did an ovulation test kanina (coz supposedly fertile ako today according to my fertility calendar app) and ayun, fertile nga ako. Here's hoping that my hubby and I will have good news next month. Keeping up the hope!

hi sis if both kayo may weight problem..both din kayo should work out hindi lang girl nuh..talk to your hubby...there are things happen to a guy sperm if they are overweight..and did you check if diabetes or not kayong dalawa..kasi if one of you is diabetic lalo na pag lalaki..most probably it is not possible talaga..hopefully he is not..

remind mu lang sis..kelangan din ni hubby magpapayat..and your time is running kasi your already 29 and guy has no problem even if they aged mag kakaanak at makakabuntis pa sila if their sperm is on good condition good luck sis..

hindi naman sa tinatakot kita nuh..im just saying yun totoo sis..ganun kasi uncle ko..diabetic pala sya kahit hindi sya ganun kalaki normal lang weight and BMI nya..but when nagpacheck ayun diabetic pala kaya naging infertile sya..ending nilang dalawa ayun nag adopt na lang..so sad lang po

[KimSuni]

Thanks sis...

Although I too find it clinical to schedule our lovemaking. But I am just following doctor's instructions din lang naman... I try to let go. But I will keep on praying for God's blessing.

hi sis..tama ka naman sa point na your 31 and time is ticking...baka lang kasi mawalan naman gana sa'yo si hubby if masyado kang magdemand due to your condition...lovemaking kasi is also sacred and with perfect timing na din...don't pressure yourself kasi pagstress ka lalong nagkakaproblem sa ovulation, kung sa ano ba pati yung eggs na stress din...

yun kasi ang isang advise ng OB sa another auntie ko na 33 na sya nagkaanak..dont pressure your self..may myoma kasi sya..and luckily ayon sinunod nya enjoy and stress free nakabuo din...dapat daw ibalik yun sweetness and kilig factor para mas mabilis..and isinabay na din yun myoma nya sa paglabor...one baby nga lang sila..pero happy na silang dalawa good luck sis

[gwendy730]

hi sis if both kayo may weight problem..both din kayo should work out hindi lang girl nuh..talk to your hubby...there are things happen to a guy sperm if they are overweight..and did you check if diabetes or not kayong dalawa..kasi if one of you is diabetic lalo na pag lalaki..most probably it is not possible talaga..hopefully he is not..

remind mu lang sis..kelangan din ni hubby magpapayat..and your time is running kasi your already 29 and guy has no problem even if they aged mag kakaanak at makakabuntis pa sila if their sperm is on good condition good luck sis..

hindi naman sa tinatakot kita nuh..im just saying yun totoo sis..ganun kasi uncle ko..diabetic pala sya kahit hindi sya ganun kalaki normal lang weight and BMI nya..but when nagpacheck ayun diabetic pala kaya naging infertile sya..ending nilang dalawa ayun nag adopt na lang..so sad lang po

Heheh, no worries, pareho kami cleared. Recent lang yung blood tests ko, hindi ako diabetic. Si hubby, hindi diabetic according to latest tests, although dad niya diabetic (and my father-in-law is fit). I know someone who's also fit pero diabetic, and til now, wala pa sila anak ng hubby niya and it's kinda late for them coz the wife is going 40 na. So yes, aware ako, and I am scared. Hopefully it won't come to that.

Managed to convince hubby to go back to the gym na. Crossing fingers and praying hard na meh nabuo kami last time though

[KimSuni]

gwendy730 sis mabuti naman kung ganun...pray na makabuo na kayo ni hubby mu...masaya ang may bata sa bahay kahit malikot, maingay, magulo nakakatanggal pagod pa din yun pag naglalambing na yun bata sa'yo..goodluck sis...god bless

[i_am_zayda]

^^ Thank sis KimSuni... Pero sa tingin ko stress din ako... hindi lang dahil sa gusto maka-buo pero dahil sa work. I really pray na ibless na kami ng baby...  birthday month ko ngayon... sana gift na Nya sa akin yung baby...

[KimSuni]

sis try mung magleave if allowed ka sa work mu... for your benefit na din naman..pero dapat mag agree din si hubby baka kasi magkaproblem sa financial if one will take sa leave (if your leave lang naman is not payable may ganun kasing company eh)... share ko lang yun kasing officemate ko dati 3x syang laging nakukunan kahit na magleave sya ng 1week or 2 weeks pag nalaman nyang preggy na sya..laglag pa din yun baby..then after nun hindi naman na sila makabuo yun kwento nya from last miscarriages mag 3years na wala pa din..then here comes the Typhoon Ondoy na nagpalubog sa ibang part ng Pasig City ayun si typhoon onday ang dahilan kaya nabuo yun baby..hehe then indefinite leave na sya...ok nga lang daw sa kanya if management will decide na tanggalin sya sa work...for sake lang ng baby iririsk nya yun work nya...

pray for you sis..and happy birthday na din kung kelan bday mu sis...wish for your wish to come true.. god bless

[i_am_zayda]

pray for you sis..and happy birthday na din kung kelan bday mu sis...wish for your wish to come true.. god bless

Thank you for the prayer.. and for the greeting as well...

[gwendy730]

Hello mga sis. Sad to say, dinatnan na naman ako  Walang nabuo yung pag make love namin ni hubby nung confirmed fertile days ko  One good thing though is 3 cycles na regular yung mensies ko. Kaso it hurts talaga especially after all the anticipation. Umiyak ako ng umiyak kanina, and hubby and I spent the night comforting each other.

Sana hindi na lang ako mag aanticipate o mag eexpect pero ang hirap eh. You want a baby so much, you can't help but think about it all the time. T_T

Next week, papacheck na si hubby sa urologist. Tapos na ako sa testing ko, normal na ako lahat. Siya wala pa test, pero today has convinced him to go na talaga. That's another good thing I suppose.

Prayers to everyone who are also TTC like us...

[KimSuni]

Hello mga sis. Sad to say, dinatnan na naman ako  Walang nabuo yung pag make love namin ni hubby nung confirmed fertile days ko 

hi sis stay positive..wag ka masyado sis mag expect every fertile days mu..nakakastress din kasi yun by somehow..just relax and enjoy if ibibigay na..ibibigay naman sa iyo yun.. and note sis dapat not just every fertile days and love making nyo ni hubby... kasi sometimes example sis bukas ang fertile day mu possible kasi sis na ngayon nagstart na si fertile egg..so mas maganda na sis yun maagap..hehe si egg kasi hours lang naman ang itinatagal nya..unlike si sperm na up to 72hours buhay pa..
god bless sis...pray for you..

[oigwin]

gwendy, tama si KimSuni sa sinabi nya. We all need to keep positive. I don't know if this helps, but even with a perfectly timed BD and a 100% healthy couple, the maximum probability of getting pregnant is only around 30%.

Kailangan natin ng postive outlook para hindi tayo maglagay ng stress sa sarili at partner natin 

[gwendy730]

Thank you for the words of encouragement mga sis. I'm trying to keep positive despite it all. Pero right now, parang iba na yung state ko. Yung parang di na lang ako mag eexpect. Ano yun, fatalistic? Or realistic? Kasi lumabas na results ni hubby (finally convinced him to take the sperm exam and to consult a urologist). Lumabas na rin totoo, ang problema keh hubby. Low motility, low sperm count, low sperm quality, low semen volume. We'll have more tests done soon.

One positive outcome is that mas conscious na si hubby sa kinakain niya and he'll be regularly hitting the gym again starting next week, once he settles his schedule. Another thing is that hindi na ako nageexpect mabuntis anytime soon, which slashes down the stress na ininduce ng anticipation. Medyo hurt nga si hubby pero I've been trying to reassure him na oka lang yun, na pasalamat nga hindi zero sperm count, and that we just have to work together to be healthier.

So if not this year, here's hoping na one day magkakaanak rin Meh hope pa!

[KimSuni]

sis gwendy730 more power... atleast meron sis...mawowork out nyo din yan sis.. may mga OB sis na nag aadvise ng better position pag mag contact kayo ni hubby mu sis..try mu..effective naman daw..
God bless sis