Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[ragnar_danneskjold]

but do you guys feel this pag you know alam niyo na tinanggihan niyo si girl? or you are naive about it kasi you just felt na hindi niyo siya type?

yep. except nalang kung sobrang insensitive naman yung lalake. haha. it happened to me once, then i reconsidered but didn't do anything about it. instead, i pursued the girl i wanted.

[lesters_gal]

Thanks bro scared cow. I don't want to ask him kasi natatakot ako sa magiging sagot niya. Chaka di ba kayong mga guys kapag may nangyari na you tend to move backwards to see how the girl would react. Kaya yun ang strategies ko ngayon, na kung ano ang  treat ko sa kanya before my nangyari samen ganun

[sacred cow]

Thanks bro scared cow. I don't want to ask him kasi natatakot ako sa magiging sagot niya. Chaka di ba kayong mga guys kapag may nangyari na you tend to move backwards to see how the girl would react. Kaya yun ang strategies ko ngayon, na kung ano ang  treat ko sa kanya before my nangyari samen ganun

depende naman sa guy yun tsaka sa situation...yup just treat him the same way you did

[lesters_gal]

^How long do i need to wait para tanungin sha?  Minsan ba kayong mga guys nag aantay din ba kayo sa mga girls na tanungin kayo kung ano ba talaga ang real score nyo kahit na for fun lang if ever ang gusto ninyo?

[sacred cow]

^How long do i need to wait para tanungin sha?  Minsan ba kayong mga guys nag aantay din ba kayo sa mga girls na tanungin kayo kung ano ba talaga ang real score nyo kahit na for fun lang if ever ang gusto ninyo?

wala namang definite time yan, until siguro alam mong may nararamdaman ka na talaga and you want to take it to the next level.
Yup, I prefer na girl ang magtatanong kung ano ang status...that way alam kong talagang gusto na niya ng commitment.


Women hold the sex card, Men hold the relationship card

[lesters_gal]

Thanks bro.. i need to play my cards well. Any advice kung pano kayo lalong magiging interested  sa girls?

[littlekinselle]

I think it's pathetic, especially kung friends lang naman kayo...ano akala niya, bigla ka na lang matuturn on dahil sa maliit na privates niya.
on the other hand, ba't parang naaaliw ka sa ginawa niya at parang hindi ka naman as galit as you ought to be, baka naman ginawa niya yun to tease
you kasi alam niyang hindi lang kayo close friends

actually I warned him na pag nag padala pa siya ng pic niya buburahin and blocked ko siya sa fb.. nag sorry naman and di na daw niya gagawin.

[sacred cow]

actually I warned him na pag nag padala pa siya ng pic niya buburahin and blocked ko siya sa fb.. nag sorry naman and di na daw niya gagawin.

Good, if I were you nga tatatanggalin ko na yan sa friend's list...masyadong disrespectful yung ginawa nya

[sacred cow]

Thanks bro.. i need to play my cards well. Any advice kung pano kayo lalong magiging interested  sa girls?

wala ka namang kailangang gawing iba, he likes you already...all you gotta do is not mess things up.
basta wag ka maging needy or clingy, don't expect him to do things that you assume he would do (e.g. boyfriend stuff)
kasi hindi pa naman kayo. just take things one step at a time and just enjoy what you have right now.

[lesters_gal]

^Yeah bro yun nga ang ginagawa ko, i tried my best not to be clingy/needy.thats why i dont want to text him first.kahit na two days sha hindi nagtetext.ok lang kunwari sa akin.lol.i
always wait for him.ayoko kasi isipin niya na porket my nangyari na eh naging feeling naman ako.i let him do his business. One time magkasama kami may tumawag sa kanya na girl.hindi niya sinagot.deadma lang ako.i never asked him anything about it kasi yun nga hindi naman kami..kaya deadma lang.enjoy the moment nalang.. bahala na kung sino ang unang magtanong.lol..

[sacred cow]

^Yeah bro yun nga ang ginagawa ko, i tried my best not to be clingy/needy.thats why i dont want to text him first.kahit na two days sha hindi nagtetext.ok lang kunwari sa akin.lol.i
always wait for him.ayoko kasi isipin niya na porket my nangyari na eh naging feeling naman ako.i let him do his business. One time magkasama kami may tumawag sa kanya na girl.hindi niya sinagot.deadma lang ako.i never asked him anything about it kasi yun nga hindi naman kami..kaya deadma lang.enjoy the moment nalang.. bahala na kung sino ang unang magtanong.lol..

medyo troubling na yung nangyayari sa'yo...if you wanna text him...then go text him, don't be bound by stupid rules.
sinasabi mong it's not a big deal na may nangyari, pero sa totoo big deal yun para sa'yo.
it's obvious that he has all the power in your relationship right now because you obviously care more about him than he
does you, as a guy props to him kasi ganun naman dapat and not the other way around, the fact na nagkakaganyan ka, e it means he's playing
his cards right, but since I'm here in GT ikaw dapat kampihan ko

[lesters_gal]

^Lol. pero atleast di ba hindi ko pinapakita sa kanya na affected ako.dito lang sa GT. pano ba ang gagawin ko para ako naman ang may power sa kanya? Gusto ko maging baliktad ang situation.

[ladysapphire]

^Lol. pero atleast di ba hindi ko pinapakita sa kanya na affected ako.dito lang sa GT. pano ba ang gagawin ko para ako naman ang may power sa kanya? Gusto ko maging baliktad ang situation.

siguro for me, don't torture yourself. if you want to go over and text him. then go, don't follow rules when in fact it's making you the one who's being played here. just text him in casual ways since you already have gone under the sheets diba. i mean this is not the time now to hold back. maybe preno lang ng onti. but you just have to play it right, if you feel that he's not interested enough in you in other aspects besides the sex, then you deserve someone better than that.

you just have to know what you want also, if you want the relationship and the sex, then look for the whole package, if you want the other way around, be the man and turn around the situation.

don't toy around with your feelings, it's torture. hehe just gone passed it a few days ago. i dont want to do it again, ang sakit sa ulo. hahaha napagastos tuloy ako sa salon. hahaha

tsaka you would know naman if it's enough, bigla ka na lang magstop mag-effort at mag-isip.

[lesters_gal]

^Thanks sis. Ayoko kasi isipin niya na porket may nangyari biglang naiba ang ihip ng hangin. Im giving myself until end of this month, then i will talk to him na about our real score. If ever for fun lang ang gusto niya mas maganda itigil na habang maaga at hindi pa ako na fall sa kanya ng todo...mahirap mag move on kasi kapag love mo na yung tao...

[ashley_afiah]

Bakit may ibang guy na married na eh gusto pa pumatol sa married woman?

[TuscanSun]

^[textspeak!] may ibang married women na gustong pumatol sa married men.

seriously, those type of married men who prefer the married women are just after the wham bang setup. they know that a relationship with a married woman is too complicated to grow.

[hawhaw]

what does it mean pag kinukwento sayo ng bf mo un pambababae ng barkada nya?

[TuscanSun]

^it is either he is preparing your mind for something he may do or tsismoso lang talaga sya. just my opinion

[ragnar_danneskjold]

^or, he's pointing it out to you that "look! you're lucky your bf isn't doing the same! great find!"
try to praise him and see his reaction. 

[sacred cow]

what does it mean pag kinukwento sayo ng bf mo un pambababae ng barkada nya?

gusto niya lang magkwento kasi tsismoso lang siya, don't think too much into it