Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[FOURever]

^haha nakakaasar minsan ah. Haha

[bubbles_sandy]

guys, when can you really say you are not lying? any signs na we check to see if nagsasabi kayo ng totoo?

[FOURever]

Another question is ano masasabi nyo sa guy na nag i love you after nyang magalit at mainis sa girl at di nagparamdam ng ilang araw? Nagalit sya kasi di natuloy yung usapan nila. Do you think he did mean it? Or peace offering lang sa girl?

[anon]

guys, when can you really say you are not lying? any signs na we check to see if nagsasabi kayo ng totoo?

for one, you might want to glance at a guy's fingers if they're crossed 

I'd leave the first question for other guys to answer.

[jtansanco]

^^^ It's how he delivers his words. He's firm about it and there's eye contact. He'll not stutter or glance his eyes somewhere.

[Ichiro]

May tendency bang magtext kayo sa crush nyo ng mga 2am or 5am para wala lanng.. mag update lang kung matutulog ka pa lang o kakagising mo lang. Hahaha!

"Are you asleep?" or "Gising ka na?"

hahahaha... funny question though...

seriously...

for me 2 possible reasons...

1. naiisip ka nya nung mga time na yan...

2. jan lang sa mga time na yan pwede ka nyang imessage... maybe jan lang sya free... (sa bantay nya... if you know what i mean) nyahahahaah!!! sorry for ruining your kilig moment.

[Ichiro]

Another question is ano masasabi nyo sa guy na nag i love you after nyang magalit at mainis sa girl at di nagparamdam ng ilang araw? Nagalit sya kasi di natuloy yung usapan nila. Do you think he did mean it? Or peace offering lang sa girl?

Maraming meaning yan...

1. I forgive you.

2. Let us forget what had happened.

3. I am sorry I am a douchebag.

4. I miss you already.

5. I want to have nyahahahaha... wag na nga at baka kung saan pa mapunta to...

[Ichiro]

guys, when can you really say you are not lying? any signs na we check to see if nagsasabi kayo ng totoo?

1. consistency ng sinasabi

2. clear ang mga details ng sinasabi (place, person, date, actions)

3. can look you straight in the eye (though professional liars can also do this hahahaha)

[FOURever]

"Are you asleep?" or "Gising ka na?"

hahahaha... funny question though...

seriously...

for me 2 possible reasons...

1. naiisip ka nya nung mga time na yan...

2. jan lang sa mga time na yan pwede ka nyang imessage... maybe jan lang sya free... (sa bantay nya... if you know what i mean) nyahahahaah!!! sorry for ruining your kilig moment.

Haha ok lang yan bro. Di rin naman ako kinikilig dahil inaantok na ako pag nagtetext.

[anon]

ever had a gf na sobrang clingy? o selosa? yun tipong kahit ano pagseselosan? o un di ka lang nakatext eh nagagalit na?

yes. uber selosa.

[junepets]

What if a girl with bf has likes you... nakikipagbiruan pero hanggang dun lang... and u like the girl too.. ano gagawin nyo?

[anon]

What if a girl with bf has likes you... nakikipagbiruan pero hanggang dun lang... and u like the girl too.. ano gagawin nyo?

makikipagbiruan din. nothing wrong with being friends...as long as we're both aware of the limits.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Pag ang lalake ba di nagseselos/di talaga yung maselusin na type, does that mean he doesn't care?

[anon]

Pag ang lalake ba di nagseselos/di talaga yung maselusin na type, does that mean he doesn't care?

Wala naman atang kaibahan ito with women who aren't the jealous type also?

I'm one of those non-mesulisin type of men out there, but it doesn't mean I don't care/love my significant other. It's a trust thing and I've been lucky enough to be involved with women who could be trusted. I even went as far as being nonchalant when a partner had a business date with her boss.

[sacred cow]

Pag ang lalake ba di nagseselos/di talaga yung maselusin na type, does that mean he doesn't care?

It means he's secure and confident with himself and he trusts his partner na hindi gagawa ng kalokohan.

Kaya wag mo rin susubukan ang ganitong klaseng guy, kasi once you cheat on him or do something
disrespectful, He can easily drop you and find someone else (which is source of his security and confidence,
kasi alam niyang may abundance ng babae at hindi naman siya mauubusan, which is why he is not afraid
to lose you)

[iwannabeasupermodel]

Aaaw thanks guys. I thought i didn't push through posting this. Haha! 

Yes yun nga. He trusts me daw kasi and alam niya he's so much better than the other guys. lol

But the thing that sucks eh sobrang selosa ko. Sabi ko nga sa kanya i can be not jealous but that will mean something. That's how i view jealousy kasi. Ugh. Feeling ko tuloy na parang wala lang ako sa kanya. 

[sacred cow]

Aaaw thanks guys. I thought i didn't push through posting this. Haha! 

Yes yun nga. He trusts me daw kasi and alam niya he's so much better than the other guys. lol

But the thing that sucks eh sobrang selosa ko. Sabi ko nga sa kanya i can be not jealous but that will mean something. That's how i view jealousy kasi. Ugh. Feeling ko tuloy na parang wala lang ako sa kanya. 

then you're the one that needs to work on your jealousy issues, kasi being jealous doesn't mean that you care or
love a person...it just means that you're needy or insecure. If a guy like your bf thinks that he's so much better than
the other guys, then you should also think the same that you're better than the other girls kaya nga ikaw ang pinili
niya. Personally I like guys like your bf (no homo..haha), since these guys got their s*** together and is an alpha male. Consider yourself
lucky kasi most guys are the possessive type and reeks of neediness, sobrang low value...and doesn't garner other
men's respect.

[anon]

But the thing that sucks eh sobrang selosa ko. Sabi ko nga sa kanya i can be not jealous but that will mean something. That's how i view jealousy kasi. Ugh. Feeling ko tuloy na parang wala lang ako sa kanya. 

Hmmm...this made me pause and think. You're equating "selos" with "caring". Makes me think to "fake" it next time and act more seloso. Should I?

[ladysapphire]

is it a red signal or normal lang if a guy isn't consistent in texting/calling you? like say magtetext/call kayo for 2 days straight then the 3rd day di siya nagtext then he suddenly text you before midnight na he was waiting for your text. then like last night as in todo text/call then now biglang walang paramdam. is it normal lang?

situation: new acquaintance si guy, i can say naman na may interest in both parties.

[anon]

is it a red signal or normal lang if a guy isn't consistent in texting/calling you? like say magtetext/call kayo for 2 days straight then the 3rd day di siya nagtext then he suddenly text you before midnight na he was waiting for your text. then like last night as in todo text/call then now biglang walang paramdam. is it normal lang?

situation: new acquaintance si guy, i can say naman na may interest in both parties.

Knee-jerk answers:

(1) May GF/wife na si new guy kaya tahimik on the 3rd day
(2) Naubusan ng load pang text/call

I'd say its a yellow signal...