Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[jtansanco]

^ The issue is not the trainer but your bf if ever. You really have to confirm with your bf that he's straight. Otherwise, it's going to be such a humiliation for you if he realizes he'd rather be bi/gay to be with his trainer. Tell your bf to have a profile picture wherein you're both sweet para todo selos yung isa. 

[FOURever]

Guys! If you have a girl bestfriend before na matagal nyo ng di nakikita tapos nagreconnect kayo at magkikita kayo sa bday mo, anong gusto nyong gift? Lol!

[Awesomecakes]

^ The issue is not the trainer but your bf if ever. You really have to confirm with your bf that he's straight. Otherwise, it's going to be such a humiliation for you if he realizes he'd rather be bi/gay to be with his trainer. Tell your bf to have a profile picture wherein you're both sweet para todo selos yung isa. 

Haha, confident naman ako na straight si boyfie. Yes, he may be the vainest guy I know but I know in my heart na hindi siya katulad ng trainer niya. We've been together for six yrs na (so I'd be the first one to know, lol), and I don't think he would waste that para lang bago niyang kilala. There were times during our college days na akala ko may pagka-gay siya or what pero natatawa na lang ako ngayon. Haha! Yun na nga lang naisip ko, mang-asar eh. We'll be celebrating our 6th anniv na next week, so alam na, more cheesy posts and photos are coming. Hahaha

[sacred cow]

Guys! If you have a girl bestfriend before na matagal nyo ng di nakikita tapos nagreconnect kayo at magkikita kayo sa bday mo, anong gusto nyong gift? Lol!

libre nya na lang ako sa masarap na resto

[FOURever]

^kahit birthday mo?

[junepets]

guyz, what if there is an opportunity sa current job mo... para ma assign onsite (other countries) which will require you atleast 75% of the time nasa ibang bansa ka.. but si gf super clingy...
will you accept the opportunity?

[douxmadchen]

What's up with men who's so clingy to their friends? I mean, yung tipong sobrang emotional pag dating sa friends? Is that even possible, EMOTIONAL? Or bi ba sya or gay? To the extent na iiyak pa pag kausap mo.

I know may tendency na maging emo ang guy pero this too much (I think?). Minsan nakakairita na ewan kasi I don't know how to handle it kasi deep inside, di na talaga ako nakikinig kasi parang OA. Haha, ang sama ko pero kasi 'tong closest guy friend ko, medyo feel ko masyadong malambot. Di naman daw sya gay pero wushu! Whenever I insist on letting me meet his friend (na sobrang crush ko), ayaw nya. Di ko gets. Kaibigan ko sya at kaibigan nya yung guy so anong masama kung magkakilala kami (though wala naman rason para magmeet kami pero syempre gusto ko nga yung guy). Ang clingy masyado, pati friend nya pinagdadamot nya sa akin.

So ano tingin nyo? Is he gay?

[sacred cow]

^kahit birthday mo?

yeah, iba naman bestfriend sa gf e. I wouldn't want her to go out of her way pa and mag todo effort.
she can get me something, but I'd feel bad if I can't/won't do the same for her kapag bday nya naman.

guyz, what if there is an opportunity sa current job mo... para ma assign onsite (other countries) which will require you atleast 75% of the time nasa ibang bansa ka.. but si gf super clingy...
will you accept the opportunity?

depends kung makakabuti ba talaga sa career ko at kung in line sa personal goals ko, kung hindi pa naman
kami ganun ka serious ni gf, I'd take it. LDRs are not my cup of tea, so I'd probably break up with her din...
less drama

[FOURever]

^pwede pero baka may gusto sya sayo pala

[sacred cow]

^pwede pero baka may gusto sya sayo pala

that's her problem...ahaha. in the first place, I wouldn't settle for bestfriend kung sa simula pa lang
may gusto na ako. more reason why I wouldn't want to complicate our relationship kaya gusto kong
stick lang kami to what close friends do so as not to keep her hopes up.

[FOURever]

^hey bro, regarding sa igigift ko, yun nga eh, kasi magkalapit lang bday namin and he was the one who said na may gift daw sya sakin since tagal na naming di nagkikita and it's for my bday na din daw. So sinabi ko sa kanya, i have something for him too for his bday pero he said wag na daw dahil wala daw syang gusto na gift.. Ang labo nga eh? If he was just a friend, isipin ko for sure he's also expecting something in return kaya nya sinabi yun na may gift sya sakin, pero ayaw nya but he's really excited, he even saved money para pag nagkita daw kami and asked me where i want to go, dun kami.. He's really a sweet friend, di naman nakakatulong yung pagsabi nya na wala syang gustong gift.. Syempre naging bestfriend ko sya, i want to give something for him sana especially i can see na he's looking forward sa pagkita namin..

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Yung post ko pala before this, para kay sis douxmadchen yung sa "gay" friend nya may post ka pala @sacred cow before me, so there

[sacred cow]

^hey bro, yun nga eh, kasi magkalapit lang bday namin and he was the one who said na may gift daw sya sakin since tagal na naming di nagkikita and it's for my bday na din daw. So sinabi ko sa kanya, i have something for him too for his bday pero he said wag na daw dahil wala daw syang gusto na gift.. Ang labo nga eh? If he was just a friend, isipin ko for sure he's also expecting something in return kaya nya sinabi yun na may gift sya sakin, pero ayaw nya but he's really excited, he even saved money para pag nagkita daw kami and asked me where i want to go, dun kami.. He's really a sweet friend, di naman nakakatulong yung pagsabi nya na wala syang gustong gift.. Syempre naging bestfriend ko sya, i want to give something for him sana especially i can see na he's looking forward sa pagkita namin..

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Yung post ko pala before this, para kay sis douxmadchen yung sa "gay" friend nya

you could get him a shirt or something "innocent'' like stuff you'll know he'll like tulad ng book (if he's into reading)

[junepets]

depends kung makakabuti ba talaga sa career ko at kung in line sa personal goals ko, kung hindi pa naman
kami ganun ka serious ni gf, I'd take it. LDRs are not my cup of tea, so I'd probably break up with her din...
less drama

yes.. and this is what the guy has been waiting for..
kaso nagkagf sya.. and he is sure she is the girl he wants to spend his life with..
kaso yun nga problem nya.. baka masira relationship nila..

[FOURever]

^^thanks bro

[sacred cow]

yes.. and this is what the guy has been waiting for..
kaso nagkagf sya.. and he is sure she is the girl he wants to spend his life with..
kaso yun nga problem nya.. baka masira relationship nila..

he'd have to decide, the worst decision is indecision. if she's really the girl he wants to spend his life
with pwedeng hindi niya kunin yung offer, but there would always be that 'what if?' kung kinuha niya sana yung offer and it might be a problem
in the future. they could risk LDR and see if they're truly meant for each other since para din naman sa future nila
kung magiging mas successful si guy

[FOURever]

^how about nakikipag deal si guy na 6months muna, then after 6months, he'll decide if he will continue working there or uwi na lang sya to be with the girl especially kung marealize nyang di sya maggrow dun? I know that's a practical decision but may chance ba na play safe yung guy?

[tough_guy]

guys eto sa akin. meron kasi akong crush at alam niyang crush ko siya, parang ng first move na ako, nagkatext kami or should i say ako ang laging nagiinitiate na magkatext kami.....
.....kasi sakit umasa kasi i think i fall na to him ano sa tingin niyo guys na serious ba siya na someday he'll court me?

ito lang yan sis, kung seryoso siya dapat ngaing constant siya sayo, kahit busy siya he has always supernumerary time just for you, i know mahirap umasa but REMIND HIM what he told you last time na

"Sabi niya sa akin hindi pa daw siya ready into a relationship at balang araw daw liligawan niya ako."

alam mo kung bakit ganyan siya? nasanay kasi siya na ikaw ang nagiinitiate na unang magtext kaya iisipin niya, iittetext mo siya every now and then, araw araw. huwag mo ipakita na kelangan mo siya or gusto mo siya. Malay mo pag ready na siya bigla kang ligawan at maging kayo, wag ka lang umasa, baka isipin niya umaasa ka na lang at pinapaasa ka naman niya. kung gusto ka talaga ni guy, siya dapat maghabol sayo hindi ikaw, ang lalaki dapat gagawa ng effort, kung hindi niya ma work out  malamang hindi talaga siya seryoso sayo.

if a guy becomes complacent in a relationship what does the girl do? Dati he texts and calls often now nagmamadaling ibaba yung phone no more i love yous doesnt care anymore.. hindi na rin nagaaya ng dates parang isisingit na lang last minute..

Maybe because you say or do something to really annoy him. if he isn't calling, isn't asking you out, and he has basically stopped all contact, just let it be. when a man becomes distant to you, don't text him or call him or ask him what is wrong. there is a time to express to him but not until he returns. you should not be available immediately when he does call. If he calls today, wait a day to two days before you call him again, dapat marealize niya na nagiging cold siya at namimiss ka niya. pag nagkausap kayo tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable when you don't hear from him for long periods of time. sabihin mo nararamdaman mo na hindi ka na importante and unappreciated sa mga ginagawa niya.

I agree with jtansanco, try to impress him with your cooking skills

Guys! If you have a girl bestfriend before na matagal nyo ng di nakikita tapos nagreconnect kayo at magkikita kayo sa bday mo, anong gusto nyong gift? Lol!

pwedeng tshirt para maalala ka niya everytime na sinusuot niya, size L. thank you

guyz, what if there is an opportunity sa current job mo... para ma assign onsite (other countries) which will require you atleast 75% of the time nasa ibang bansa ka.. but si gf super clingy...
will you accept the opportunity?

kung magiging permanent ito at magiging stable ako dito, sure why not? if si gf ay clingy, it doesn’t feel good to me and probably doesn’t feel good to her either. dapat may communication parin ang bawat isa, ayun kaya nga may social networks you need to realize that one you love has a life which you are a part of. you are not that person's whole life and you should not consume them, for that only brings heartbreak to both of you. do not try to consume their every waking moment of their life; they have jobs and a life outside of you.

[Awesomecakes]

Guys! What if you're about to celebrate 6th Anniversary with your girlfriend. Tapos parang you ran out of ideas na kung ano ang pwede mo ibigay sa kanya, is it normal to ask other girls na hindi naman close sayo? But still you asked her for ideas just because she's a fashionista and you think magustuhan yun ng girlfriend mo?

[Princess_Chill]

guys ano ang mga signs na mahal pa ninyo ex nyo kahit na both kayo may sarili na family?

Are is telling your common friends ng ex mo na hindi ka masaya is admiting that sana kayo nalang
nagkatuluyan ng ex mo?

last...kayo ba iaad nyo sa fb ang ex niyo? why or why not?

[tough_guy]

Guys! What if you're about to celebrate 6th Anniversary with your girlfriend. Tapos parang you ran out of ideas na kung ano ang pwede mo ibigay sa kanya, is it normal to ask other girls na hindi naman close sayo? But still you asked her for ideas just because she's a fashionista and you think magustuhan yun ng girlfriend mo?

it depends parin sa girl kase, iba iba kasi gusto nila, though karamihan ng mga babae may common interest let's say mahilig sa damit pero di mo rin alam kung anong style ang gusto,for me it will be better to ask her if ano yung gusto niya. ok din yung nagtatanong sa ibang girls just for ideas. pero mas maganda parin kung itatanong ang gusto niya para sure

guys ano ang mga signs na mahal pa ninyo ex nyo kahit na both kayo may sarili na family?

Are is telling your common friends ng ex mo na hindi ka masaya is admiting that sana kayo nalang
nagkatuluyan ng ex mo?

last...kayo ba iaad nyo sa fb ang ex niyo? why or why not?

sagutin muna natin ang question number 1, ehem actually di ko pa naexperience yun kasi wala pa naman akong sariling family. As a single, oo nadadama ko na mahal ko parin ang EX ko pag tumitingin ako sa mga fb pics niya. sa tuwing nakakatext (yung tipo na di mo naman kailangan itext pero tinetext mo parin) KUNG MARRIED na, siguro madaming paraan para malimot ang EX, kasi KASAL NA, siguro naman magffocus na lang sa family mo, you should seek support from your family and friends!! Ex na yun eh, do not get back together with someone who made you feel bad about yourself.

^di ko nagets yung 2nd question, haha siguro slow na ko..

Kung iaadd ko sa fb ang ex ko, well it depends. pag nagkaroon kami ng mabuting breakup(mabuting usapan bago magbreak) oo still she was a part of my life. pwede mo naman iconsider na friends lang talaga kayo.. "friends are friends i looked at them nothing more and nothing less"

or

hindi ko na iaadd sa Fb kung naging worst ang breakup (yung parang enemy ang turing ng isa't isa) kung magkaroon man ako ng sariling family- no way na ko makikipag communicate sa kanya. ayokong magkaroon ng gulo at masira ang pamilya ko dahil sa EX  ^^,