Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[Mr.Punch]

^Weird nga. 

Ano ang nangyayari?  Malalaman mo ang kasagutan kung siya mismo ang tanungin mo.

[sportygurl]

mahirap tanungin si bf kasi baka masabihan lang na praning si gf eh. mga guys dito, ano interpretation nyo sa ginagawa ni bf?

[tough_guy]

@ sportygurl baka ikaw hindi mo na sinasabihan si bf mo ng iloveyou? baka may deeper meaning siya, malalaman mo rin saknya.. kasi kung ako di ko na sinasabihan ng iloveyou si gf no big issue, mas maganda na lang na makikita sa gawa at hindi sa salita ang tunay na pagmamahal <3

[sportygurl]

^argh!! sobrang nakakaasar naman yun ganon reply. o nga, bat ganon kayo mga lalake? pa-fall mashado.

[sacred cow]

bat ganito mga lalake? this guy panay ang kino moves sa akin hanggang sa nagkaka-feelings na ako dahil sa ginagawa nia so i decided  to send this message:

"can you distance yourself from me for awhile cause im starting to feel weird and can't make sense out of it. i'm asking you this before it becomes complex. please understand"

eto ba naman ang sagot sa akin:

" i don't know what to say after reading this message. i will do as you wish"

gusto lang pala ng chancing...grrr!!!

anong ginagawa niyang pag kino sa'yo? para gawin ko din...hahaha no seriously
baka naman masyado mo lang binibigyan malisya touches niya o baka touchy lang talaga
siya at hindi naman pa-fall

[sacred cow]

bro, ako lang kasi ginaganyan nia sa mga girls eh...magkaklase kasi kami sa graduate school...he would caress my hair, squeeze my arms and shouder, give me massage,  baka nga na mis-interpret ko lang ...and he would say yun i miss you, tapos pag-inaasar nia ako tapos nagalit ako sabihin nia, i tease you because i like you...pag absent ako sa class, magtetext sia anung nangyari sa akin pag hindi ako nakasagot, masyado raw worried sabi ng mga friends ko, kinukulit sila kung nasaan ako....

baka nga na-misinterpret ko nga lang, grrrr!

the guy obviously likes you, I know kasi ganyan din ako. although minsan ganun din ginagawa ko kapag pinagttripan ko lang yung babae pero
I wouldn't be affected kung hindi pumasok yung girl.

medyo harsh din yung text mo...he might take it na talagang hindi mo gusto yung ginagawa niya, it might cause
awkwardness tsaka gap sainyo. ano ba gusto mong mangyari sa relationship nyo?

[tough_guy]

^naooffend ka ba sa mga ginagawa niya? kung oo dapat malaman niya na ayaw mo yung acts niya para ititgil niya.. or baka naman pinapatulan mo rin ang mga ginagawa niya?

[Princess_Chill]

Guys kaya niyo ba tanggapin na mas successfull iyong babae sa inyo and ano ang gagawin niyo pag nasa ganoon kayo sitwasyon?
tatamaan ba ego niyo kasi ganoon nga?

[sacred cow]

Guys kaya niyo ba tanggapin na mas successfull iyong babae sa inyo and ano ang gagawin niyo pag nasa ganoon kayo sitwasyon?
tatamaan ba ego niyo kasi ganoon nga?

yeah, kahit papano medyo tatamaan pero in the end I can confidently say na
"so what, eh she chose to be with me, it means I have something that others don't kahit
mas successful pa sila sakin" Mahirap masyado ma-ego kung gusto mo manchicks...hahaha

[sacred cow]

@ sacred cow, yaiks harsh ba? may intention kasi is if he likes me then he should tell it, if not...ayoko na ng bigyan siya ng libreng chancing...baka masanay na puro chancing na lang walang patutunguhan...mas okay sana kung may patutunguhan...

natotorpe lang siguro kaya dinadaan sa biro at kino. (btw, san mo napulot yung term na kino? PU jargon yun ah

entertain mo lang siya and just keep sending him indicators of interest, he might ask you out one of these days

kapag hinawakan ka ulit, call out mo ng pabiro ''hey, stop touching me...this sh*t ain't for free, you know"

[sacred cow]

natutunan ko dito sa girltalk, may thread about mga "damoves" ng guy tapos may isang guytalker mentioned about kino    we went out na two times, wala naman pa rin nangyari, ang tagal umamin.

hahaha...ok. baka naman kasi he comes from the school of thought na wag dapat aamin unless
the girl says it first. power play kasi 'yan, kapag umamin na siya, e di nasayo na yung power. so parang
nag-aantayan lang kayo. minsan kasi guys get burned kapag umamin sila too soon lalo na kung
wala pang nararamdaman or wala talagang nararamdaman yung girl para sa kanila. so they'd
rather enjoy the company of the girl and see how it goes, hindi mo naman kelangan sabihin or umamin
to show you love or care for someone diba? eh kung ikaw vocal ka, then tell him personally yung sinabi mo
sa text, irephrase mo lang na kung wala naman siyang gusto sa'yo then he should what he's doing
kasi unfair sa'yo.

[mommy_me]

^ lol...
na friendzone na sya...
though not that makulit naman..
minsan lang pag nagkakasalubong...

he would say 'miss you'....
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may kilala akong ganito eh.. [textspeak!]-[textspeak!] at first mga palipad-hangin.. may pa-iloveyou effect. haaha

[choby tisay]

hello sana may sumagot sakin

bakit may mga guys na laging balik ng balik sa ex gf nila?.

scenario:
bf ang mang iiwan kay gf tapos maghahanap ng iba si bf at sasagutin naman siya nung bago pero after a months babalik nanaman si bf dun sa exgf nia. bakit ganun?paulit ulit si boy sa pagawa ng ganun siguro nakaka 6 girls na siya lahat naman naging gf niya tapos makikipag hiwalay si bf para bumalik nanaman sa exgf nia. bakit ganun?

[FOURever]

How do guys feel kapag nag iiloveyou kayo sa girl na di pa naman kayo tapos di nag rerespond si girl ng i love you too?

And another is.. What do you think when the girl asked the guy bakit sya nag iloveyou and he answered i dont know i just feel like saying it to you. What are the intentions of the guy? Flirting na ba si guy? Hindi dapat maniwala si girl, no?

[ragnar_danneskjold]

hello sana may sumagot sakin
bakit may mga guys na laging balik ng balik sa ex gf nila?.

hahaha. natawa ako sa scenario mo. parang nagsashopping lang. may napili na syang damit pero hindi pa gaanong sigurado kung yun ba talaga ang bibilhin nya. he's going to wear it for months after all.

the girl could be the best he's ever found...among everyone he has dated with. or baka may nakukuha sya sa girl na hindi nya nakukuha sa iba (free sex, free dinner, free movie).

if he can't keep a relationship for long or stay with one person long enough, most likely, the same scenario goes with the other aspects of his life. job, career, beliefs, favorite team, etc. haha.

if you're the girl, don't take him seriously. he could be undergoing through the proverbial "phase" in life. 

all in all, i think he's crazy. haha.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

1 - How do guys feel kapag nag iiloveyou kayo sa girl na di pa naman kayo tapos di nag rerespond si girl ng i love you too?

2 - What do you think when the girl asked the guy bakit sya nag iloveyou and he answered i dont know i just feel like saying it to you.

1- Depends. If kami na, it's a sign there's something wrong. If mejo bago pa lang kami, I understand it would take time for girls to love back. Ouch. If ligaw pa lang, we're hoping that you take it as a sign na this is serious business. If this were Hollywood, we'd hope you will respond with a kiss. 

2 - I don't know. Look for body language like eye contact, intense sweating or running away. He could just be fooling around. It's your task to find out. 

[choby tisay]

wow so profeesional naman ang answer ni kuya  pang papa jack hehe anyway thanks for that. I am just one of his exes gf nagtaka lang talaga kasi ako bakit sa dami dami namin na naging gf niya balik pa din siya ng balik dun sa exgf nia. Ayun ngaun mag 1 year na daw sila at buntis na [textspeak!] long time gf nia. poor girl

[junepets]

i have a colleague.. he is 22 years old.. and his gf/fiance is 10 years older.
the guy proposed to his gf na...
the girl said yes na... kaso.. medyo hesitant pa sya now kasi feeling nya masyado bata bf nya..

question is.. pag ganun age ba (22 yo guy)... serious na ba talaga in a relationship?

[ragnar_danneskjold]

@junepets: our minds, dreams, beliefs change a lot during 20s. young adults nowadays talk about finding their true selves, about what they were born to do. i think the seriousness of marriage proposal isn't the question here. it's whether he can ride the changes in his life--if there's any--and stick to the relationship and his vows. 

[junepets]

thanks @Yes Man.. di kaya isa lang yun pinaguusapan natin?

@ragnar_danneskjold that is correct... and that is what the gf is worried about..