BF na hindi sweet

[alexmack]

I was just wondering kung may iba pang guys out there na hindi sweet sa gf nila, bf ko kasi ganyan  nakakatampo lang talaga wala eh, though super appreciated ko yung pagsundo sundo nya sakin pero aminin natin mga girls na sometimes we look for something sweet na heart melting talaga, like surprises. Hay nakaktampo lang kasi kaya most of the time eh ako ang nagsusuprise sa kanya, kaso di ko naman maramdaman yung appreciation nya by the way mag 4yrs na kami,

Hi sis! Ganyan din si fiance. Ang sabi nya hindi lang daw sya expressive na dati ko pa namang alam pero lately nakakapagtampo na rin since we live in the same house now at kahit napapagsolo kami, bihira lang yung times na sya yung nauunang maglambing. Mas madalas pa rin talaga na ako. Sad lang.

[hushush]

^yun husband ko din hindi din naman sweet (base sa sariling definition ko ng salitang 'sweetness') kumpara sa mga nauna kong bfs nuon...kaya nahirapan sya na pasagutin ako nuon.pero naintindihan ko din sya later on na ganun talaga ang personality nya.very analytical kasi sya at awkward sa kanya yun mga ganung acts..mayron syang sariling way of expressing his sweetness like mina-massage nya ako kahit mas masakit pa yun katawan nya kesa sakin..pag may okasyon lalo na pag bday ko umuuwi pa talaga sya kahit ubos naang VLs sa kauuwi (ofw sya)..then ako kahit gusto ko lang magpahinga sa bahay, sya naman gumagawa ng paraan para icelebrate yun bday ko at maging memorable.mga ganung effort ba...
As per my experience naman sa mga previous bfs ko na sobrang sweet, sila yun mga tipong hindi pangmatagalan kasi dahil sweet sila at madalas bolero pa e sila yun madalas palikero/ babaero..opinyon ko lang yun ha based lang sa experiences ko. No offense sa may bfs/asawa na sweet.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

^ i observe the same thing. the sweetest guys are the ones na may mga other girls on the sides and di pang matagalan. at this stage of my life, after having known my last ex who has such (not sweet, too practical to a fault) attributes, i think i prefer a guy who will not baby me and who will treat me like a grown up woman who can decide and take care of herself. it had helped me mature in a way. and i'd want to become that kind of woman as well, someone na humble, who can bend with the flow of the river (di yung nag-iinarte) and is independent.

[tischarmedlife]

My hubby used to be like that too when we're still bf/gf. Pero nung ni-raise ko sa kanya yang tampo ko na bakit di sya sweet at parang ako lagi nage-effort tuwing monthsary/ anniversary namin, he changed. Although hindi pa rin yung fairy-tale like sweetness, pero okay na rin kase naglalambing na sya, nagbibigay ng gifts/ chocolates kahit wala lang

I think we just have to let our man know kung ano yung sa tingin natin eh kulang or di nila ginagawa. Kahit di nya nature ang pagiging sweet, if he wanted to please you, he'll do his best na iparamdam na love ka nya.   

[MayVerona]

as a boy here hindi ako sweet sa text chat or anything na hindi kami nag kikita ni girl pero pag magkasama kami sobrang sweet ko sa kanya at caring ayoko matapilok sya or masaktan basta malambing lang ako at sweet pag magkasama kami