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BF na hindi sweet
« on: February 18, 2013, 07:37:00 pm »
I was just wondering kung may iba pang guys out there na hindi sweet sa gf nila, bf ko kasi ganyan  nakakatampo lang talaga wala eh, though super appreciated ko yung pagsundo sundo nya sakin pero aminin natin mga girls na sometimes we look for something sweet na heart melting talaga, like surprises. Hay nakaktampo lang kasi kaya most of the time eh ako ang nagsusuprise sa kanya, kaso di ko naman maramdaman yung appreciation nya by the way mag 4yrs na kami,
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2013, 11:56:19 pm »
^ Pareho tayo sis. Yung bf ko naman (1 year palang naman kami) hindi rin siya sweet. May mga times na malambing din pero parang tipid na tipid ba. Nakakairita sa totoo lang.

There would be times na dumadaan ang ilang days tapos ni ha ni ho wala. Kung hindi pa ako magtetext hay naku good luck lang talaga. Sabi niya dati siya yung tipo ng tao na hindi talaga ma-text. Gaya ngayon, pang-3rd day na namin hindi naguusap --- take note sis kahit good morning, good night wala ah.

Minsan naisip ko bahala sya, kung ayaw niya magtext, ayoko rin. Paminsan minsan kumusa rin naman sya noh! lol.  :P
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #2 on: February 19, 2013, 09:07:05 am »
same sentiments  :-\

Kami ni bf 7 mos, LDR. mas mahirap. Although i open up with him pag sobrang dami na tanong sa utak ko. I remember when we had our conversation last dec 2012.  He asked me "what do i need to do, your rules..demands? ransom? I'm in learning process".  This is the time talaga na yung communication namin pasulpot sulpot lang, ni hindi ko alam ano ginagawa niya, in short "walang update". Yeah, I know 1st gf niya ko, ganun ba talaga? Kahit gaano pa kahaba pasensya mo, my times talaga na bibigay ka na. I'm not a materialistic gf, yun lang i greet niya ko ng "good morning sunshine" sobrang napapa smile na ko and kilig. haiz.. 6yrs akong single, before i decided to enter in a relationship.

Ambabaw ko ba?  :(
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #3 on: February 20, 2013, 10:01:30 am »
@bluegirl ... Oo talaga nakakainis. Kasi minsan napapansin ko ako nalang nagtetext sa kanya. Minsan na nga lang hindi pa makuhang magreply! Sobra-sobra naman ata ang pagtitipid nya. Kaya siguro naisip ko sige ipunin mo lahat ng pisong text mo, malay natin yumaman siya dun! haha asar lang. ;)
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #4 on: February 20, 2013, 11:29:00 pm »
Totoo kaya yun pag matagal na kayong nawawala na yung sweetness and effort's niya?  ??? WHY naman kaya?
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #5 on: February 20, 2013, 11:40:00 pm »
naku yan din problem ko ke hubby...pero in terms of texting naman hindi naman siya pumapalya pag di kami magkasama

siya hindi mabigay ng flowers suprises dates..iyong ganoon...pero pag dating sa bahay since wala kaming HH/Yaya

siya naglalaba, saka hugas ng mga pinggan help niya ako sa mga gawain bahay..

ok naman kaso minsan siyempre like mga girls iyong may kilig factor thing...hai
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #6 on: February 21, 2013, 10:15:08 pm »
Kung hindi siya sweet sa ganyan bagay tignan mo nalang mga bagay kung saan sila sweet para may kilig parin kahit papano
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #7 on: February 23, 2013, 04:53:38 pm »
Oh well knowing si bf ay hindi sweet-sweetan I try my bestest (hehe) na intindihin nalang sya.
Yung mga simpleng pag alalay pag naglalakad kami or yung times na nag ILY sya inaappreciate ko talaga.
Nung nagsabog ata ng sweetness si Lord, kasalukuyang natutulog pa c bf eh. lol.
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #8 on: February 23, 2013, 06:00:16 pm »
Grabe nakakagigil nga pag ganyan bf mga sis... Kahit inis na inis kana walang magawa kasi mahal nyo eh

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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #9 on: February 23, 2013, 07:13:18 pm »
 :( Haysss.. lately naiisip ko i let go na siya. Sa sobrang haba ng pasensya ko, umaabot sa point na di ko na siya minsan maintindihan. Minsan dinedema ko na lang siya. Like now, off naman niya. pareho kami online pero parang wala din >:(. Dapat nga mas lagi namin patibayin communication namin kasi LDR kami. nakakapagod  :'(
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #10 on: February 27, 2013, 01:59:17 pm »
Yan ang nakakainis! Pareho kayo online, may internet connection kayo pareho pero ala man lang "kamusta ka, buhay ka pa ba?" haha kahit ganun matutuwa na ako dun.

Wala bang load kamo pangtext? Mag log sa Chikka.com, libre magtext dun di mo need hulugan ng piso.

Hay susme. Minsan naiisip ko mahal pa ba ako nito? Or mas masaya siya kasi may iba nagpapaligaya sa kanya? Pag ganun aba sabihin nya sa akin ng hindi ako nagmumukhang t****. Hindi naman ako mahirap kausap e. tsk tsk.
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #11 on: March 02, 2013, 07:25:31 pm »
same sentiments  :-\

Kami ni bf 7 mos, LDR. mas mahirap. Although i open up with him pag sobrang dami na tanong sa utak ko. I remember when we had our conversation last dec 2012.  He asked me "what do i need to do, your rules..demands? ransom? I'm in learning process".  This is the time talaga na yung communication namin pasulpot sulpot lang, ni hindi ko alam ano ginagawa niya, in short "walang update". Yeah, I know 1st gf niya ko, ganun ba talaga? Kahit gaano pa kahaba pasensya mo, my times talaga na bibigay ka na. I'm not a materialistic gf, yun lang i greet niya ko ng "good morning sunshine" sobrang napapa smile na ko and kilig. haiz.. 6yrs akong single, before i decided to enter in a relationship.

Ambabaw ko ba?  :(


Grabe sis, parehong pareho tayo ng story...LDR din kame and 6yrs din akong single before him at ginawa nya din saken yang minsan lang magparamdam...ang masakit pa nun kung kelan sya nagbakasyon dito sa pinas mas dumalas yung hindi pagpaparamdam so I broke up with him, pero nagkabalikan kame kase he promised na magbabago na sya...nagbago naman konti lang, priority pa rin yung friends kaya ayun sabi ko suko na talaga ako, I stopped texting him, parang gumanti ako pero i did that coz gusto ko mag isip kung iiwanan ko na sya ng tuluyan, ayun biglang everyday na sya nagtitext, aligaga pag di ako nagrereply. Its just so frustrating na kelangan pa namin umabot sa ganun for him to realize that he needs to exert effort to keep this relationship going. Syempre iisipin nating mga girls na di tayo importante sa kanila pag ganun yung treatment tapos pag they feel na lumalayo ka na saka lang gagawin yung mga dapat nuon pa ginawa? Mukang bumabalik na naman sya sa dating gawi, nakabalik na sya abroad...and I really wanna give up on him. Umayos sya! :)
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #12 on: March 02, 2013, 08:31:40 pm »
^
si bf hindi pala barkada, priority niya talaga work.Yeah I understand, breadwinner kasi siya. It's true nakaka frustrate talaga.  :'(

Siguro nga if you really love someone, you need to be more patient and understanding. I'm just praying if he's not really for me, bawiin na niya sakin. Ayoko rin naman na pareho masayang panahon namin.
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #13 on: March 04, 2013, 10:02:36 pm »
^ minsan ganyan din ako sis. naisip ko kung hindi talaga kami para sa isat isa tama na, ng hindi na nagkakasakitan ng feelings at tama ka .... hindi nasasayang ang panahon namin pareho. haist!  :(
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #14 on: March 04, 2013, 10:39:44 pm »
si bf dati ganyan pwede naman turuan kaw yung magpakita ng pagkasweet after nun mahahawa na rin sya di naman kaylangan sabihan kung ano gusto mong gawin nya sayo iparamdam mo dapat.
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #15 on: March 05, 2013, 02:32:55 pm »
For me mga ati, sweet ang mga boyfriend sa UNA. lahat ganyan! eventually Iloveyou's will be seldom na hanggang sa wala na. pero as long as you're very exclusive and you do love each other, there is no reason naman to let go.

pero shempre! tayong girls e gusto din naman minsan ng ka-sweetan. tong boyfriend ko for 6 months, 6 months palang ha!! di na agad sweet! e nang galing ako sa 7 years na relationship na talagang alagang alaga ako. so mahirap mag adjust. pero i love my boyfriend now, kaya okay lang. more like para kaming tropa kaya siguro di na sya gano sweet. :P

hats off sa mga babaeng matyaga :P

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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #16 on: March 06, 2013, 12:06:20 pm »
^ minsan ganyan din ako sis. naisip ko kung hindi talaga kami para sa isat isa tama na, ng hindi na nagkakasakitan ng feelings at tama ka .... hindi nasasayang ang panahon namin pareho. haist!  :(

Sa age ko pa settle down na ko e, kaya ayoko talaga masasayang panahon ko.  >:(
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« Reply #17 on: March 06, 2013, 12:28:45 pm »
Girls, i share ko lang. Last Sunday it's my bf's birthday. Since hes in abroad, January palang, naghahanap na ko sa net ng trusted bakeshop or any online store to buy him a gift. 3rd week of February, finally I searched a bakeshop same country kung nasan siya. Very accommodating yung  owner at the same time baker. Grabe natakam ako sa mga cakes nila nung ibrowse ko photos sa FB. So I decided to ordered customize cupcakes, since yung cake is very common na. I choose what toppers and design. Everything is set. Sunday afternoon, kinontak ako nung bakeshop just to tell na hindi nila makontak yung bf ko, hindi sumasagot. I understand duty siya nun. So binigay ko yung contact # nung address ng company niya na nasa notes ko. After 30mins kinontak ako uli nung bakeshop, just to let me know that my bf is already resign on that company since last yr of September. Grabe, sobrang gigil ako nung time na yun. What I did, I msg him in ym and texted him. I gave the # of the bakeshop and for him to contact it and I greeted him happy birthday with more more exclamation. after 4hrs, pag check ko fone ko my 7 missed calls siya, then nag ring. Sorry siya ng sorry sobrang busy daw niya. I told him badtrip ako sakanya, and kinwento ko why. And he said nagsabi siya sakin last yr sept. na magreresign na siya, I told him, sinabi mo nga pero hindi mo inupdate notes ko. So yun panay sorry, tinawagan na niya yung bakeshop at pinapadeliver niya the next day, kaso nung nasa train na siya, he texted me na didiretso na siya dun sa bakeshop siya na mag pickup coz he's so excited. Kinikilig daw siya kasi 1st time niya. When he got it, sobrang thankful siya at sobrang happy. I told him, yun naman ang main purpose ko to make him happy on his special day. I love you siya ng I love you, and he thanked me a million times. After the surprise, he is now more attentive to me, and super kulet lang niya now. Hindi na niya ko dinededma dedma ;D

Tama si sis airish, tayo magpakita ng sweetness, iparamdam sakanila. Tiyak matututo/mahahawa na si bf.  ;)

Sensya girls haba kwento ko. hihi.  ;D
« Last Edit: March 06, 2013, 01:35:46 pm by schumine »
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #18 on: March 06, 2013, 05:57:57 pm »
Girls, i share ko lang. Last Sunday it's my bf's birthday. Since hes in abroad, January palang, naghahanap na ko sa net ng trusted bakeshop or any online store to buy him a gift. 3rd week of February, finally I searched a bakeshop same country kung nasan siya. Very accommodating yung  owner at the same time baker. Grabe natakam ako sa mga cakes nila nung ibrowse ko photos sa FB. So I decided to ordered customize cupcakes, since yung cake is very common na. I choose what toppers and design. Everything is set. Sunday afternoon, kinontak ako nung bakeshop just to tell na hindi nila makontak yung bf ko, hindi sumasagot. I understand duty siya nun. So binigay ko yung contact # nung address ng company niya na nasa notes ko. After 30mins kinontak ako uli nung bakeshop, just to let me know that my bf is already resign on that company since last yr of September. Grabe, sobrang gigil ako nung time na yun. What I did, I msg him in ym and texted him. I gave the # of the bakeshop and for him to contact it and I greeted him happy birthday with more more exclamation. after 4hrs, pag check ko fone ko my 7 missed calls siya, then nag ring. Sorry siya ng sorry sobrang busy daw niya. I told him badtrip ako sakanya, and kinwento ko why. And he said nagsabi siya sakin last yr sept. na magreresign na siya, I told him, sinabi mo nga pero hindi mo inupdate notes ko. So yun panay sorry, tinawagan na niya yung bakeshop at pinapadeliver niya the next day, kaso nung nasa train na siya, he texted me na didiretso na siya dun sa bakeshop siya na mag pickup coz he's so excited. Kinikilig daw siya kasi 1st time niya. When he got it, sobrang thankful siya at sobrang happy. I told him, yun naman ang main purpose ko to make him happy on his special day. I love you siya ng I love you, and he thanked me a million times. After the surprise, he is now more attentive to me, and super kulet lang niya now. Hindi na niya ko dinededma dedma ;D

Tama si sis airish, tayo magpakita ng sweetness, iparamdam sakanila. Tiyak matututo/mahahawa na si bf.  ;)

Sensya girls haba kwento ko. hihi.  ;D

Awww! Ang galing mo naman sis ... magaya nga yan hehe! :)
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Re: BF na hindi sweet
« Reply #19 on: March 06, 2013, 06:20:59 pm »
try nio mag pa-miss mga sisters, make him feel ignored. Para kabahan naman ng konti at may kick.

 


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