help! baby skin whitening

[slovy]

^sis saan ka ba nanganak.. it's possible nga naman baka baby switching, OMG. pero sis, mararamdaman mo naman kung anak mo talaga o hindi eh, ano ba feeling mo nung una mo sya nakita,  I mean may lukso ng dugo factor ba? kasi regardless sa itsura basta anak mo talaga balewala na dapat yun eh. ay naku sana naman mali ako sa iniisip ko no. tama sila pa dna mo sis. atsaka be positive, mahirap magka ppd. or baka tama yata isang sis dito baka nagka ppd ka na nga. 

[prettygurl00001]

2ndday ko na nakita baby ko after giving birth. Cs ako sis, tulog ako nung operation.bilis ko tinablan ng anes. 2nd day ko na nakita baby ko. Kung hindi ko pa inaway yung nurse e hindi nila dadalhin baby ko sa room namin.

E nasaan naman ang husband mo during that time na tulog ka pa dahil na-CS ka? Ni hindi man lang ba nya nagawang silipin ang itsura ng baby nyo??? Anong silbi ng hubby kung ni hindi man lang sinilip si baby?

[twelvth_goddess]

TS -- Dont think about your baby's skin for now. I think what you need to do is seek help about your feelings. Yes, you love your baby but from your posts, nagkakaron ka na ng negative feelings and thoughts towards him. Let's say ipa- dna mo nga and it turns out sainyo talaga, ano naman mafi-feel mo non?

[bettyboop1322]

^^agree! TS, wala ka bang kasama nung nanganak ka? Di ba paglabas ni baby most of us may pictures agad yung iba nga may pusod pa, taken by someone else kung wala si hubby, other member of the family. For sure di naman mag-isa ka while on CS operation.

[Grayce]

Wala naman siguro masama kung gusto ko pumuti anak ko. Mahal ko ang baby ko. Ng post lang ganun parang ang sama ko na. Hindi ba kaya nga ko ng post dito e para marami ako matutuhan.

masama kasi it seems like as a mom you dont love your baby as he is. yes you "learn" things here but I think it has been posted here over and over that baby's skin colour changes over time and yet you made it sound like you're not really happy with your baby's physical appearance. I pity your baby.. his mom should be the first person who's supposed to make him feel loved no matter what and here you are whining over simple things like his skin colour. can't you just be happy atleast that your baby's normal and isn't sick? and yes if you think that's not your baby then opt for a DNA test to clear your doubts.

[katie_gorgeous]

sis SLOVY - ot muna sis ha. ano milk ng baby mo?? cute taba taba!:)

[katie_gorgeous]

naku sis baby ko din ang itim itim nung 0-3 mos hihi pero ngyon puti na niya. tisay talaga. puti pa sakin:)

[khriseeee]

E feeling ko na mara clara anak ko.  pano ko nasabi? Kasi una iba itsura ng anak ko. Parehas kame maputi ng asawa ko, hindi pa namin kamukha kulot cya maitim. E straight at maputi kame ni hubby. Ewan ko siguro praning lang ako talaga.  tapos wala cya ka type ng blood samin mag asawa parehas kame type o ni hubby.

Wait, you're saying that your baby has a blood type that is neither yours or your husband's? That's alarming ha, genetically a child can only have either of his parents' bloodtype. Like a A and B blood type parents cannot have a O blood type baby, A and B parents also do not make a AB blood type baby. It should be one of the parents' blood type only.

I think you better go back to the hospital. You might have the wrong baby. Did you have to sign a waiver at the hospital that you have the right baby? I gave birth at cardinal and that was a form I had to sign for release, when I read it, I asked to nurse to wait and I checked the baby they were holding, just to be sure.

The only responsibility I gave my husband when I gave birth was he had to follow my baby until they put her baby tag on her and to make sure the tag is correctly labelled! He took pictures rin immediately after birth and even followed her to the nursery. There were 3 of us who gave birth that night (around the same time pa) so good thing I made this his responsibility early on.

Pero no doubt it was our baby, at birth she looked exactly like my MIL/hubby.

[Grayce]

^but possible to get the blood type from relatives diba? my baby didn't get his blood type from me or hubby, same sila ng brother in law ko.

[hunny_ally]

^^thats what my husband did too. He followed the nurse that transferred the baby from the DR to the nursery. He is also given a wrist tag indicating that he is the father of the baby. The details on his tag matches the details on the baby's tag.

^http://www.fairfaxcryobank.com/blood_type.shtml

[ohcmon]

^ So dapat type O ang baby ni TS dahil type O sila parehas ni hubby niya?

That's disturbing.

[princessrio]

for blood types, it's possible that if mother is A and father is also A, ang anak nila is A or O, but never B or AB. same goes for those parents who both have blood type B. the baby can have blood type B or O, but never A or AB. pag ang isa sa parents ay blood type AB, the blood type of the baby could be A, B, or AB (never O). at pag parehong O ang parents, O lang ang pwedeng blood type ni baby.

TS, medyo seryoso ang iniisip mo. before leaving the hospital, chineck ba ninyo si baby? like yung birdie, yung tag, etc.. saka, uso na ngayon yung photography while giving birth di ba? didn't you have one?

[slovy]

sis SLOVY - ot muna sis ha. ano milk ng baby mo?? cute taba taba!:)

sis, pure bm. takaw kasi pero ngayon s26, 2 days na kasi biglang umayaw sa milk ko, I dont know why.

back to topic: galing ako ob ko kanina, and itong issue ni TS kung totoo man sabi nya na hindi nila ka blood type ang baby nila naitanong ko kung pwede ba yun at katulad ng sabi ni sis princessrio, ganun din sabi ng ob ko. isa sa parents kung hindi both, ka blood type ng baby. hindi daw pwedeng wala. at kung o daw both parents, o din ang baby. parang mga anak ko parehong o kasi same o kami ni hubby. so kung ganun this is really disturbing, maaaring baby switching nga ito, go back to the hospital TS and sabihin mo sa kanila ang issue na ito. saan ka bang hospital nanganak sis?

[slovy]

mga sis baka hindi rin nila nakunan ng pic ang bata nung pinanganak, baka rules ng hosp bawal mag picture, meron kasing ganun eh. at hindi pa sinabi ni ts kung sino sa family nya kasama nya sa or nung na cs sya, baka po hindi asawa nya. at sabi nya after 2 days pa nya nakita si baby, bakit 2days pa sis, hindi pala pinalatch sayo after mong magising? at saan si hubby sa loob ng 2 days na yun? hindi ba nya binisita sa nursery? curious talaga ako saang hospital kaya nanganak si ts.. wag naman sana fabella.. serious to ts, kung malakas hinala nyo, bumalik na kau sa hospital where you gave birth.. or better ipa dna nyo nga..

[imeego]

^i agree..actually na-bother ako not because of the issue about skin color but dun sa sinabi ni TS na pareho silang type O nung hubby nya and si baby ibang blood type...ask ko lang sis, are you 100% sure na O talaga kayo ni hubby? better siguro pa-check kayo ng blood type or kung pwede DNA na para once and for all ma-clear na lahat ng doubts mo...the earlier mo gawin, the better...

[icee_star]

Asan na ba si TS? Kawawa naman si baby.. At sana maliwanagan na ang issue na baka hindi niya anak yun? Better go to the hospital and check.

[katie_gorgeous]

haaay kawawa naman si baby:(

[k_heart]

Hay,oo nga. Nakakalowka, either way kung anak or di totoong anak ni TS! I feel for the innocent baby!

Naku sis Jaja, sige balik ka na sa hospital to resolved this. I think unfair sa yo kung di mo talaga kid yung baby but suoer unfair din sa baby na innocent sa mga bagay na ito. Kung nakakapagsalita lang sana sya, he will look for a mom na tanggap talaga at mahal sya no matter what.

[slovy]

yun din tanong ko kung 100% ba si TS na type O silang mag-asawa.. actually, kawawa pareho.. the baby and si TS. DNA lang talaga makakapag confirm nyan. at kung totoo man na na MARA CLARA, sana mahanap pa ni TS tunay nyang baby at mabalik yung bata sa tunay nyang magulang at mahalin sya ng buong puso kahit ano pa itsura nya.   

[k_heart]

pero sa totoo lang, madaming mga mag asawang artista na ang ganda nila pareho pero hindi talaga kagandahan ang mga anak nila.

Hmm, medyo Iba ang feeling ko sa mga pangyayaring ito.