help! baby skin whitening

[slovy]

tama ka ulit sis k_heart hehe.

basta sis TS, wag mo na isipin yun ha? enjoy mo na lang si baby.

nga pala, baka naman sis mapula lang si baby mo kaya akala mo lang dark, ganyan kasi daughter ko eh. ito sis share ko pics nya when she was a newborn para ma-inspire ka at di na mag-isip ng kung ano-ano pa, sabi mo nga maputi naman lahi nyo kaya malamang temporary lang din yang kulay nyang yan.

ito baby ko sis noon:
Shine

At ito na sya ngayon:
Shine

naglighten color nya nung she was 3 and a half months. 5 months na sya ngayon. sana makatulong itong pics ko sis, wag mo na isipin mga sinasabi ng mga tao. kasi kung papaapekto ka naku baka magka postpartum depression ka nyan, mahirap yun. 

[k_heart]

^Ang cute ng baby mo sis Slovy! Ang sarap kurutkurutin ng cheeks! : )

[hunny_ally]

Frankly I'll be more concerned about the purple lips over the shape of the head or the skin color. Purple lips may be an indication of some heart condition

[spacemonkey]

Thank you ulit mga sis, naiyak naman ako. Nag sorry ako sa baby ko. tama kayo iwas dapat ako sa badvibes. Enjoy ko nalang moment namin ni baby.

i apologize if i came off a bit harsh on my post, jaja_0310. i'm not a mom, and i really should've been more understanding and sensitive to your case.

the closest to a baby i have is my niece, who i help take care of. i've heard things being said of her looks when she was born -- how dark she is, how she looks funny, how her head was shaped weird and how flat her nose was.

i guess our whole family was just too overcome by happiness and excitement that her looks never crossed our minds, and we just thought she was the most perfect thing ever made. haha

new born: http://i47.tinypic.com/16bilgl.jpg

in 2-3 months : http://i49.tinypic.com/2jg8840.jpg

[cldy_1981]

^ your neice is so cute! she has retained the pouty lips! cute! babies are PERFECT the way they are

[chefron]

I cant help but react 

Kahit ba sabihin mong 1st time mom ka eh thats not the proper way to react. Ikaw mismo hinuhusgahan mo anak mo by being affected sa mga criticism na nakukuha nyo! Di mo ba naenjoy sya nung lumabas sayo? The moment you saw her, the moment she was in your arms? Mygulay!
Baka nasa lahi ng kaninunuan nyo na may maitim? Do some research about your ancestry baka nga meron. Di yan lalabas kung wala sa genes.

[slovy]

^Ang cute ng baby mo sis Slovy! Ang sarap kurutkurutin ng cheeks! : )

hehe, wag naman kurot sis. iiyak.

[caprice]

TS, naloka naman ako sa yo. hindi pa pala tapos hanggang ngayon yung issue mo with your baby's skin. lumipat ka lang ng ibang thread.

[bettyboop1322]

^Hindi pa pala nakaget-over si TS sa topic na to... 

[hunny_ally]

To the TS, obviously you have issues with skin color. First few days after birth and magtanong ka about that, forgiveable. But up until now? the way I see it you cant get past that to see how wonderful your son is cause all you focus on is the superficial. Wala pang dalawang buwan anak mo parang he can't measure up to your expectations already 

[charmedwitch776]

nacurious ako sa thread na ito kasi baby skin whitening?!

anyways nag backread ako kasi I want to react sana pero after sis TS create this thread hindi na sya nagcomment or react so I think nakapag move on na sya with her baby's color 

sis TS enjoy your baby...mabilis lumaki and bata so enjoy each moment.

happy motherhood!

[jaja_0310]

E feeling ko na mara clara anak ko.  pano ko nasabi? Kasi una iba itsura ng anak ko. Parehas kame maputi ng asawa ko, hindi pa namin kamukha kulot cya maitim. E straight at maputi kame ni hubby. Ewan ko siguro praning lang ako talaga.  tapos wala cya ka type ng blood samin mag asawa parehas kame type o ni hubby.

[santita]

e di ba ja, nung time na pinanganak mo sya normally pinapakita sa iyo yung mukha ng baby mo after? as in me latching pa nga yan e. di mo nanotice that time kung ano itsura ng pinalatch sa iyo?

[akiteklea]

sorry ah, na-curious din ako sa thread na ito...

ni-research ko tuloy yung mga previous post nya. kawawa naman baby mo sis. i think nahihirapan kang i-accept yung itsura niya. i backread all your post hindi lang pala tungkol sa skin ni baby ang problem mo. pati pagiging cone headed and purple lips ni rarant/ nirereklamo mo rin. hayaan mo na sis, normal lang naman yan sa mga newborn babies. mag-iiba pa ng itsura yan. yung kapatid ko nga dati nung pinanganak maitim din, eventually pumuti rin sya after a few months.

just love your baby. maging thankful ka na lang na normal siya. wag mo nang pansinin yung mga taong nanglalait sa kanya...anak mo yan, dapat tanggapin mo sya whole-heartedly...

[jaja_0310]

Wala naman siguro masama kung gusto ko pumuti anak ko. Mahal ko ang baby ko. Ng post lang ganun parang ang sama ko na. Hindi ba kaya nga ko ng post dito e para marami ako matutuhan.

[smoothie]

^Baka hindi na niya ma-recall sis because of the anesthesia. Same thing happened to me.  


Based from my experience, when my 2nd child was born. maitim din siya but after a couple of months ayun pumuti narin. Kasing puti na namin.

[santita]

sis ja, sa post mo lang sa taas, naisip mo pa na baka di mo yan anak. at na mara clara ka. kulot ang buhok, maitim, hindi nyo ka blood type etc etc.

basta reality is, puputi pa yan anak mo, because 1mo palang e. tapos yung dry na skin, kikinis din yan kasi talaga naman nagpapalit ng balat ang mga baby.

maghintay ka lang.

[hunny_ally]

Eh di magpa-DNA if you really have doubts. 
 
There's such thing as genetics...recessive    and dominant gene. Kaya nga may punnet square. 

I had a classmate before who looks very different from her siblings who are mestiza. Turns out her great grandmother was a pure Jamaican. Sa kanya Lang lumabas those features 

[evilwoman]

^^ sis wala ka bang nararamdamang attachment sa bata para paghinalaang di mo sya anak? baka post partum na yan..

[santita]

hintay mo nalang jaja lumaki laki, makikita mo din sino ang kamukha nyan. yung conehead, papantay din yan, baka kasi ready na sya lumabas nun tapos nagpa cs ka pa. yung itim, magiiba yan.

patience lang kelangan mo. or if in doubt, pa DNA mo