All About ADOPTION

[AVIDGOLFER]

hello. goodafternoon  mag-aadopt po ba kayo ng baby? i am 7months pregnant willing po akong ipaampon nalang dahil hindi ko naman sya kayang palakihin. please tulungan niyo po ako baby boy po sya sa june na po kasi ang due date ko. pls contact me 09206188756

Wala ka bang means para palikihin at tustusan ang bata?
Bago mo sana ipaampon eh nararapat siguro kausapin mo muna ang tatay ng nasa sinapuunan mo bago ka mag desisyon na ipaampon. At saka, may legalidad kasi na involve pag ipapaampon mo yan ..sabagay kung internal arrangement baka pwede maampon yan.

[AVIDGOLFER]

Sis, need your enlightenment...paano naging illegal yung hindi mo anak pero ikaw ang nilagay na magulang sa birth certificate? ano ang term na yun legally? same din ba sa lalaking umako sa bata at nilagay nyang sya ang ama sa birth certificate kahit hindi sya ang biological father?

Basically, the process is illegal...Why? it's because the process was not done through legal way meaning "Adoption Process" Kahit pa nilagay yong name not the biological parents still it will end up as illegal because the process was not followed. To adopt a child must go through legal processess, like going to a government agency that takes care of the adoption process (ang office nila ay nasa Kamuning sa gilid ng Ramon Magsaysay HS ang daan nyan) I just forgot the Gov't Office. Mind you I have been to that office to enquire the adoption and I was given a lot of list to accomplish for adoption and it's not easy to adopt pala....dami mga document requirements to submit before an adoption can be granted and just like any other posts here, it will take sometime before you can adopt a child. First and foremost of the requirement is your capacity of finances to support a child, your family history, blah blah..dami papeles kailangan i acoomplish. I remember now..ICAB pala ang Office...Inter-Country Adoption Board...Pero this ICAB as far as I know is only dealing with foreginers willing to adopt Filipino children....pero kung Pilipino ka I guess it's better to inquire from DSWD and I guess it is faster to adopt if you're a Filipino. Kaya naman ako napadpad ng ICAB is because my foreigner colleagues or workmate ask my help to inquire how is it possible to adopt a filipino child.Eto siste ngayon, when I gave him the list of requirements...naku hindi na ako kinausap until now...hahahahah langhiya na yon.

[PinKisH_23]

Good day mga sis.

We're in the process of adoption.

One of the requirements is yung psychological evaluation, may alam ba kayo na doctor na pwedeng mag assess? And how much kaya ang aabutin? TIA

[chelgeneroso]

Good day mga sis.

We're in the process of adoption.

One of the requirements is yung psychological evaluation, may alam ba kayo na doctor na pwedeng mag assess? And how much kaya ang aabutin? TIA

20,000 per person

[PinKisH_23]

^ awwww.. ang mahal naman pala nyan sis. Meron kayang mas murang option?

[shinies]

Hanap ng kakilala ng kakilala.. Mahal talaga kung wala connection.

[imprincessfiona]

Guys need your inputs. Si husband kasi wanted to adopt a baby girl- to be born on January or February next year. Para gustong gusto talaga nya pero ako medyo half-hearted pa. Sabi daw kasi nila kapag nag-alaga ka ng baby mas mataas ang chance na magkakababy ka din ng sarili mo. Madami kakilala si hubby na ganun ang naging scenario-nagalaga muna then nabuntis. Maganda intention ni hubby kasi sabi nya all babies are blessings (I believe so) at saka mas lalo daw kami ma-ble-bless kung tatanggapin namin iyong baby na inaalok sa amin na unwanted pregnancy. Ano sa tingin nyo mga sis? Actually humingi din kasi ako ng sign sa Diyos and it seems He wanted us to really adopt one.

[itsKat!]

Anybody who tried to adopt their own child? like what Kris Aquino did to Josh kasi illegitimate sya and to make him legitimate? Thanks! Just want to know the process. 

[yannuh]

@imprincessfiona : sis dapat 100% sure at committed ka kapag nag adopt kayo ng baby kasi sobrang demanding ang pagpapalaki sa bata. If hindi ka masaya tapos itutuloy nyo pa din ang pag ampon, me tendency na mag away lang kayo ni hubby lagi. Wala akong nakikitang masama sa pag-aampon and open ako sa idea na yan kung sakaling gustuhin man ni hubby😊

[miss resilient]

sis, runaway_bridesmaid every child is a blessing, and pag nag adopt daw, madaming blessing ang dadating.

Parang di naman..hahahha 

[miss resilient]

Kung gaano kahirap mag paannul ng kasal ganun din kahirap mag adopt dito sa Pilipinas.

Sana mabigyan pansin yan ng lawmakers..baguhin process ng adoption. Dapat mas maging madali sa mga magulang na kukupkop ..hindi parusa.

[PinKisH_23]

^ true sis.

Nakita ko yung old post ko dito hehe. We were in the process narin kasi last year. Super hirap talaga ng pagdadaanan namin.

But God had a different plan.

Around a month after my last post, may nag offer ng baby sa mommy ko, the baby came all the way from Visayas with a very sad story. Pinagpasapasahan nalang sya ng kamag-anak ng tatay nya, never been baptized, ni walang birth certificate. Hubby and I were hesitant at first kasi we really want it to be legal, yung right way... kaso ang tagal talaga and our clock is ticking as months passed by. I was 36 na last year and waiting for a year or more is stressful talaga plus the financial aspect of it. So... after consultation with the in laws, we finally said yes and a day after andyan na si baby, inaantay na kami sa bus station with my aunt and cousin.

Now, she's almost a year old next month. She changed me and I'm at my happiest.

[yannuh]

^aww nice story sis. i am genuinely happy for you

[Danicajan26]

Baka may interesado pang mag adopt ng baby? please pm me

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

I am currently 30 years old and planning to adopt before I turn 40. Single but I was thinking mag aadopt ako makapag asawa man or hindi. So hindi pala talaga pwedi piliin personally yung baby? That's sad

[PinKisH_23]

^ sis, hindi daw pwede kasi sila maghahanap ng match for you, sa legal way ito ha. And as per experience, we decided to adopt a baby na never pa namin nakita. We just prayed that she's healthy, turns out, she's a gem.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

^ Congrats sis, since nagpaplan nga ako mag adopt magvovolunteer muna ako mag alaga sa Orphanage, testing the water ika nga.

[sugarcube]

How about fostering a baby or child thru dswd? Any experience? Me and my hubby have talked about adopting but I was thinking that maybe try foster muna. Thanks!

[anna]

I often read that simulation of birth is illegal and DSWD urges interested applicants to go through the legal process of adoption.  Do any of you know anybody who has been imprisoned for simulation of birth certificate?  Do you know of any adoption application wherein the latter was rejected because DSWD discovered that the birth certificate was simulated?  How does DSWD check if a birth certificate is simulated or not?

[anna]

Nakita ko yung old post ko dito hehe. We were in the process narin kasi last year. Super hirap talaga ng pagdadaanan namin.

But God had a different plan.

Around a month after my last post, may nag offer ng baby sa mommy ko, the baby came all the way from Visayas with a very sad story. Pinagpasapasahan nalang sya ng kamag-anak ng tatay nya, never been baptized, ni walang birth certificate. Hubby and I were hesitant at first kasi we really want it to be legal, yung right way... kaso ang tagal talaga and our clock is ticking as months passed by. I was 36 na last year and waiting for a year or more is stressful talaga plus the financial aspect of it. So... after consultation with the in laws, we finally said yes and a day after andyan na si baby, inaantay na kami sa bus station with my aunt and cousin.

Now, she's almost a year old next month. She changed me and I'm at my happiest.

hi sis.  can you elaborate the process you went through to legalize the adoption.  thanks.