Online Dating

[kvandenhaak]

^Oh wow, nangungutang? Hindi ko ata keri ang ganyan. Kaloka! I feel bad for Pinoys na matitino naman kasi hindi naman lahat for sure. I guess, malas lang ako dahil ganon ang nami-meet ko. Meron pa ngang isa, pag-aaralan daw ako. Masunog na parehong kilay nya sa pag-aaral, my underwear is not gonna drop for him..susko!

[mysterioza_me]

^omg dami ko tawa sa iyo sis. Keep your stories coming ang sarap-sarap basahin. Nakaka-inis ang situation pero nakakatawa at the same time and yung iba nakakakilig naman

[kvandenhaak]

^LOL! Oh fresh na fresh na story pa to. Kaalis lang ni guy! He is nice and gentleman. Ni hindi nga ako hinawakan. He wanted to kiss me before he left but I said no. Hindi ko kasi type...lol! Heto ang story:

Na-meet ko sya sa POF siguro mga month ago. We kind chat pero nothing serious. Hindi nga ako ininvite for a date or something. Yesterday, I installed Badoo and I saw him there. I messaged him saying I remember him. He didn't remember me anymore so I messaged him on POF...LOL! Naalala nya ako. So he said, "so, we should get to know each other better". Okay lang ako ng okay. Then he mentioned meron pala syang anxiety disorder. Naka-relate naman ako kasi meron din ako nun. The next thing we know, he said if we could meet. Cut to the chase, he was texting me saying he was downstairs already. I went out and knock on his car's window. He let me in and we talked for a bit. Then I invited him in but told him, I am not looking for a hook-up. Not sure what  came into me kasi usually, hindi pwede ang mga ganyan. I just felt like the adrenalin rush to do something a littlecrazy. Thankfully, he's very nice. Sya pa nahihiya sa akin. Never attempted to hug or kiss me. Pero nagpaalam kung pwede daw...lol! Hindi kako pwede. Hurt naman daw sya. And I told him about the 27-year old guy that I made out with. They belong in the same circle of friends...naloka ako! Hindi naman kami nag-jerjer nung guy so okay lang. His name is Brent and 13 years younger. Pakita ko nga one time mga pics ng nakilala ko online at kayo na humusga...LOL!

[misslovelyjoy]

^Nakakatuwa mga kwento mo sis. Nawawala antok ko dito sa office. Hahaha! Anyway, what's POF? Hehe. Sorry I'm not familiar kasi. I knew Badoo naman through Kimpoy Feliciano coz he tweeted about it once.

[Shadow Angel]

Nakakakilig naman talaga ang online dating. Naalala ko pa kung paano kami naging mg asawa ni hubby. We both thankful sa online dating. We never expect na magiging ganito kami kasaya and magkasundo talaga.

[Girltalker2]

^ 😁
Sis shadow angel, you're really lucky to find your hubby. Parang impression ko kasi bibihira ang makahanap online na swak pa sa personality mo.

Sis kvandenhaak and mysterioza_me, di ko akalain such entities exist!
Usually they offer to pay lalo na sila nagyaya, dapat option nalang natin mga girls if we Want Dutch treat.

Kakatawa nga mga kwento nyo. Out of this world!

And I told him about the 27-year old guy that I made out with. They belong in the same circle of friends...naloka ako! Hindi naman kami nag-jerjer nung guy so okay lang. His name is Brent and 13 years younger. Pakita ko nga one time mga pics ng nakilala ko online at kayo na humusga...LOL!

Small world!

[naizlabonita]

anong mga online dating sites yan? ma try nga 

[Shadow Angel]

^^kahit kami hindi namin expect magclick kami. Una naman di ko sya pinapansin.

Pinsan nya babae na inspired sa amin nagtry ayun halos lahat nakakachat nya nanghihingi ng pera.

[kvandenhaak]

POF means Plenty of Fish. Ang mga sites that I use are:

Tinder
Plenty of Fish
Skout
Badoo
Ok Cupid

Marami pa pero di ko alam kung [textspeak!]-ano. According to this Brent, who is into Asian girls btw, ang mga Asians lalo na ang Pinay sa Tagged daw mahilig tumambay. His last relationship was with a Filipino girl too. Kaso, malakas daw uminom at magyosi...lol! He seems to be a very nice guy but hindi ko lang feel. I really wish I like him so I can close my account sa mga dating sites. He's kinda short at 5'8. I prefer mga at least 5'10 man lang. Mas okay kung at least 6 feet.

[three8one]

Convo with Pinoy

Pinoy: Kumusta po? Matagal ka na palang hiwalay?
Me: Okay lang. Yep, since 2011
Pinoy: Oh, baka ako ang hinahanap mo?
Me: Oh? What made you say that?
Pinoy: Well, I am sure hinahanap mo rin yun minsan.
Me: Let's say I do, eh ano naman pakialam mo dun?
Pinoy: Ang taray mo naman. I am just saying, pwede kitang matulungan.
Me: Patangkad ka muna, uy!
Pinoy:  Di nga ako matangkad pero matindi naman ako dun. Di ka magsisisi. Punta nga pala ako ng Edmonton next week.Kita tayo kahit sa Tim's,libre mo akong kape.
Me:  *blocks the guy* Leche, kapalmuks!

haha! laugh trip ako dito.. patangkad daw muna.. hihi! kawawa, sa umpisa palang barado na eh.

yun pala yung diskarteng pinoy na nakakainis.. palibre amf.

[misslovelyjoy]

Ako naman I've tried na:

Wechat
Tinder
Ok Cupid
Badoo
Skout

I deleted my account na on wechat years ago pa. While sa badoo and skout eh wala pang 24hrs deleted na. Di ko sila feel. Lol. While tinder and okcupid naman eh may nakausap akong matitino and friends with them now. I only have tinder na lang but not that active.

[angeljolie]

Honest question: Do you expect to meet someone serious through those dating sites?

[amethyst028]

When i was on tinder i only swipe right to foreigners kasi di ko feel ang mga pinoy dun. Madami akong ka match but usually visiting, tourist or mga nag work dito pero 1-2yrs lang. pag ganun hindi ko na kinakausap kasi alam ko na ang pakay ng mga yan. Hook up lang.

what i find funny is yung mga chaka na guys sila pa yung mga may "hook up only, just here for fun, not into serious relationship" sa profile nila. kapal ng mga fez. Hehe!

And one more thing nagkalat na rin ang mga nag o-offer ng "pay for sex" sa tinder. Madami kasing guys yun ang nakalagay sa profile nila no to that daw.

[kvandenhaak]

^^I actually do. Kasi marami akong kakilala, successful naman. Pero, isa ata ako sa malas...LOL!

Sana lang hindi ako matanso tomorrow. I have a date tomorrow. We  decided to meet on a walking trail. My only concern is he is an American. He is working in the Immigration and Border Protection sa international airport namin and here via working visa. Dito daw sya na-destino (feelingera ba, sobrang choosy? LOL!)  Twelve years younger (mas okay kesa 19 years younger). Eh kesyo looking for something serious, eh di larga! Kelangan low expectation muna...harharhar! Ang gwapo, in fairness...185cm ang height and 90 kgs. Don't drink and don't smoke. Balitaan ko kayo.

At this time, hindi ko masyadong iniisip kung magiging kami ba? Sometimes, it spoils the fun din kapag sobrang advance. I will just enjoy the moment, ika nga. Kung dun mapunta eh di wagi! For now, something consisent and long term muna.

[angeljolie]

^Thanks sis kvandenhaak! Hehe.  Hindi ka malas. Masyado lang talaga kasing frogs ang nagkalat. Ang tanong ko nga eh how many more frogs before the prince? lol

Good luck tomorrow!

[Shadow Angel]

Honest question: Do you expect to meet someone serious through those dating sites?

Yap sa online ko nakikilala asawa ko. Kahit un ibang nachat ko before him or during Hindi pa kami ni hubby mga serious din. Sa daming pamimilian kailangan maging wise. You should follow your instincts if may redflag kahit maliit na bagay wag mo ng itutuloy. Maging observer lalo sa character baka kasi dahil sa status like stable na or may magandang work good catch na. Ayaw ko ng sobrang sweet or sobrang bait kausap mas ok un marunong magsabi ng weakness nya or pangit nya ugali. If ang kachat mo nakakavideocall mo mas better ayaw ko ng chat lang. Gusto ko nakikita ko everyday na ginagawa at pinapakilala sa mga relatives, friends and coworkers kahit sa videocall lang. Kapag madali kang mafall mahirap if sa online dating ka aasa sa dami ba naman mga pasweet dun.

[eccabogable]

Where do you usually meet guys na medyo disente? I have been lurking around dating sites before, pero walang nagiging successful hehe

[angeljolie]

Yap sa online ko nakikilala asawa ko. Kahit un ibang nachat ko before him or during Hindi pa kami ni hubby mga serious din. Sa daming pamimilian kailangan maging wise. You should follow your instincts if may redflag kahit maliit na bagay wag mo ng itutuloy. Maging observer lalo sa character baka kasi dahil sa status like stable na or may magandang work good catch na. Ayaw ko ng sobrang sweet or sobrang bait kausap mas ok un marunong magsabi ng weakness nya or pangit nya ugali. If ang kachat mo nakakavideocall mo mas better ayaw ko ng chat lang. Gusto ko nakikita ko everyday na ginagawa at pinapakilala sa mga relatives, friends and coworkers kahit sa videocall lang. Kapag madali kang mafall mahirap if sa online dating ka aasa sa dami ba naman mga pasweet dun.

Thanks sis.  Living proof ka pala na online dating can be a success. 

Madami na din akong naka chat pero mabilis ako maging disinterested. Ngayon may ka chat ako mukhang okay naman sya.  Nagvivideo call kami pero hindi araw araw. And when we do, kaming dalawa lang. Hindi ko sya pinapakilala pa sa mga kids ko or kahit kaninong relative or friend.  Do you think he'll see it as a red flag?

 If you don't mind, anong site mo nameet yung hubby mo?

[naizlabonita]

Where do you usually meet guys na medyo disente? I have been lurking around dating sites before, pero walang nagiging successful hehe

I am trying OKCupid now mukang okay naman kaso talagang dapat maging maingat lang.

[Shadow Angel]

^^ako hindi ko rin sya pinakilala agad sa relatives ko pero si hubby ko nun sya pinapakilala ako sa friends, realtives at coworker nya. Actually di lang sya ang ganun kahit un iba ko nakachat nakikilala ko relatives. 

Eto ang dating site na ok para sa akin.

Okcupid
Mingle

Sa mingle ko nakilala si hubby.
Ingat din kasi si hubby ko nun na scam. Nigerian sila mahilig mag scam.