May sense ba magbreak up kahit mahal nyo isat isa?

[najine]

It happened na nga eh..to the point na super puno ka na and stuff sa lahat ng nangyari.

I can really relate to Basia & Popoy [textspeak!] our love story is somewhat like that. same # of years. same feeling w/ basia. We even broke up for a few months the got back din. nagkaroon sya ng "gf" nung wala kami kase he never thought daw na magkakaayos pa kami. He left the girl at kami na ulit.

For now, i cant see myself growing old w/ anybody else but him at ganun din sya. Is it just nanghihinayang na lang sa taon or what? hindi ko rin alam...

[KaraVT]

Sometimes it just won't work anymore, like LDRs. 
What happens is that the relationship forces you to deny yourself pockets of happiness... Such as the regular dates, socializing with friends as a couple, weekend trips.

[bear_touch]

Kahit mahal nyo ang isa't isa kung wala namang progress sa relasyon nyo at hindi naso-solusyunan ang bawat problema, wala na nga itong sense at dapat na ihinto

[prettychestnut]

For me, it makes sense. hinihingi ito ng pagkakataon to explore, and grow on your own and makipag date sa iba. tipong get out of your comfort zone.

Some people naman, they will think that it doesn't make sense. Kasi pag brineak ka ng mahal mo, hindi ka na nya mahal, boring ka or pagod na sayo.

Basta ako, i will prove to him that mali ang naging decision nya na ibreak ako.

Twice nya ako ginaganito.

Hmmppp hehe

[greyzie]

Basia, isdatchu? Paano na si Popoy? Hehe.

ipo-post ko nga rin sana. but that movie is a good example sa case mo TS. if you do break up with him, just be ready for the consequences. maaring maging masaya ka sa decision mo or maaring i-regret mo. so think a thousand times and decide. important thing is you decide and live with whatever decision you've made mas cruel yun you'll keep your bf hanging or paiba-iba ng isip.

[beyoutiful]

I'm feeling the same way. We've been together for almost 5 years and I'm only 18. I really love him but sometimes I have this feeling na parang may kulang. Maybe because I don't feel kilig anymore, we argue most of the time but at the end of day we still make it up to each other. I don't know why I'm feeling this like breaking up with him when when it's obvious naman na love ko siya.

Sa mga nabasa kong comments niyo sissies feeling ko tama kayo we us girls who have this feeling just want to explore, bored, get to know more people or even try to be in a new relationship. Since ako at the age of 13 got bf I never got the chance to enjoy my teenage years like hanging out with different guys

[dumpee.o13]

For me, may sense naman. Just like what a song goes, Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough. Marame pa kaseng factors para magwork ang relationship e' Hinde lang naman LOVE. So kelangan mo talagang pag-isipan at pakiramdaman ang lahat sainyo before you decide. Pag-isipan mo kung kaya mo ba na wala sya, kase dba ba you'll never know his/her importance unless mawala sya sayo. So advice lang, pag-isipan mo hinde lang overnight pero pag-isipan mo nang matagalan. Pero mahirap din naman na nagsstay ka na lang sa relationship dahil sa awa or dahil nanghihinayang ka sa 5-year relationship nyo. Kaya tama sila, THINK THINK THINK!  At ikaw lang makakasagot sa tanong mo

[pinkbubbles17]

well it depends on the situation..minsan yung iba kahit gaano pa nila kamahal isat isa kailangan ng magbreak para sa makakabuti sa lahat..In my case,kahit against lahat sa relationship namin..i won't give up..i love him and i won't ever leave him..we need to be strong para maprove sa kanila na kahit ganun sila na manage pa rin namin to be together..

[krnmprl]

eto natutunan ko the hard way. hindi lahat naidadaan sa pagmamahal. or sa sex 

seriously. you have to feel you are your best self with the other person. na nababago niya yung buhay mo. na you can build a good life together.

[crazycoolchic19]

kapag komplikado..kahit mahal nyo ang isat isa at alam nyong maraming tao ang masasaktan at maapektuhan..kundi talaga kayo para sa isat isa wag ipilit....

[ettevyvi]

Oo naman.

Love is never enough. If that's the only thing you think can make a relationship work, you're getting side tracked by it. It needs communication, commitment, mutual respect, trust and shared values.

[Serena.]

Yes, with considerable reasons.

[Parissydney]

Sis i've been in that exact situation, at almost 5 years din kami, alam mo kung ano ginawa ko para may mapag-awayan lang kami? Gumawa ako ng kwento na may boyfriend ako at nakipag sex ako sa iba kahit wala naman. Oh eto ngayon ayaw na makipagbalikan saken. Sobrang na depressed ako kasi di ko pala talaga siya kayang mawala.   1 year na kaming hiwalay pero mahal ko pa rin siya. Pano ba naman, 1 year pa rin kami magkasama sa iisang bubong. Pero as in wala na kami, may nakakasex siyang iba na nakikita ko pa minsan sa mga damit niya. Sobrang sakit sis. gusto kong mabaliw

[dumpee.o13]

Sis i've been in that exact situation, at almost 5 years din kami, alam mo kung ano ginawa ko para may mapag-awayan lang kami? Gumawa ako ng kwento na may boyfriend ako at nakipag sex ako sa iba kahit wala naman. Oh eto ngayon ayaw na makipagbalikan saken. Sobrang na depressed ako kasi di ko pala talaga siya kayang mawala.   1 year na kaming hiwalay pero mahal ko pa rin siya. Pano ba naman, 1 year pa rin kami magkasama sa iisang bubong. Pero as in wala na kami, may nakakasex siyang iba na nakikita ko pa minsan sa mga damit niya. Sobrang sakit sis. gusto kong mabaliw

^ OMG! this is insane sis. ansaket..

[blackgreen]

Yes, kasi hindi lang love ang kelangan para magwork ang isang relationship. You need to have self respect.

Been there done that. Kahit sobrang mahal namin ang isa't isa, we decided to separate ways kasi we need to grow individually.

[simplybeautiful]

yan din ang situation ko nun. just came in from a 5year relationship. i had this problem with my then boyfriend na parang siya yung tipong happy go lucky na may trabaho pero parang wala namang dreams to succeed sa buhay. tipong ako pa ang maghahanap ng job opportunities sa kanya...etc.. e career woman pa naman ako. hanggang sa napagod nakong maging nanay sa kanya..at naisip ko eto ba ang lalakeng gusto ko para sa mga anak ko? and so i broke up with him...but then after nun..na realize ko na mahal na mahal ko pala siya. until nakipag balikan ako sa kanya and ayaw na niya. kasi daw lagi ko nalang daw siyang nakikitaan ng mali. nag ka GF siya after 3 months we broke up. until now, di pa rin ako talaga nakakamove on. narealize ko yung worth nya nung nawala sya. masaya ako sa kanya and it was rare to find a man as understanding, loving and loyal as him. di ko alam kung nasasaktan ba ako dahil ni reject niya lang ako at pride lang toh or dahil mahal ko sya talaga. ewan. sana time would heal. pero naging regret ko is sana pinagisipan ko ng milyong beses bago ko ginawa yun. i realized i wasn't ready when i left him. when you're gonna break up with him sis..just be 100% sure..kasi ang lalaki... mas madaling makakuha ng kapalit yan. pwedeng pag nakipag break ka..months after meron na agad ibang gurl. ikaw..magaantay ka. kung wala or di mo type..sorry na lang.. 

share ko lang ang lyrics ng Back to December..song ko to since break up namin!

And then the cold came, the dark days when fear crept into my mind
You gave me all your love and all I gave you was "Goodbye".

So this is me swallowing my pride
Standing in front of you saying, "I'm sorry for that night."
And I go back to December all the time.
It turns out freedom ain't nothing but missing you,
Wishing I'd realized what I had when you were mine.
I'd go back to December, turn around and change my own mind
I go back to December all the time.

[papacologne]

sakin naman 5 years kami ng GF ko parang ganyn din sainyo..parang nawalan na ng gana..tagal na kasi namin di naman me maloko na BF.. loyal ,honest at faithful ako,, hatid sundo ko pa un full of effort..till one day..nagkakatampohan na kami kasi di na msyado nakakapagtext..til nakapagbitaw ako ng mga salitang wag kana text dito kahit kelan...etc.

normal lang samin [textspeak!] mga gnun salita sa tagal namin tpos di [textspeak!] nagtext mga 1 week...
ayon doon ng nagsimula ang lamat dami n pinagaawyan hanggang sabi ni di n daw katulad ng dati nararamdaman nia.prang gumagwa lang ng paraan pra pagawayan..

ayon wala na kmi..

tpos sya my ka MU agad weeks plang break up...sakit...

i dunno if she still love me pa kahit sinasabi nia yun last kita namin..di na rin kami nagtetext..

kaya END ng nga 5 years of love story ko

[ettevyvi]

narealize ko yung worth nya nung nawala sya.

Alam mo sis, the fact that you said this, mas okay na nagbreak kayo. Biruin mo, he already had a replacement kaagad? Plus, 'yung tipong walang patutunguhan sa buhay? Hindi mo naman kailangang ayusin ang buhay nya e. Tama ka, you're not his mom.

Hindi laging sapat ang pagmamahal. Hindi lang pagmamahal ang bumubuhay sa relasyon. Madami pang iba. Dahil kapag 'yun lang ang dahilan, hindi 'yun magtatagal.

[simplybeautiful]

Alam mo sis, the fact that you said this, mas okay na nagbreak kayo. Biruin mo, he already had a replacement kaagad? Plus, 'yung tipong walang patutunguhan sa buhay? Hindi mo naman kailangang ayusin ang buhay nya e. Tama ka, you're not his mom.

Hindi laging sapat ang pagmamahal. Hindi lang pagmamahal ang bumubuhay sa relasyon. Madami pang iba. Dahil kapag 'yun lang ang dahilan, hindi 'yun magtatagal.

thanks sis. yun nga e..lagi ko nalang nireremind ang sarili ko na mabuti ng nangyari yun kesa late ko pang pagsisihan.  mahirap man pero kailangan kayanin..andun nalang yung faith ko kay Lord na i will meet someone better and more deserving. nako ayoko nalang magcomment sa bagong gf niya. sabi nila patay na patay daw sa kanya yun e. hanggang sa nadevelop siguro siya. bahala siya. it just shows how much immature he still is. di man lang niya pinagisipan ang mga nangyari samin... o well..

[ettevyvi]

Ibig sabihin, he really doesn't value what you had.. I know, still moving on from a breakup too pero we have to.

We should not lose hope. We should not give up on ourselves. ^_^