Girls, do you ever dare TO BE THE FIRST tell your feelings to a guy you like?

[dkbgutierrez]

A definite NO NO for me.. Maybe I can drop some hints if I think he's into me but I will never ever tell directly. Feeling ko matatapakan ego ko hahaha

[DaintyMe]

Never! Sobrang mahiyain ako. 

[MaitaOfMakeupOnDemand]

Never Kahit sobrang obvious na, hindi ako aamin ever.

[jerbos]

I've done it before. I have this very good friend na as in sobrang ka close ko. Almost all ng lakad ng group namin kasi ang buddies. We stayed and talked on the phone for hours and hours na anything under the sun ang topic.
Untill there was some gestures na hindi na nya normal na ginagawa. Yung mga actions na he never done before sa ibang girls na kasama namin sa group and sa akin lang nya ginagawa.
Ayun dahil masyado kong binigyan ng kulay ang mga sweet gestures nya, unti unti i was falling for him na yata. Till one of my friends notice na baka daw there was something going on between us two kasi sobra naming sweet, which apparently madami palang nakakapuna kasi extra sweet talaga sya sa akin.
So i gather all the courage and wrote him a letter telling him how i feel. Which was a wrong move pala. But i thought kasi na since we are good friends he will understand. I should have waited na lang pala sana. Eventually nagkailangan kami and nauwi sa pag iiwasan. pero as time goes by, we realize na our friendship means more than anything so we become good friends uli.
Pacencia na ha... long read.....

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

Oh my god scary, pero parang gusto ko pa din gawin, kasi baka mag end of the world na magsisisi ako pag di ko nasabi, though di talaga ako mag eexpect 

[Serena.]

No i would never do that. lol courage sucks.



xxx

[alexii]

A big NO. Ayaw ko kasi mareject kaya ganon. I hate rejections at para sakin kung gusto ko yung guy, papakiramdaman ko tapos kung walang paramdam or something, NEXT please. Madami namang iba. 

[Shadow Angel]

Never... masyadong mahaba ang hair ko para gawin ko na ako maunang magconfess...kapag naging kami maiiisp nya this girl girl sobrang mahal ako baka ma taken for granted pa pagganun..ang swerte naman nya if ako pa magconfess wala man lang kahirap hirap kung tayo nya dun lang kita mamahalin ng bongga bongga pero kung mag friends lang no way na ako mauna..

[douxmadchen]

Before you can say you love a person, you must have greater love for yourself first. So that's a NO for me.

Siguro I can just continue on giving him hints until he admits he likes me or kung ako si pakipot at nagkamali then saka ako gagawa ng move ko. But then again, he gotta admit it first.

[babychellee]

dont do it, lalo na sa mga GOOD CATCH na guys. naku po, may friend akong girl na ginawa yan. sobrang naturn off yung lalaki. nalaman lang namin yung totoong feelings ng guy kasi may common friends kami. ang sabi ng guy sobrang agresibo daw ni girl.

let the guys do it. they love chasing games. kung gusto ka nila, sila gagawa ng paraan. obviously kung hindi ka nila gusto, they will not exert any effort.

[cute_pompom]

Never. I don't think it's proper for us girls to be the one to confess to guys even if we like them. Guys still prefer to be the first one to tell. And even if you already feel that the guy likes you, there's no guarantee that he'll court you. Even if you dated several times, it doesn't mean that he already has feelings for you. Sometimes, they just want to get to know you better and see if there's a chance that he'll fall for you. In some cases, guys will suddenly stop communicating or asking you for another date. So let him be the first one to confess.

[colorgirl]

dont do it, lalo na sa mga GOOD CATCH na guys. naku po, may friend akong girl na ginawa yan. sobrang naturn off yung lalaki. nalaman lang namin yung totoong feelings ng guy kasi may common friends kami. ang sabi ng guy sobrang agresibo daw ni girl.

let the guys do it. they love chasing games. kung gusto ka nila, sila gagawa ng paraan. obviously kung hindi ka nila gusto, they will not exert any effort.

Paano kung torpe si Good Catch?

[fxy111]

i cannot kahit gusto ko man gawin. especially now that i met this guy and na feel ko na pwede. i also know that he asked for my number sa friend namin (although he said for business)  pero sabi nila torpe daw...so ayun, just waiting.(i'll give hime until this weekend para mag paramdam kung wala siguro hindi nya ko type)

[clouds_1028]

I did this to my bestfriend nung HS, sayang kasi siya yung una nagkagusto sa akin kaso naman grade 6 pa lang kami! Anong alam ko sa love! Tapos nung ayaw na niya, gusto ko na siya. Long story short, tagal namin magbestfriend, then eventually sinabi ko sa kanya feelings ko kaya gustong gusto ko yung movie ni Jolina and Marvin. Hahaha!

Last guy I confessed my feelings to was the guy I cheated with. Thesismate ko siya and super temptation talaga siya.

Its a liberating feeling to do it pero at the same time nakakahiya din lalo na kung hindi naman niya irereciprocate. Hahaha!

[angelzero]

i did once in hs. yikes! nakaka trauma. yung crush ko pa naman isip bata. lalo akong nainis on how he responded.

[tina14]

natatawa ako habang nababasa ko to. naiisip ko kase kung pano kami nagsimula.

yes i did and ang masaklap/masaya pa. ako nangligaw sa current/first bf ko! waahahahahaha

as in dun ko naranasana kuntsabahin yung guard sa office na magiwan ng food.

at yung una naming valentines na magkakilala, ako nagbigay ng regalo. 3 dogs na pwede isabit sa kotse at pag pinindot mo. umiilaw at sinasabi. i love you. tee hee!. 

[angelzero]

^sana ganyan din ako ka-fearless

[tina14]

@ sis angelzero - hehe. sis di ko din alam kung anong espiritu sumapi sakin may drama pa ko nun na "don't fall in love sakin kesyo masaya na ako lang nagmamahal dahil alam ko may mahal kang iba"

may linya pa kong "hayaan mo lang ako mahalin ka dahil dun ako masaya. bonus na lang kase pag dumating yung time na mahalin mo ko."

kakaloka. 

kapag inaalala ko yun. natatawa na lang ako. 

[bethisme]

sis Tina magaya nga yang sayo.haha.
ako sa bestfriend ko thrice ko ata sinabi sa kanya feelings ko. una, sabi niya na friends lang daw.after a month parang naging mas sweet pa siya tanong ulit ako kung love niya na ba ako, syempre friends pa din. pangatlo nung nag iloveyou na siya sakin. tanong ulit sabi niya mahal na niya ako pero hindi pa daw niya alam

ngayon ganoon pa rin kami hindi ko alam status namin,sabi niya hintayin muna namin ang tamang panahon kasi sa ngayon daw ay may problema pa siya.

so sige hintay ako pero open na ako sa ibang guy. Tse! pag nakahanap ako ng iba bahala siya!!! (sana hindi maging baliktad ang mangyayari na siya ang makahanap ng iba.haha)

[froggy21]

Parang hindi ko kaya, kahit na gusto ko na gawin. Natatakot among mareject, malayo kasi ako sa standard niya, hindi kami bagay. Lilipat na siya ng work, magkakalayo na kami kaya gusto ko na sAna itry sabihin, but I'm really scared.