Girls, do you ever dare TO BE THE FIRST tell your feelings to a guy you like?

[freelancer_babe]

or forever hold your peace?

For guys, what do you feel if a girl would really dare tell that she likes you? I heard it's just okay to hear this from "brave" girls, right?

Thoughts and experiences, mga guys and sis?

I believe this varies with age. 30+ ladies would rather tell their feelings outright?

[mooncake and leaves]

I'm not sure I understand the question. You mean, do we ask guys out we like in order to tell them how we feel?

[freelancer_babe]

^ Sorry, sis. I mistyped the subject. hehe. Buti na-edit ko pa. 

You're right in understanding the question.

[inluvewithmikewesten]

I wish I could tell this guy that I really really like him, but I don't have the courage I'm so scared. It probably depends sa personality ng girl.

[karmark16]

Yups. I did it. First time kong mainfatuate sa isang guy and guess what? I got rejected. Super awkward nung moment na yun nung hinatid niya na ako pasakay ng bus, I even told him I was willing to wait for him, and he did not answer. I was crying in the bus the whole trip. Nagayos pa ako ng bonggang bongga for him tapos he made me wait for 3hrs sa mall, ako pa nanlibre sa kanya, Kapalmuks di ba? Anyways, it was painful pero I was lucky because after I got over my stupid feelings for him, nakilala ko naman ang aking bf. Then I realized na God really has better plans for me.

[yellowkitten]

I was the first one to tell my current boyfriend that i loved him. we were together for 1.5 months then palang. but i just felt so close to him. so i said it. he said it back pero i feel like it was forced.

after a week, we talked about it and he said that he does love me. and i should know that i'm the first girl he's said i love you to. that's why he was not used to saying it. haay the kilig. whenever he says it now i appreciate it so much more knowing that i'm his first love.

[mharickar]

nangyari na sakin to last september or october ata, nag-confess ako ng feelings dun sa teller namin, kasi i love him na ata.. i said i love you (pero text lang) tapos after 2days ata nagtanong kung serious daw ba ko sa sinabi then i said yes.. natawa lang ang loko!! feeling ko napahiya ako nun that time.. di man lang nya na-aapreciate ang effort ko.. hehe.. i was rejected nun, malay ko bang may gf sya the following month ko na nalaman.. so yun, heart broken ang drama ko last year.. hehe.. pero ok lang atleast nalaman nya yung feelings ko for him, kaya no regrets.. grabe first time ko lang ginawa un.. hahaha.. 

[superbubly]

nung grade 3 ako hahaha ginawa ko yan at sa unang pagkakataon nabasted ako buti na lang natuto ako at never ko ng ginawa pa ulit after ng incident na yun. Medyo masakit pala yung feeling na mabasted ka ng taong gusto mo hahaha

[sakura_bloom]

I won't be the first to TELL it. Pero kung gusto ko talaga yung guy, tapos hindi naman siya dense or low I.Q. mage-gets na niya ang feelings ko, kahit hindi ko i-vocalize. Pero I won't be the FIRST to TELL/SAY.

[abuanddiego]

I did this months ago, all this time kasi, we have been really close for almost 3 years, akala ko same kami ng feelings. At first akala ko he really wants a relationship, kasi he told me sweet words chuva chenes, pero minsan magulo kasi parang di naman sya interested, so dumating yung time na kailangan kong malaman once and for all ano na nangyayare samin, kasi everytime tanungin ko ano ba ako for him, di nya masabi kung ano ba ako sa kanya pero kung kausapin ako laging may kasweetan. di ko na natiis, inamin ko talaga na may feelings ako, at di ko kayang lokohin sarili ko na di ako nasasaktan, ako pa naman kung gusto kong malaman ang sagot, kating kati talaga ako, di ako mapapakali hanggat di ko naitatanong at di ko nakukuha ang sagot. Ayun, sinabi sakin na friendship lang daw talaga ang gusto nya. He told me that he won't let me go because I'm special and friendship daw ang foundation ng lahat, and leaving is not the solution daw. Pero mahal ko sarili ko and I won't stay in that kind of relationship, nakuha ko na ang sagot sa tanong ko and I don't have any reason to stay. It has been 6 months na di na ako nagparamdam, but he keeps on telling that he misses me as if walang nangyare. Kakalungkot lang kasi may mga tao pala talagang selfish and insensitive to the highest level kahit na maganda ang pinakita mo all throughout the years that you've been together

[freelancer_babe]

Been reading comments.

Seems like most sisses here have tried and didn't like the experience.

So it's not really worth it to tell - else you suffer disappointments, not to mention, the shame you have to endure for making the first move. Masisira rin pa ang great friendship.

Some guys are really that super friendly then, but they could still be not into you. 99% the guy is not really into you and would just be after the friendship.

But to a girl, well, at least nalaman na nya kung ano ba talaga.

[shenka]

I was the first to tell about how I felt to my then best friend, now my hubby. Kasi naman ki-niss nya ko! I asked him sa text lang kung mahal din nya ko kasi baka mapahiya lang ako e..LOL.  anyway nagreply naman sya sabi nya di sya sure kung love ba yun pero ang alam nya he cares for me a lot. He told me na lalayo muna sya pero I asked him to stay the same. Kalimutan ko nalang na hinalikan nya ko. LOL. To cut the story short, when I went here in SG to work dun nya sya nagtapat na mahal nya ko. Na realize daw nya nung umalis ako. Btw officemates kami sa previous company. 

[@JLO]

ako hindi naman pero nipilit nya kong umamin eh so ayun na pa oo ko... pero naiinis ako bat ako umamin at naiinis ako bat nya ko tinanong wala naman pa la syang gagawin action after... just to add to his ego lang ata yung ginawa nya which is unfair

[superbubly]

Never ko gagawin yan

[linacheng]

Last year,muntik na.. haha pero failed eh. I really liked this guy in the office, pero di ko alam kung love ko na ba siya or gusto ko lang. Nagtetext kasi kaming dalawa that time eh, so medyo malakas loob ko magconfess, tapos nung magrereply ako sana na may "I love you", di nasend, wala na pala akong load, prepaid lang kasi ang lola nyo. haha..

Pero after that di na ako nag-attempt at na realize ko, crush ko lang pala siya. Then it just faded. Wala na yung kilig, wala na yung feeling. Sa ngayon friends kami, magkabarkada. Pero for sure, matatawa yun ng sobra at aalaskahin ako ng todo pag nalaman nyo na may HD pala ako sa kanya nung una. .

[k_heart]

Nung single pa lang ako, a big NO!

Hindi ko utang na loob!he!he!

[jhaie]

Yes, I dared.  We were at the point where people are asking kung kami na.  I was also thinking the same thing so I asked him and told him that I was willing to risk the friendship.  E siya hindi daw. I was so broken and shattered, but I was able to move on.

Will I dare to do the same thing again?.....I don't think so.   

[chocnats]

I did this when I was in high school. Crush ko kasi yung guy and sinasabi ko kahit sa harap ng maraming tao. Pero pajoke effect lang. Tapos minsan niyayaya ko pa siyang lumabas. Parang tuloy ako ang nanligaw. Haha! Ang ending: naging kami at tumagal rin kami ng more than 3 years although sadly, di rin nagwork out. Balita ko may anak na siya. Hay, namiss ko bigla ang high school days.

[pinkbubbles17]

I'll will not make the first move..I'd rather wait for the guy..

[anirazc anasor]

i have no guts to confess first sa guy na gusto ko.. di ko kaya humiliation once turned down.
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