No boyfriend since birth at 29 - advice?

[phoebe1811]

makipag socialize ka more..i had friends na 30 na sila la parin sila boyfriends..now palang ata sila naliligawan

[xxmiakaxx]

hay sis  me nga im 28 and NBSB din    or sabihin na ntin  [textspeak!] pang serious  relationship ever
nun 6th grade and  high school  siguro masasabi ko  medyo naaliw pa ako  ganyang felling masaya
inspiration,   pero in the long run naisipan ko hindi pa siguro ako ready  ... untill this time
ewan ko ba kung bakit parang end of the world na kung pag usapan ako ng ka batch ko  kung kelan ba ako mag aasawa .... sabi ko pwede ba   kasal agad agad talaga ..... boyfriend muna ...
pero seriously  wala  talaga akong time para doon ... ok naman ako sa life ko  and Being single is a choice   

[rainbow11]

being NBSB is just a small portion of a woman's personality. instead of looking at it negatively, pwede namang iproject nalang sa mga tao na choosy ka lang. as much as possible, tell your inner self na hindi ka bothered about sa status mo.. The rest will follow, it will show on confidence and the way you speak when someone asks you why are you still single. by doing so, sa ibang bagay magiging focus mo, mawawala yung self-pity, and single guys will find you interesting.
hope this helps!

[Girltalker2]

^ agree sis!

Tsaka what would you rather have, live your life miserably as it is now. Or try some things differently, and who knows, baka maiba naman takbo ng buhay mo. You have nothing to lose by trying new things to improve your life. Para sa iyo din naman iyan.

[Serena.]

Tell her to socialize more. Try to mingle with proactive people. That having boyfriend doesn't mean a girl is pretty but being loved. HTH!


xo

[Girltalker2]

^ sis sprinkledust, hanggang ngayon ba, ganun parin ang friend mo? 

what has she done since the time you first posted about her? tagal na nun ah...

[JakeTheDog]

I think some girls have the idea of knights in shining armor or prince charmings on story books. This rarely happens. You can't wait for love, you have to go out there and let love hit you on the face 

[iammegirl]

Guys, e paano kung wala ka naman mga friends na may mga guy friends? paanu ka makiki mingle sa iba diba?

[Chinito]

hahah. natutuwa ako sa thread nato..

meron pa  palang mga untouched na 29 years old.

[angelzero]

i have a couple of friends who are 29 and NBSB. some are by choice, most of them not--meaning they want to have a bf already. what i tell them, it has nothing to do with your looks. it's how you handle yourself: your posture, your body language and self-confidence. i always tell them "daig ng flirt ang maganda" (i edited the quote for wholesomeness hehe). and they should get over the idea of a prince charming who will sweep them off their feet. meeting potential dates requires a bit more of going out and socializing esp. if they can't find potentials in their place of work or church or wherever they're exposed to on a regular basis.

[izzza]

It's not embarrassing at all! Ako I had a couple of boyfriends but puro short term relationship lang, and I'm absolutely not proud it. 

[JakeTheDog]

Okay lang yan. Di kawalan ang mga lalake 

[babychellee]

ako mga sis hindi naman ako kagandahan, pero naka tatlong bf pako. and now im about to get married. in between those official bfs, madami pako naka-date na iba. although iyung iba, masasabi nating "epic fail" hehe. 

KASI sa totoo lang..it comes with CHARM! 

you should learn the skill of getting close to guys without having malisya or hiya. treat them like how you treat girls especially if you just got to know each other.

isipin mo..ano bang meron ka na nagustuhan sayo ng friends mo? its basically being YOU. so dapat yun din ang makita sayo ng mga nakikilala mong guys.

[angelina08]

believe me i have 2 friends who never had a boyfriend since birth at 29, so you're not alone, and i don't think they'll have a bf any time soon, in fact they are blissfully happy with their lives...and they're not at all lesbians

[inluvewithmikewesten]

Sis, I wish na swertehin din ako like your cousin hahaha.

Ang sabi ko na lang kay God, because you made me wait this long, give me the best guy haha!

I'm NBSB din, which is alright with me. This matter only seems to affect me when I'm broke. I get depressed with almost everything when I'm broke and, and lagi ko naiisip I wouldn't be this said if I had someone.  But when I have money, wala lang masaya pa din.

[juni]

Don't waste your time waiting for a guy to come dashing in--use it wisely, get to know yourself better and focus on being the best person you can be.  It's such a blessing to have this opportunity to work on improving yourself without the interruptions or distractions that a relationship brings.  So grab it--if there's a language you've wanted to learn, a class you've thought about taking, a hobby you've been interested in, a place you've longed to visit, e di game, do it.  There is more to life than guys, and there is a great big world out there.  GO AND GROW. 

[j.adore]

"God will give you the best in his own time."

I have friends over 30 who are genuinely happy with their lives kahit di pa nagkakaboyfriend.
Just because it's happening to other people, doesn't mean it has to happen to you to. That's insecurity, jealousy, and too much norm following.
Grow yourself instead and see what life has to offer you.

[chocochips_31]

Wag mawalan ng pag-asa. Just enjoy it muna.

[sprinkledust]

Girls, is there still hope for 30+ ladies who still haven't had a boyfriend before?

How do they take away their worries about not having a relationship?

[pret_ty68]

^
There's a hope for everyone, there are even senior citizens who finds love at their age.

Don't worry much about your status i know it's easier said than done, but I believe that the more you worry about something the more it will become elusive. Enjoy life. Be happy on your own whether he arrives in your life or not.

Actually there is nothing wrong in not being in a relationship, it is just that society makes us believe that we should be with someone. Kanya kanya tayo nang kapalaran may for married life may hindi. Pray. Let Go of your worries. I believe that nothing is impossible to God. If he wants you to be with someone he will arrange the events for you to meet, but it does not hurt also to join activities where you might meet him, but join the activities because you want it not primarily because you want to meet someone who could be your significant other.