thanks sis marose, i appreciate it. will definitely do that. we have plans already.
and also, aside from the professional side; i have this guilty feeling na as him being the bunso, kulang ako ng attention sa kanya (working mom with other 2siblings).
so pag-uwi ko kanina, i observed him the whole morning kanina (have to sleep after lunch kasi nga from nightshift).
fortunately, i have recent discoveries on his development.
there are a few points that contradicted some of my answers on my previous post.. i based it kasi on what i see on him before (his summer classes).
here are some of them.
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seems to prefer to play alone : he plays with his ate and kuya... they call it pa nga baby club. as in join sya.
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does not respond to his/her name. called him on different occasions, he responds (although meron pa ding times na hindi. aside from his nickname, meron din akong ibang tawag sa knya...hmmm, bka may epekto din ito.
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has language skills or speech that is delayed. - yes may delay talaga, but then meron akong pinagawa sa kanya on saying and demonstrating using his hands: circle and diamond - he enjoyed doing it. and let him follow the word circle and he did say circle!

so i have to keep on repeating this to him.
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doesn't follow directions. - this one, have to cancel this, tried to give him few directions and he obeyed! have to ask some more. yipeee!
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seems to hear sometimes, but not others. - hmmm.... have to test this some more. esp with the one recommended by sis marose (play audimetry) kung meron nga ba hearing prob.
pero alam nyo ha on our self-test sa kanya: nasa bedroom sya ha, nagmi-milk. the computer is nasa the sala, once binuksan namin si PC hayun, mabilis pa sa alas-4 andun na sa PC. dinig nya kaagad!
so sabi namin ni hubby, hindi bingi to...
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used to say a few words or babble, but now he/she doesn't. - not talking on his own but pag pina-follow mo sya, he will say it naman.
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throws intense or violent tantrums. - this one, na-lessen ito after namin sya i-summer class.
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is hyperactive, uncooperative, or oppositional. - yes pa din ito, although as with my meeting kanina with her preschool teacher, he obeys daw (1st few days, hindi daw talaga but then nag-follow din daw. in fact, nagulat nga daw sila kasi parang naka-adjust kaagad sa classroom).
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has poor eye contact. ---> this one, im so happy to say, he did have an eye contact!!!
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seems to be in his/her "own world." --> not that much (after nga the summer class)...
but then, tuloy na sya with the pre-school this year and pa-scheduel with a DP.

sorry ulit pasensya, haba ng kwento ko.