Is it a Husband's Duty to Drive for the Wife

[TysLolakins]

not anymore in this day and age kasi pareho ng nagda drive ang husband and wife.
after work and on weekends, he still does most of the driving kasi di daw niya type ang driving style ko  .
pero if he has something to drink, i drive, mahirap na maDUI.

[Michipot]

for 9 yrs, si hubby ang driver ko... recently lang ako nagaral ng driving hehe

[Alucard]

Not a duty. More on CARING siguro for your wife especially if wala ka namang ginagawa then I can drive for my wife. But if schedule does not permit then we need to adjust..

[Mommy•Shey]

No. It's not his duty na ipag-drive ang asawa niya, ano siya driver? Kumuha ka nalang sana ng  driver talaga  .

Though sa tagal na naming magkasama ng asawa ko, siya talaga ang nagda-drive. Kahit saan kami magpunta, because I don't know how to drive yung mga Manual Trans na car, Matic lang alam kong i-drive  and Scooter. Pero hindi naman niya duty na ipag-drive ako whenever na aalis ako, siyempre, may mga ibang bagay din siyang need gawin. Kung kaya naman mag commute why not diba? Kung nag offer siyang ihatid at sunduin ka, better yun.

Pag sinabi kasing "Duty", parang ang dating eh, responsibilidad na agad. Yung "DAPAT" gawin kasi pag hindi ginawa, malamang may magagalit. Pero sakin hindi big deal kung ipagda-drive niya ko or hindi, basta wag lang niyang ipag - drive ang iba lol!

[KrisKulit]

No. kaya i'm asking hubby to teach me how to drive.. 

[ysa.belle]

if the wife can drive naman eh di siya nalang... but syempre may time naman na si hubby ang magddrive para sa wife di ba?

[prettychestnut]

actually, kadalasan, lalaki talaga marunong mag drive. pag ang babae, hindi marunong, shempre ang asawa nya mismo magdadrive for her. but if both of them doesn't know how to drive, kuha nalang ng driver.

sa house namin, pag hindi puwde kuya ko magdrive, may sarili silang driver na hindi stay-in, itatawag lang pag kelangan. pero kung available si kuya, eh di si kuya nalang.

ganun din si papa noong araw, si mama hindi marunong, may driver din kami na stay-in. =)

[khriseeee]

No I drive myself where ever I please.

Though when we go out, he will drive or if I am without a car (rarely or when I was pregnant) he would fetch me from work.

[maiandra]

other than driving, is it also the husband's duty na he will go with you to visit the doctor? pano kung ayaw ka nya samahan? sorry kung OT

[ayami]

^ alam ko hindi naman. Marami ako nakakasama sa OB Gyne na walang kasamang asawa for prenatal checkups. Pero ngayon, I obligate my husband tutal di naman siya working atm at kaya naman nya magleave sa OJT.

[miminibebe]

Si hubby hindi naman obligado, siya mismo nagkukusa.  And he recently taught me how to drive kaya ayan, practice practice.

^sis about sa pagvisit sa doctor, depende siguro.  Kasi nung buntis ako lagi kong kasama si hubby pag check up, after manganak, hindi na.  Pag masama ang pakiramdam ko syempre kasama ko siya, pero pag check up lang talaga like for maintenance or whatever, hindi na.  Choice niya yun lahat, lagi ko siya tinatanong kung gusto nya ko samahan, kung ayaw niya, OK lang, kaya ko naman mag-isa.

[maiandra]

yun nga, depende naman sa sitwasyon. Kaso minsan nakakatampo lang pag minsan gusto mo magpasama and lagi sya busy or too tired with work. haaayyy.

[miminibebe]

^ganun ba sis? lambingin mo na lang si hubby sis, sabihin mo mas comfortable ka pag kasama siya magpacheck up... 

[Myealexis21]

About Driving - nope its not his Duty.  Ako pa nga ang driver sya pasahero haha! he doesn't have a license here kase and ayaw kumuha kase expensive dito makakuha ng lisensya. But sa Pinas sya ang driver, kase takot ako dyan magmaneho. 

OT - dun sa Doctor's visit, hindi naman duty nya na samahan ka, but mas maganda kase tingnan na kasama si hubby diba? Dun sa clinic na pinuntahan ko lahat sila kasama ang asawa nila..especially the Emirati talagang sinasamahan nila ang wife nila.  But depende sa sitwasyon niyo yan Sis if hindi available si hubby coz of his work then its ok IMO.

[little_princess]

i actually drive for hubby, he got the car for us and since foreigner siya, he is kinda scared driving he pero he does when he needs to. i actually enjoy driving so no worries and kapalit nun is he does the household chores

[mrsB]

I know how to drive and been driving for more than 15 years now. Kaso tamad akong magdrive talaga. So naging duty na talaga ng husband ko na ipagdrive ako. Wala naman siyang complaint, masipag naman siyang magdrive at hindi nai-stress.

[bucketsale]

i agree.. for security narin yun..though i know how to drive but he opt to drive for us...

[Jeannybaby]

even if she drives and has her own car?

My husband would outright say no way. Hehe. He hates driving-- i don't love to drive but i don't mind it either, so we compromise. Sometimes i drive more! But of course if i don't feel well or am too much tired to drive, he doesn't argue. He will drive; no choice hehe

[iwannabeasupermodel]

before i thought it is. but now i've adapted the view of my bf. para sa kanya, say example isa lang yung kotse nung couple, dapat sa babae daw yung kotse dahil tayo yung may "issue" sa pagcommute. so okay lang sa kanya na wag magkotse and ibigay sa babae yung kotse niya.

[gharz412]

in our case..yes! especially hindi ako mrunong magdrive...