Is it a Husband's Duty to Drive for the Wife

[jennyg]

Wag naman all the time lalo na if you know how to drive din dba? don't burden them with so much responsibilities if you can share naman. :-)

[working.girl]

I like driving pero pag kasama ko si hubby, he insists on driving.

[xiansmom]

yes..hahaha
di wala lang talaga syang choice
kasi sa [textspeak!] bawal magdrive ang mga babae
kaya kapag nasa vacay kami
nagtataxi kami lagi
para daw makapagpahinga sya kakadrive.

[nessy]

lagi ako hinahatid ng partner ko sa work.ok lang naman kahit kaya ko naman yun.mas ok nga kasi hindi ako napapagod.at kahit pag-uwi sinusundo nya rin ako.ewan ko kasi minsan naisip ko rin na masyado na akong dependent sa kanya.pero minsan i get to decide by myself naman.pero pag dating sa driving talaga, tamad kasi talaga ako kaya gustong-gusto ko naman na ipag-drive nya ako.

[blueflame]

yes! because i don't know how to drive yet! tee hee!! 

[Paperless]

if marunong naman ako magdrive and may sariling sasakyan, i don't think na kailangan pa ako ipagdrive ng husband ko... but if wala naman siyang ginagawa at hindi naman masyadong masama sa loob niya, hindi naman din siguro masama na ipagdrive niya ako... nasa pag-uusap iyan and depende sa situation... like sa amin, minsan hinahatid at sinusundo niya ako, minsan hindi..

[twelvth_goddess]

I don't like the term 'duty' kase eh, parang driver na driver naman ang dating..

Anyway, I drive so I dont expect him to drive for me. However, when need arises, like the other day, I had a bad case of migraine, he commuted all the way fom our house to The Fort just to drive me home. My hudband doesnt mind me driving pag magkasama din kame, he welcomes the rest that he can get  Plus parehas naman kame ng driving style, mahilig sumingit, pero ang difference lang I'm the more offensive driver since mas mainitin ulo ko.

[polar_bear]

My hubby always offer to drive for me going to work or kahit sa MRT lang daw.  He sees it as a bonding time kasi eh.. Kaso lagi akong tumatanggi since ayaw ko na siya mahassle.  Sanay naman ako magcommute at mas tipid kasi sa gas.  Saka he is not good with directions eh, baka mas magworry pa ako pagkahatid niya sakin kung nakauwi ba siya ng hinde naliligaw.. LOL!

[mrs.S.]

No in the sense na hindi talaga responsibility ng hubby if may car ang wife. But if wala then he should if hindi nakaka-abala sa kanya, like going to work etc. But hubby drives kung pareho yung lakad namin, unless he is drinking or long drive para naman rest muna siya.

[m_lim]

duty ng husband? NO. sa pagkakaalam ko, driver ang mag trabahong ganon eh.

but of course kung magkasama naman kayo at iisa ang pupuntahan, mas maganda kung siya mag drive.

but ako personally, i don't mind kung ako magdrive kahit magkasama kami. kasi bwiset ako sa driving niya. hehe

[tiggerlily]

just a thought: kung magiging duty ni husband ang magdrive, duty na rin ba ni wife ang maging all-around sa bahay?

[ri-anne]

nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami, lagi nya akong hinahatid sa bahay. Or kung may gimik with friends or even company outing, as in hatid sundo nya ako, kahit out of town pa yun.... i didn't oblige him to do those things..
he prefers it daw kasi than have someone else do it...so ayun para tuloy akong may personal driver..he made it his duty ..lol!
Now he's my hubby, and i'm a housewife, ganyn pa rin sistema... anyway, i dont know how to drive dn naman at isa lang car...

[Madelskie]

Hatid-sundo sa work c/o hubby. Ok lang naman kahit hindi pero gusto nya lalo na kapag closing shift ako. Late na kasi ang uwi 

[mamapeew]

Hmm... for me it's not really a "duty". My husband works out of town, and he leaves the car with us so my daughter and I can use it pero when he's here, sya ang nagd-drive. Minsan kahit pagod sya or antok, nago-offer ako to drive for him ayaw nya kasi he said he likes doing it for us daw (naks... sweet no?). hehe....

[ayami]

guilty ako dito. magrerenew na ko ng lisensya pero once lang ako nagdrive tapos inalila ko na si hubby. nagalit kasi ako sa kawalan nya ng tiwala at pagkaparanoid pag ako yung nasa drivers' seat. edi siya na magmaneho

[Kady_14]

No, but my husband's a better driver than I, yung ng lang parang mag-ttake off. So it's a must na naka seat belt.

Kung malapit lang and mas ideal na mag commute, OK lang naman sa akin. Also if he's tired from work. busy or still sleeping I don't wake him up or disturb him para lang pahatid.

Hindi na uso ang "asa" ngayon.

[Noylabmay]

Asawa yun hndi driver kaya its not his responsibility,
pero kung super gentleman jowa mo may be.  In our case mas nauna ko nagkaroon ng driving license here abroad kaya I drive for him pero nung me License na sha He Drive na pag di ko feel pag drive
pag di nya feel mag drive e di ako......Its not a big deal

[nageinna]

No naman. but swerte ako kasi hanggang kaya o pwede ako ipag drive ni hubby, ginagawa niya. kahit minsan busy siya and may lakad ako, he finds a way para mahatid sundo niya ko.

[mae18]

Hindi. May ibang means naman of transportation like hiring a cab, commuting at Mrt, jeep or even bus.

Sa amin, pag family, siya lagi drive though, may kanya kanya kaming car, hindi ko kasi abot yun sasakyan niya, unlike mine na kotse, abot ko... kaso ayaw niya ng kotse kesyo gas daw, he prefers driving a diesel engine rather than gas...

nun preggy ako dun lang sya nagpaka driver, and nun may baby kami, pero since 2 yrs old na, carry ko na paupuin baby ko dun sa car seat niya, suwerte din kasi di malikot baby ko pag nasa loob ng car whilst me driving...

[muy003]

Hindi na nila obligasyon maging driver pero, kung pwede naman, gagawin ni hubby to. Lalo na if necessary...

My boyfie did this, everyday hatid sundo, minsan sya na ang di nakakawork dahil he's waiting for me, naka OT ako... Kaya nung nag overseas sya, depressed talaga ako.. Hahahah...