INTROVERTS - You're in!

[kenjiekenj]

We can consider this thread as support group na din

[lady_avoidant]

^ sis, introvert ka rin? hehehhe... nagmeet nanaman tayo dito. ganyan talaga ang mga introverts ayaw sa crowd. umiinit ang ulo ko. Kaya nga ayoko minsan lumabas pumunta ng mall kasi para akong loser. Di ako bagay sa environment. Ako na yata ang pinakaintrovert sa lahat, kahit pa hihilain ako, basta't ayoko, ayoko talaga.


Parehas din tayo sis, kahit di projects. I'm doing on my own. I don't need a boss or a leader to command me. Gusto ko ako lang. ako ang hawak ng time. Ayokong nagpapatulong. Di naman sa trying hard. Ayoko lang kasing magpatulong kung feel ko naman kaya ko (kahit nahihirapan na ako  ), pero pag wala na talagang source of support, yun na, surrender na yong pride ko. I hate it, when I'm asking for help. Feel ko ang hina hina ko. Type A personality kasi, tapos Aries pa. Nako, bonggang bonggang match ng personality.

i see myself in you sis. Aries din ako. Hoho kanina nga nasa kwarto lang ako while my family gatherings sa labas. Tinawag nalang ako ni mama para pakainin. Lagi nalang ba daw ako magtatago.hahaha

[kenjiekenj]

^ i feel you sis. Ano reaction mo deep inside pag sinasabi sayo yung word na "nagtatago"?

[lady_avoidant]

^ sa totoo lang sis ,naiinis ako pag sinasabihan ng ganyan. Parang ang labas kasi ay nakatunganga lang ako na walang ginagawa. Na ang totoo ay inaaliw ko sarili ko reading an informative topics online kesa makikipagkwentuhan ako dun sa mga relatives ko.

[vainwriter]

Ako din I dont get that part. Kasi may crowd naman na im willing to join. Di ba naisip nung iba na ayaw ko makijoin sa kanila kasi there are better things to do than be with them? tapos ako ang sasabihan na nagtatago. worse may nagsabi pa dati na nasa bartolina daw ako. sabi ko kesa naman kayo nasa labas puro tsismisan inaatupag. kahit pabiro syempre nakakapika. ako kumikita kahit nakabartolina ewan ko sa inuman at tsismisan nila kuna kumikita sila

[jtansanco]

^ And they keep on saying, "get out of your shell" or "get out of your comfort zone". What if ayaw ko lang sa crowd niyo o sa mga ginagawa niyo di ba?? 

[vainwriter]

True...ang sarap sagutin na *bakit kaya ikaw, why not get out of your annoying self and i might just like you* hahaha

[kenjiekenj]

Nakakabwisit din yung "lumabas ka dyan sa lungga mo". Naku i really feel more depress ag ginaganyan. Kasi, this is what i want ano ba pake nyo diba

[lady_avoidant]

aww mga sisses .. Gusto ko kayong i-hug kasi parang ako lang din ang nagpopost sa mga posts niyo na yan. LOL may ganito din ba kayong signs and symptoms?

- Hypersensitivity to rejection/ criticism
- Self-imposed social isolation
- Extreme shyness or anxiety in social situations, though the person feels a strong desire for close relationships
- Avoids physical contact
because it has been
associated with an unpleasant or painful stimulus
- Feelings of inadequacy
- Severe low self-esteem
- Self-loathing/self-hatred
- Mistrust of others
- Emotional distancing related to intimacy
- Highly self-conscious
- Self-critical about their problems relating to others
- Problems in occupational
functioning
- Lonely self-perception, although others may find the relationship with them
meaningful
- Feeling inferior to others In some more extreme cases
— agoraphobia
- Utilizes fantasy as a form of escapism and to interrupt painful thought

[teejiko]

I'm not sure if I am considered an introvert. Madalas kasi na gusto kong mag-isa lang ako, reading a book or just browsing the net. Di ako masyadong nakikipag-socialize though pag may party naman sa office, join naman ako. Friends ko pili lang talaga and there are some namention ^ na na-eexperience ko. But anyway, I fine with my own little world

[jtansanco]

Dapat may mag-organize ng Introverts EB para maiba naman.

Oh, wait... We, introverts, don't like this.. Mag-EB nalang tayo sa isang chatroom. LOL

[teejiko]

^Was thinking of that kanina EB ng mga introverts haha

[kenjiekenj]

EB ng introverts? Sounds fun! We may no longer be introverts if that happens! But parang maganda. Therapeutical sessions. Haha

[stylishmomy]

lady_avoidant sis I dont have all the signs so I guess Im not really an introvert lol just annoyed of social gatherings and fake niceness  I love love to go out, but only with my family, hubby, sisters and kids.

[Serena.]

EB ng Introverts (chatroom)! GAME! lol

[jtansanco]

Let's make a listing... *Hindi pa ito sure ah

List your usernames and your city if you're INTERESTED in an EB. Let's see saan mapupunta tong suggestion ko pero feeling ko sa chatroom lang din bagsak natin. 

1. jtansanco - QC
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If marami, let's just discuss the possible meet up places by then.

[stylishmomy]

^chatroom EB is a good idea less hassle since we know we live in different locations.

[teejiko]

Chatroom nalang para sure

[jtansanco]

Panong chatroom? MIRC is now gone! Hahaha

Unless... We can make an FB group for GT introverts and talk from? Or, does anyone know any place where we can all chat? Ummm.. Skype? 

[Serena.]

Count me in! hehe, chat na lang, pwedeng skype or kahit na ano like YM (pero i heard mawawala na ang YM)



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