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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #20 on: January 09, 2011, 02:40:50 pm »
ayoko maging housewife, i want to work.. mahirap ang umaasa sa hubby, tsaka self fulfillment na din yun for me.. sana this year magkawork na ako.....
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #21 on: February 16, 2011, 09:52:33 pm »
i never thought na magiging stay at home mom ako... since i had a difficult pregnancy, hubby and i both agreed na it would be better if i quit my job... sa umpisa di talaga ko nasanay na wala akong sarili kong income, pero ang perks ko naman for being a SAHM is that i get to be with my baby all the time.. sabi ko nga eh, ang pera pwede ko pang ipunin yan next time, pero yung bonding moments with my baby, once lang yun...
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #22 on: February 23, 2011, 09:26:05 am »
ako... i want to be SAHM  ;D....
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #23 on: February 23, 2011, 09:56:59 am »
SAHM din ako, its hard, want to work but no one will take care of my daughter, she's 7 pero ayoko kasi na yaya ang mag alaga sa kanya, i'll never know kung naaasikaso ba talaga..

right now im trying to do some small business to help with our expenses, since hubby is not earning that much..
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #24 on: February 23, 2011, 11:23:48 am »
^same tayo sis, ayoko ipaalaga sa yaya, wala akong tiwala.. lalo na after heating so may horror stories about nannies, no no talaga ako... tapos we're not living inside a subdivision or condo where securities are tight, kakatakot... better na ako na lang... mahirap na masarap ang stay at home mom and housewife... ang trabaho natin 24/7... ;)
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #25 on: February 23, 2011, 01:14:13 pm »
Naging stay at home mum din ako.Ako naman ang humahawak ng sahod nya.Nakakatuwa lang kasi mas gastador ako kaysa sa kanya, kapag may gusto na syang bilhin ilang buwan pa bago ako pumayag na makuha nya yun. Lol ! ;D
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #26 on: February 24, 2011, 07:31:29 pm »
same here stay at home mom, 3 kasi kids ko and most of the time papalitpalit ang katulong kaya di rin makapag apply ng work. Work online na lang ako kasi gusto ko rin kahit papano kumita ng pera. Mabait naman hubby ko kasi ako pinapahawak ng atm nya :) pag may kailangan sya humihingi na lang sya sa akin, at pag may gusto naman ako hindi ako hirap magpaalam at minsan sya na rin nagsasabi bumili ako para sa sarili ko. Pag namili naman kasi ako ending puro sa kanila rin hehe..

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #27 on: February 24, 2011, 08:56:57 pm »
Pangarap kong maging stay at home mom pero yung tipong mga 1 month lang. I can't imagine din kasi my life na hindi nag wo work. I like the fact that im very independent from my hubby.

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #28 on: February 28, 2011, 10:13:32 pm »
Im a busy woman before i got married and being pregnant and not working really bores me, my husband is working abroad and he sends money, what i do i keep a list of expenditures every month kahit hindi naman nya tinatanong kung san na pupunta yung pera nya, atleast if the times he ask i have a list to show him. hehe

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #29 on: March 04, 2011, 06:34:14 pm »
it's both our choice na di ako mag work... we both want kasi na ako ang mag alaga kay baby kesa kumuha ng yaya... then nung 3 na ang panganay namin i worked for about a year, den i resigned again kasi last july mag school na yung eldest namin, then a few months later I'm pregnant na uli kaya malayo na uli mag work ako... but its okei, mas gusto ko naman na I will be the one taking care of my family...
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #30 on: March 04, 2011, 07:11:14 pm »
im a stay-at-home-wife. we both agreed na di na muna ako magtrabaho kasi mas lalo lang ako di magbubuntis. mag-aapat na taon na kasi kami this april pero wala pa rin anak. ayaw nya akong nai-stress.  ;)

my hubby doesn't make me uncomfortable with the situation. sabi nya, mas panatag sya kung nasa bahay lang ako. ako ang naghahawak ng pera so most of the time, kontrolado ko ang paggastos.

never sya nagreklamo sa akin na kesyo nahihirapan sya sa trabaho, na kesyo malaki nga ang sahod pero dami naman binabayaran. wala akong naririnig na ganito sa kanya.

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #31 on: March 04, 2011, 09:02:14 pm »
SAH future mom ako pero may sarili ako work dahil homebased naman mga work ko Ü yung sweldo ko di nya gingawlaw, savings namin yun kase siya gumagastos sa lahat kaya pag may gusto ako di ako nagaalangan humingi kase alam nya na may pera din ako pero sa savings nakalagay Ü
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #32 on: March 06, 2011, 11:33:32 am »
sa mga SAHM, why don' you use some of that "free" ( kasi di ba alam naman natin, with kids and all the household chores, do we really have that free time nga ba?) time to pamper your husbands more :D

before I got married, i was working na, hindi ko na nga tinapos pag-aaral ko kasi i was in a rush to be a part of the family business kasi i was earning good. there was even a time when after hubby didn't go back to his employer abroad, ako muna bumuhay sa amin for like 6months.

but after we had our baby, he wanted me to stay home na lang. never ko naman na feel na nahihiya ako sa asawa ko mag-ask ng pera, kasi from the start of our relationship, we made it a point na ang sa kanya, sa akin na rin yun and vice versa, kahit nung mag boyfriend pa lang kami ganun na. i was the type of wife who knew exactly how much money my husband has, lahat ng properties niya, investments, at pati yung kinikita niya sa mga sideline niya, kasi he was very honest to me. one time nga bigla nalang siyang umiyak while we were talking on the phone (he was working in the UAE while i was here in the Phils pa,) kasi daw hindi siya nakapag-paalam sa akin na he would use his credit card to treat his sisters, and friends to a bar for his birthday.

nung time na magkakasama na kami family abroad, and i was just a SAHM doing nothing but take care of the baby, cook and clean, hindi ako nahihiyang manghingi sa kanya kasi magkatuwang naman kami sa lahat ng bagay, he just did the earning part...ako naman money management. yung ATM niya where his salary is deposited, lahat ng credit cards niya, binigay niya sa akin, he would just ask for pocket money everyday.

 He would say na "I'm doing all these for you and our baby and for our dreams. Kaya you deserve to enjoy the fruits of my labor".  He made me quit working nga, kasi he wanted to pamper me, ego na rin niya siguro na gusto niyang patunayan sa sarili niya kaya niyang bumuhay ng pamilya at kaya niyang bigyan family niya ng desenteng buhay. HIndi naman malaki sahod niya, kaya he let me do the budgeting part. There were times I suggested na mag work ako para pandagdag sa income but he said no. So I obeyed without resentment. And I'm glad I did that, and for everything that happened, at least nagkaroon ako ng few years being a full time wife to him bago siya kinuha ni Lord :D

kaya be thankful din kung SAHM mom kayo, at least you have husbands who take care of your financial needs. If you feel na he resents the fact na he's the only one earning, talk to him, or better, make him feel and know that you appreciate his efforts to give you a good life. Give your husband the opportunity to spend for your wants and needs, to pamper you. Based sa nakwento ni hubby saken, men love it when they know that their independent wives depend on them, it makes them feel strong and worthy. Just be good money managers

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #33 on: March 06, 2011, 11:48:27 pm »
nakakatouch nman po yung story nyo, since 1 year and 6 months palang kaming kasal at nasa abroad pa sya, di ko pa nagagampanan masyado ang pagiging house wife kasi lagi syang nasa abroad, pag uwi nya dun ko lang sya napagluluto at naasikaso, he love to pamper me, malambing sya in action, pinararamdam nya na mahal ka nya, kaya nakakamiss

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #34 on: March 07, 2011, 02:50:56 pm »
pareho tayo sis...hubby is also far... kaya every time na he's here sobrang pag aalaga ginagawa ko for him and ganun din sya with me... pero kahit na magkalayo kami we make sure na pinapakita pa din namin sa isa't isa how much we love each other... and di kami nawawalan ng communication pag magkalayo kami... quality time talaga pag umuuwe sya...
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #35 on: March 07, 2011, 09:57:32 pm »
sis jhenrheign mahirap talaga situation natin, pero kailangan magtiis para sa future ng family natin, pero nakakamiss talaga...

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #36 on: March 07, 2011, 10:44:15 pm »
H_WINX-super true sis... but we need to sacrifice... we are so lucky lang din to have husbands who provides for us... mas malaking sacrifice yun for them... kaya i super love my hubby... mag 8 years na kami together but still mas nagiging strong kami... mas nashoshow namin kung ganu namin ka love ang isa't isa...  :)
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #37 on: March 07, 2011, 11:00:00 pm »
d naman ako nahihirapan humingi kasi nasa akin naman lahat napupunta yung sahod ng husband ko.  pero gusto ng husband ko na mag work ako. since maliliit pa yung mga anak namin ayoko na iba ang mag alaga sa kanila. gusto ko din naman magtrabaho pero not now na maliliit pa yung mga bata.

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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #38 on: March 07, 2011, 11:13:30 pm »
sa mga SAHM, why don' you use some of that "free" ( kasi di ba alam naman natin, with kids and all the household chores, do we really have that free time nga ba?) time to pamper your husbands more :D

before I got married, i was working na, hindi ko na nga tinapos pag-aaral ko kasi i was in a rush to be a part of the family business kasi i was earning good. there was even a time when after hubby didn't go back to his employer abroad, ako muna bumuhay sa amin for like 6months.

but after we had our baby, he wanted me to stay home na lang. never ko naman na feel na nahihiya ako sa asawa ko mag-ask ng pera, kasi from the start of our relationship, we made it a point na ang sa kanya, sa akin na rin yun and vice versa, kahit nung mag boyfriend pa lang kami ganun na. i was the type of wife who knew exactly how much money my husband has, lahat ng properties niya, investments, at pati yung kinikita niya sa mga sideline niya, kasi he was very honest to me. one time nga bigla nalang siyang umiyak while we were talking on the phone (he was working in the UAE while i was here in the Phils pa,) kasi daw hindi siya nakapag-paalam sa akin na he would use his credit card to treat his sisters, and friends to a bar for his birthday.

nung time na magkakasama na kami family abroad, and i was just a SAHM doing nothing but take care of the baby, cook and clean, hindi ako nahihiyang manghingi sa kanya kasi magkatuwang naman kami sa lahat ng bagay, he just did the earning part...ako naman money management. yung ATM niya where his salary is deposited, lahat ng credit cards niya, binigay niya sa akin, he would just ask for pocket money everyday.

 He would say na "I'm doing all these for you and our baby and for our dreams. Kaya you deserve to enjoy the fruits of my labor".  He made me quit working nga, kasi he wanted to pamper me, ego na rin niya siguro na gusto niyang patunayan sa sarili niya kaya niyang bumuhay ng pamilya at kaya niyang bigyan family niya ng desenteng buhay. HIndi naman malaki sahod niya, kaya he let me do the budgeting part. There were times I suggested na mag work ako para pandagdag sa income but he said no. So I obeyed without resentment. And I'm glad I did that, and for everything that happened, at least nagkaroon ako ng few years being a full time wife to him bago siya kinuha ni Lord :D

kaya be thankful din kung SAHM mom kayo, at least you have husbands who take care of your financial needs. If you feel na he resents the fact na he's the only one earning, talk to him, or better, make him feel and know that you appreciate his efforts to give you a good life. Give your husband the opportunity to spend for your wants and needs, to pamper you. Based sa nakwento ni hubby saken, men love it when they know that their independent wives depend on them, it makes them feel strong and worthy. Just be good money managers

sis.. I was smiling while reading the first part of your post tapos bigla akong naiyak!!

I am not married yet but I want to be a SAHM. Ayoko na sa corporate world moreso sa hospitality industry. Masyadong strong ang personality ko. Excited na ko to settle down im turning 24 this year.
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Re: para sa mga housewife and stay at home moms
« Reply #39 on: March 08, 2011, 12:26:00 am »
do you ever feel belittled by your husband because you stay at home and doesn't help him earn for your family?what about when you want to buy something and you always have to ask your husband for money do you feel bad?does your husband ever tell you to help him with the finances?...i thought my husband and I both agreed that i would just stay at home to look after our baby but now i feel he's resenting me because i quit my job..any insights?

do i? no.. kasi malaki ang kinocontribute ko for taking care of him saka yung anak namin.. malaking bagay yun sa kanya...

kung may gusto ako.. i never ask for money sa kanya, kahit binigyan nya ako.. iniipon ko for emergencies..

yun nga lang gusto ko din sya matulungan sa mga debts nya sa credit card.. >_>.. kaya parang i feel bad.
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