After discovering that he cheated, how did u move on? ok pa kayo or hindi na?

[eimerej5]

dami ko ng namiss basahin sa thread na to..

i need to read back.

[eimerej5]

@sis engroselle, buti matapang ka, ako hindi.  wala din ako trabaho umaasa lang ako sa husband ko.  wala din akong alam na pwede kong pasakan na trabaho at mahihirapan din ako maghanap kasi 32 na ako.  18 plang ako nag-asawa, si husband na nagpa-aral sa akin at kahit college graduate ako di ako pinayagan mag-work kasi sobrang seloso nya. 

kung may sariling kita sana ako baka nung araw din nabuko ko sya baka linayasan ko na.  as in wala akong pera, may konting savings ako sa mga kinupit sa kanya pero napautang ko kasi s parents ko yung pera kasi walang-wala talaga ako.  iniisip ko din ang mga bata, di ko matutumbasan ang mga bagay na kayang ibigay ng husband ko sa kanila.  mas madali mag-desisyon kung wala pang anak.  ang dami ko kasing dapat i-consider.  ni wala nga akong pera para sa plane ticket pauwi samin. 

wala pa rin akong tulog hanggang ngayon, parang lumilitaw pa din utak ko, di ako makapag-isip ng tama.  buti nalang talaga may gt kasi wala akong ibang outlet kundi dito, wala akong kaibigan kasi bawal ako lumabas at bawal din ako makipag-kaibigan.  tinanggalan na nga ako ng pagkatao , niloko pa ako.  13 years tiniis ko ang sobrang paghihigpit nya sakin.  halaos lahat ng ayaw nya binago ko, ayaw nya ang style ng tawa ko, binago ko.  kung may picture ako sa fb na ayaw nya, dini-delete ko.  ayaw nya sa make-up ko, ini-erase ko.  ayaw nya amoy ng perfume ko, pinupunasan ko.  ayaw nya sa new rebonded hair ko, ay naku wala akong magawa kasi permanent na to. 

pano ko mapapahiya yung kabit sis eh ni di ko alam ang pangalan,di ko alam kung taga saan.  malakas kutob ko na baka ibinabahay sya ng husband ko kasi dati may nabasa ako sa text a month ago na na pero ibang number, sabi: "dito na ako sa bahay. dito ka ba kain mamaya, inform mo ako para maipaghanda kita" pinabasa ko din yan sa kanya sabi nya wrong send lang siguro yan, tapos tinawagan ko yung number na yon, di naman makontak.  ni hindi ako kinutuban noon pero ngayon malakas kutob ko na baka para sa husband ko talaga ang text na yun. 

sis december, binasa ko ang mga post mo. kakaloka ang kabit n yan ha. di ko ata kayang sa bahay lang ako habang nasa labas ang asawa not knowing what he is doing or who he is with. Ang hirap ng dependent sa asawa talaga, try to save again para may pera ka just incase na maisipan mo talagang iwanan siya or lumayo for a while. OR why not ask him kung pede ka mag negosyo kahit small business lang. Siguro kaya siya mahigpit sayo kasi nga may ginagawang kalokohan. takot siya na gawin mo din sa kanya ang ginagawa niya sayo.

Sana sis makita or makilala mo na yung babae na yun at ng mabigyan mo ng isang suntok at tadyak! im sure ang sarap ng feeling mo nun... lolz!

hope maging ok na si hubby mo. iwanan na niya talaga yung babae na un.

[thestargazer]

OMGosh. I remember my last relationship, grabe this topic is close to home, after he cheated, ang sakit sakit syempre and we were trying to work on "US". Kaya lang ako, parang hindi ako makamove on kase parang ako pa yung napahiya sa friends nya although ako yung pinili nya, or kase nga ang pinili rin ni girl e yung lesbian lover nya. O di ba? Juicy? LOL! I remember lagi na kami nag aaway after nun, nawala na kase yung trust. Ang hirap parang lagi ka ng paranoid pagka hindi kayo magkasama, kung ano ano na naiisip mo. Ayun, needless to say we broke up. And it was the best thing that happened to me.

[december]

sis december, binasa ko ang mga post mo. kakaloka ang kabit n yan ha. di ko ata kayang sa bahay lang ako habang nasa labas ang asawa not knowing what he is doing or who he is with. Ang hirap ng dependent sa asawa talaga, try to save again para may pera ka just incase na maisipan mo talagang iwanan siya or lumayo for a while. OR why not ask him kung pede ka mag negosyo kahit small business lang. Siguro kaya siya mahigpit sayo kasi nga may ginagawang kalokohan. takot siya na gawin mo din sa kanya ang ginagawa niya sayo.

Sana sis makita or makilala mo na yung babae na yun at ng mabigyan mo ng isang suntok at tadyak! im sure ang sarap ng feeling mo nun... lolz!

hope maging ok na si hubby mo. iwanan na niya talaga yung babae na un.

eimerej5 sis alam ko na kung sino yung girl.  nalaman ko the other day.  hinge nga sana muna ako ng opinion or suggestion  sa mga sisses natin dito kung anong move gagawin ko pero di ko natiis, kinon-front ko sya kaagad at di sya nakapag-deny.  grabe itong asawa ko gumawa pa ng alyas sa facebook.  di nya maideny na di sa kanya ang fb account na yun kasi sya gumawa eh, at title nung album ay me & name nung girl.  ang sakit-sakit pala is kung makita mo na magkasama sila kahit sa pics lang.  thrice ko na sya nahuli na may kabit pero yung dalawa puro sa text lang, di ko talaga nakita ang hitsura nila, alam ko lang pangalan pero wala akong apelyedo.  ngayon alam ko na hitsura nung girl (sabi ng kasambahay ko ok lang, no comment.  alam kong mas may histura ako pero talo ako sa kaseksihan, nasa 100lbs yun at ako 130lbs.  maputi sya, chinita pero di sya chinese at 25 yrs old lang.  kamukha nya si mia ng sexbomb girls)  ang sabi nasa cotabato na daw yung girl, eto nagbababad pa ako sa fb hoping makakuha ng lead kung saan na ngayon ang girl kasi di ako maniwala na nasa cotabato na, alam ko nasa tabi-tabi lang yun.  yung mga pics nila dun pa mismo sa loob ng office ng asawa ko kinunan. 

parang imposible sis na bigyan nya ako ng negosyo kasi ang mga babae daw na kumikita ng pera matatapang, humahamon kaagad ng hiwalayan. 

[spongebob]

i confirmed my hubby's illicit affair 5 months after ko sya pinalayas. pinalayas ko sya the night i saw him with another girl kaso lang hindi ako sure kung sila ba talaga at that time kasi the girl he was with was the girlfriend of his bestfriend. pero 1 week before that night, hindi na sya umuuwi sa oras sa amin. he comes home at 3am, 5am and well rested na. then leaves for work at 9am. whenever i text him i love him, he doesnt reply anymore kaya i decided it was unhealthy for me and my then 2 1/2 yr old daughter that he treat us that way kasi naiinis ako sa kanya and affected din si daughter kasi nga moody na ako. when i packed his stuff and sent them to his mom's house, 2 days after, he packed again and left without telling his family where he was staying. then sa ka tangahan niya, 5 months after kinuha yung car na ginagamit ko at pinalitan nya with the car he was using. then na iwan nya receipt inside with his current address. even at that time, wala talaga akong alam whether he was staying with another girl na or on his own na. as God's way of letting me know the truth, ayun, nagpasama mom in law ko para kumustahin anak nya since only son sya, and favorite pa ng mom nya. when we got his place, yung kabit ang sumalubong. hindi pa namin inakala na sya na pala ang kabit kasi staff house daw yun ng company where he is working. todo lie ni girl na wala daw si hubby dun that time, umalis daw etc. pero nakita ko cellphone sa sala so i said "ma, hindi yan umalis. basahin nalang natin phone nya baka mai malaman pa tayo". at dun namin nalaman na yung kausapa na pala namin ang kabit nya. umakyat na yung girl sa room at tinawag si hubby. hindi naman ako nag wild nor caused any scene there. nag usap kami tatlo ni hubby and his mom sa dining table nila. iyak ng iyak mom nya habang ako naka upo lang. feeling ko naman kasi, si hubby pa rin ang lugi kung tutuusin kasi i have our adorable daughter with me who keeps me happy and knowing ive done nothing wrong, i sleep well at night. after we left his house, i didn't even text him or what. sya ang nag communicate and all pero i kept my cool. just 3 months ago, he started saying he's sorry and all. pero hindi pa rin ako nagpa dala sa emotions ko. after all i've been through, hindi yata ganun ka dali yun lahat. i just told him, if you're really sorry, you'd leave that girl and come home to your mom's place. to think, wala akong trabaho kasi ayaw nya ako ipa work. sya lang taga provide sa amin. pero when he left, i immediately got a job para lang meron kami pang everyday ni baby na pang gastos. then eventually i put up my own eatery with my friend which kept me busy and my sanity intact. i focused all my attention to my daughter and business while trying to figure out what to do for our future. until now, hindi pa rin nya iniiwan kabit nya and he tries to communicate once in awhile pero ignore ko na talaga kasi wala naman siyang mabuting nadudulot sa amin. puro lang disappointments. to think ok na sana kami 3 sa new zealand nung 2009 pero hindi nya nagustuhan dun kaya we decided to come home and i gave up evrything there. pero now, i'm working on my papers again para makabalik hopefully next year with my daughter. mahirap isipin ang magiging set up namin 2 dun pero im sure makakaya ko if it's the only way na magkaka peace of mind ako. hindi na ako nagpa support sa daughter namin para hindi na rin cya mag visit sa kanya and hindi ako mag hope na magka balikan. kung sino pang kabit, siya pang malakas ang loob mangaway sa amin mag ina... i don't want to stoop down sa level nilang dalawa kaya hindi ko pinapatulan. i just want to rise from all these and live peacefully with my daughter. through prayers talaga, nabibigyan ako ng lakaw ng loob. excited nga ako mag christmas kami lang 2 ng anak ko. and i can't imagine life with ex-hubby now because of all the pain, betrayal and deceit he has done. i still love him naman kasi happy din memories namin sa 10 yrs kaming mag asawa pero love is simply not enough for me to take him back. i don't want to relive each day the pain he caused if i would take him back kaya i'd rather be without him and be happy.

[sarsingkit]

sis justin3, nakakatuwa ka naman. napa-clap ako sa mga advice mo 

[neraks]

I'm still on the healing process,mahirap pero kailangan tanggapin.2nd time nya na tong nagawa sa kin sabi nung mga friends ko t**** nga daw ako at di marunong magalit.di lang nila alam na para akong nauupos na kandila,tapos lately may na discover pa ko kay hubby na may account pala sha sa tagged nakakaloka u info dun nya di ko maimagine na ganun sha sabi nung friend ko malandi daw talaga ang husband ko.

        infairness to him binura nya na u account na yun at matagal na nyang di nabubuksan yun.nakikita ko naman u mga pgbabago nya ngayon ako na ang may problema pero alam ko di nya ako masisisi.ayaw ko ng maging kampante lagi na kong alerto sa mga ginagawa nya,sabihin na nating nawala yung tiwala ko sa kanya.di ko na hahayaang lokohin nya pa ako at saktan ulit.binigyan ko na sha ng ultimatum sana lang magbago na sha ng lubusan lalo na ngayon nag member kami sa couples for christ sabi nya malaki naitutulong sa kanya.

[chimera29]

I can surely relate to this thread. Just a couple of months ago i caught my husband cheating on me. Worse ever since it started I was letting him know Im aware of it and yet he kept on telling its just my f****ng instinct getting the best of me. Im pregnant and everything was blamed to my hormones..yeah right! But then like a miracle i caught a trail of his message to this girl in facebook telling her that he "love" her. I immediately went to my in-laws show them my evidence and told them that I cant have him back in our house anymore. For a month he was out of the house. But then he sought for another chance and me feeling the need to give it a shot in respect to my very kind my in-laws who seems too affected with the separation gave in. Although I have to say I can see his efforts to work things out. He turned to be more prayerful now and openj about saying that he is now dedicating our family to God. But as for me I'm not totally into the works of reforming our family. I dont seems convinced with his actions and I cant totally get myself to trust him again. I feel bad because everything that happened made me proved that im such an unforgiving person and now im over analyzing everything. Given a choice I should'nt have given him this chance just yet because im not ready. Seeing him and being with him on a daily basis reminds me of a person who forsaken me and all the pain will flow into me once again. I have'nt told him much about this. Currently I'm tryin to get by with prayers. I guess more than anything thats the best weapon we have as victims of infidelity. Because it can trully eat you up and totally change you as a person. =(

[neraks]

I can surely relate to this thread. Just a couple of months ago i caught my husband cheating on me. Worse ever since it started I was letting him know Im aware of it and yet he kept on telling its just my f****ng instinct getting the best of me. Im pregnant and everything was blamed to my hormones..yeah right! But then like a miracle i caught a trail of his message to this girl in facebook telling her that he "love" her. I immediately went to my in-laws show them my evidence and told them that I cant have him back in our house anymore. For a month he was out of the house. But then he sought for another chance and me feeling the need to give it a shot in respect to my very kind my in-laws who seems too affected with the separation gave in. Although I have to say I can see his efforts to work things out. He turned to be more prayerful now and openj about saying that he is now dedicating our family to God. But as for me I'm not totally into the works of reforming our family. I dont seems convinced with his actions and I cant totally get myself to trust him again. I feel bad because everything that happened made me proved that im such an unforgiving person and now im over analyzing everything. Given a choice I should'nt have given him this chance just yet because im not ready. Seeing him and being with him on a daily basis reminds me of a person who forsaken me and all the pain will flow into me once again. I have'nt told him much about this. Currently I'm tryin to get by with prayers. I guess more than anything thats the best weapon we have as victims of infidelity. Because it can trully eat you up and totally change you as a person. =(

Ay naku sis ang hirap talaga,very true it will really change you as a person.sa totoo lang kahit sa pagtulog ko kasama ko ang bangungot na yan ng buhay ko.i hope makayanan ko to para kasi akong sasabog.

[chimera29]

@Neraks: Hay Sis we're also considering Couples for Christ but I just dont feel I can fully indulge myself into it right now. Mentally and emotionally ayaw pa magcooperate ng katawang lupa ko and Im afraid maging pilit lang for our case. Good for you and your hubby you're both into it. Im actually considering individual counseling i just don't know where to get it. Minsan kasi i cant help myself but to read the trail of messages I retrieved that he sent to that girl (memorize ko na nga actually!) and sometimes I check his email accounts as well as YM conversation and although i dont see anything that calls for my attention I cant convince myself that there's really nothing there. Kaya i feel more than the stinge in our relationship this whole experience impacted me so much as an individual. That's why I feel the urge to fix myself as well if I really want to save our relationship. I'm constantly on the look out of signs of cheating not because of jealousy anymore but rather im more afraid that i will be played for a fool once again. Haisssttttttt...really crazy sis! Trully a nightmare to experience.

[neraks]

@Chimera29alam na alam ko yang feeling na yan.sa kin last oct.11 ko lang nalaman ulit u kalokohan ng hubby ko pero matagal na nangyari yun.actually one night stand u nangyari sa kanila ning girl,umamin at dinetalye ng husband ko yung mga nangyari oh diba gustong-gusto ko u tinotorture u sarili ko.ayaw ko na nga tapusin u sa CFC namin kaso naisip ko pagsubok lang ito at makakayanan ko to,nakaya ko nung una kakayanin ko to ulit.ganyan din ako FB nya,YM,Email nya lahat chinecheck ko,wala naman ko makita ng ginagawa nyang masama tapos di pa rin ako satisfied.PRAYERS lang ang sagot natin sa problemang ito sis,ayaw ko na rin masyado magisip kasi pati health ko apektado.sabi nga nung isa kong friend matuto tayong mahalin una muna u sarili natin.

[chimera29]

@Neraks : Tamaaaaa Sis! Prayers and pagmamahal talga sa sarili natin more than anything ang secret weapon natin. Buti na lang may mga avenue na tulad ng forum na to that will let us talk freely of our feelings. Somehow nakakagaang ng loob kung di man fully mawala yun feeling of indifference it feels good that somebody understands exactly what ur goin through. God bless us sis!

[manangjuday]

Hi girls.. Same here nightmare from the time ive discovered about my hubby s infidelity. Gabi gabing inom, yosi at hindi na din ako makapagtrabaho. Grabeng pain. Like our sis here, tinotorture ko din sarili ko by asking all the informations.. I didn't like the feeling kasi na ginagawa akong t****.. sobrang galit ko pa din. Ang dami nagaadvice sa akin to forgive and forget since ano pa daw ba gusto ko eh hininto naman na nung husband ko at nangangako kuno na hindi na mauulit. Pero ang hirap magbigay..love, trust, generosity... Lahat mahirap, nadala at ntrauma ako.. Halos ako nagpprovide sa lahat sa amin financially besides bata pa ako at hindi naman ako naging pabaya sa sarili ko. Iniisip ko nga hanapin ko muna sarili ko. Nawalan ako self worth after nangyari to. Pakiramdam ko wala ba ko kuwentang babae para magawa niya to? Gusto ko nga sana maghiwalay muna kami pansamantala. Parang reality check sa kanya na puwede din pala ako sumuko. Sana kayanin ko.

[neraks]

@manangjudayDi talaga madali itong situation natin,hay parang ewan ko di mae-eplain u sakit at trauma to the max talaga!pero wala na tayo magagawa kundi tanggapin at umpisahan mag heal dahil kung indi u mga sarili din natin ang magsa suffer.wag tayong magpatalo sa sitwasyon natin,labanan natin to alam ko mahirap pero sa tulong ni GOD makakaya natin lahat.Mas mahirap nga u sa kin oh 2x na dapat give up na ko pero ayaw ko kasi alam ko worth ipaglaban u pagsasama namin,sa kin kasi he may be bad sa isang bagay pero as a whole indi eh,never nya ako binigyan ng sakit ng ulo ito lang talaga...hay mga lalake talaga oh!!!

[chimera29]

@neraks wow si di ko kaya yun 2x ibang level ang forgiving powers mo.
@manangjuday: tama si sis neraks sis dont let all this cause u to self destruct lalo na if u have kids. Ako yun na lang consideration k i have kids they need a father (although willing pa din akong walang father magka inner peace lang ako hehe) i cant be too selfish to dwell on my pain alone and forget about them. At oo sobrang nagsuffer self esteem ko. More than anything yun yata dahilan kaya ayaw ko na makasama ang hubby ko kasi i feel so humiliated and uncared for lalo na he did it kailan sensitive state ko being pregnant. I was begging him to drop it all then because i need him and he insisited na wala. Tapos meron pala. Kaya ngayon im passive to him although frustrating for me kasi minsan gusto mo ng care from a partner and a companion but i certainly dont see him in my life as that anymore...hay basta be strong sis. Give ur self time to feel and heal. Dont rush kung galit k p galit k p dont let anyone push u to feeling better. In Gods time...(yun na lang din ang prayer k...in His time maybe i'll have a change of heart) Pray always mga sis!

[neraks]

@chimera29oh diba sabi ko sanyo eh,grabe ang patience ko pero last na talaga to di rin naman ako t****(sa tingin ko hahaha!) at i think eto na u sukdulan ko pag di pa rin tumino si hubby i really have to go na.

[manangjuday]

Hello again.. Yes second time ko na nahuli to.. Medyo mahirap ngayon kasi masyado ako nafrustrate. Natatakot din ako na baka matanda na ako paginulit niya ulit at tuluyan na ako mawalan ng choice.. As of now naghiwalay muna kami. Pero lahat informations na sinabi niya sinumbong ko dun sa bf ng babae. O di ba? Im sure najombags ang boWba at galit na galit siya kay hubby, alam niyo mga sisses minsan masarap din feeling na kayanin mo muna magisa.. Makita nila na kaya mo pala. Para medyo madala naman konti. If you will not love yourself at hayaan mo lang sila na tapakan ka eh talagang aabusuhin ka nila.. Hehe. Hopefully sana makaya ko. Gusto ko lang din magbigay ng leksyon. Kung magtuloy tuloy at hindi ko makita ang remorse sa kanya. So be it. May narecieve nga ako quote kanina, sabi dun.. A strong woman knows how to keep her life in order even with tears in her eyes she still manages to say im ok with a smile. God is good. Change is coming. He has heard all your prayers and says hard times are over..

[azrael]

Grabe, I read the recent posts here and felt really bad for all the women who were cheated on. I have been, my friends have been. parang lahat ng babae walang na spare sa ganitong mga pangyayari. =(
I am not married but I am in a relationship right now sobrang paranoid na rin ako because i felt the pain and yung sobrang kakaibang pakiramdam na nagagawa sayo ng experience na to.
It is very traumatic, indeed. But I am able to cope kasi I have God with me, thus I am not afraid. I know naman after all the heartaches, magiging happy na ang puso ko...
Mga sis! I will pray for all of you/us here in GT who are in such a situation. God heals and we will be better... sabi nga ni Father Bo Sanchez, there are treasures in our trials. Just hang in there.

[neraks]

Grabe, I read the recent posts here and felt really bad for all the women who were cheated on. I have been, my friends have been. parang lahat ng babae walang na spare sa ganitong mga pangyayari. =(
I am not married but I am in a relationship right now sobrang paranoid na rin ako because i felt the pain and yung sobrang kakaibang pakiramdam na nagagawa sayo ng experience na to.
It is very traumatic, indeed. But I am able to cope kasi I have God with me, thus I am not afraid. I know naman after all the heartaches, magiging happy na ang puso ko...
Mga sis! I will pray for all of you/us here in GT who are in such a situation. God heals and we will be better... sabi nga ni Father Bo Sanchez, there are treasures in our trials. Just hang in there.

Thank u sis azrael,sigurado malaking maitutulong sa min nyang prayers mo.indeed it's very traumatic,nakakaloka ngang isipin.i'm not saying okay na ko pero i think sa ganitong sitwasyon we really need to move on kasi pag indi 2 lang pupuntahan natin sementeryo or mental hospital.

update ko lang kayo sa situation ko ngayon,i'm really doing my best to move on.iniiwasan ko ng magisip at pag dumarating yung ganung instances nagpepray na lang ako.mas lalo kami naging open yung communication naming magasawa naguusap kami gabi-gabi after saying our prayers.lahat ng dapat kong malaman sinabi nya kasi sabi ko nga wish ko na makapasok sa utak nya LOL!i think naman sincere sha at very sorry sa ginawa nya.

[eimerej5]

eimerej5 sis alam ko na kung sino yung girl.  nalaman ko the other day.  hinge nga sana muna ako ng opinion or suggestion  sa mga sisses natin dito kung anong move gagawin ko pero di ko natiis, kinon-front ko sya kaagad at di sya nakapag-deny.  grabe itong asawa ko gumawa pa ng alyas sa facebook.  di nya maideny na di sa kanya ang fb account na yun kasi sya gumawa eh, at title nung album ay me & name nung girl.  ang sakit-sakit pala is kung makita mo na magkasama sila kahit sa pics lang.  thrice ko na sya nahuli na may kabit pero yung dalawa puro sa text lang, di ko talaga nakita ang hitsura nila, alam ko lang pangalan pero wala akong apelyedo.  ngayon alam ko na hitsura nung girl (sabi ng kasambahay ko ok lang, no comment.  alam kong mas may histura ako pero talo ako sa kaseksihan, nasa 100lbs yun at ako 130lbs.  maputi sya, chinita pero di sya chinese at 25 yrs old lang.  kamukha nya si mia ng sexbomb girls)  ang sabi nasa cotabato na daw yung girl, eto nagbababad pa ako sa fb hoping makakuha ng lead kung saan na ngayon ang girl kasi di ako maniwala na nasa cotabato na, alam ko nasa tabi-tabi lang yun.  yung mga pics nila dun pa mismo sa loob ng office ng asawa ko kinunan. 

parang imposible sis na bigyan nya ako ng negosyo kasi ang mga babae daw na kumikita ng pera matatapang, humahamon kaagad ng hiwalayan. 

naku sis, ang sakit naman nun. talagang may fb pa ha. Sino ang may sabi n ang babae nkumikita ng pera matatapang? well, thats true kasi you can live independently from anyone. But try asking malay mo pumayag.

Sis alam mo since nakita mo n yung itsura nung girl ang masasabi ko lang is kahit ano pa man ang itsura nun or katawan nun, kung talagang ayaw mgloko ng husband mo hindi niya un papatulan... sabi nga ng kaibigan ko na guy kahit pa mghubad ang babae sa harapan nila kung talagang ayaw nila, ayaw nila, d nila papatulan... Sorry sis ha, but im just sharing this. Kaya nga sabi nila it takes two to tango.. so gusto talaga nila gawin ang ginawa nila.. no excuses for that... yung mga sinasabi na natemp sila dahil pinilit, nilandi sila or bored sila gusto ng excitement, etc, hindi yun dahilan... I don't believe in those reasons.

It hurts yes, but sis wag mong isipin na your less beautiful or sexy, Ikaw ang pinakasalan, labanan mo yung bruha n yun. kung sinasabi mo n mas sexy cya, eh di mgpasexy ka din. since ayaw ng husband mo n mgwork ka  yun n lang pagppasexy at ganda ang gawin mo...

Be strong and always look pretty ang smell good even if you are at home lang.

Smile always para lagi kang mukhang bata..