After discovering that he cheated, how did u move on? ok pa kayo or hindi na?

[chefytine]

 what did you do after you discovered that he cheated on you and what did you do to move on?

he didn't hear nothing from me..  since he dumped me like a trash, though i really want to punch  his face!  i was really really hurt that time! pero what can i do eh pinagpapalit nako at nabuntis na nya.. so i just accepted the fact na there's nomore me &him. what did i do to move on?work and  i always go out with my friends and meet new friends. kahit papaano nakatulong naman



Do you still feel the pain of what happened?Yes, its been 2.4 yrs since he left me . i dont even know the reason why.. kaya masakit pa din..

[spc]

Finally finished backreading this thread...ngayon ko lang appreciate GT.tagal ko na may acct sa FN pero ngayon ko lang nadiscover my thread palang ganito.it's been 3 yrs since I learned abt my hubby's cheating...until now I'm an emotional wreck.like most of you, there are times na okay kame and there are times like it just happpened yesterday.hirap talaga to bring back the trust lalo pa na nalaman ko na flirt talaga ang loko.dami pa din nilalanding kachat sa fb...di naman sha sineseryoso nun mga babae kc alm [textspeak!] n married sha but still masakit pa den.sinasabihan ko na sha to better leave us na lang kc yoko na den ng ganto feeling...lagi kang suspicious, lagi kang nag-iisip kung tama ba yun pinagpaalam nya pg umalis sha.also lagi ko din iniisip na he is just staying because of the kids...that he really does not love me at all. =( but still masakit pa den.sinasabihan ko na sha to better leave us na lang kc yoko na den ng ganto feeling...lagi kang suspicious, lagi kang nag-iisip kung tama ba yun pinagpaalam nya pg umalis sha.also lagi ko din iniisip na he is just staying because of the kids...that he really does not love me at all. =(

[smoothie]

again, just an update. for the past few weeks, i thought i was okay already, healed and moved on.
last week pa nga, we went out of the country with the kids to celebrate our anniversary. kaso this
morning lang, i don't know what happened. something triggered and i cried again because of what happened.

ang hirap makaget-over. this is 6 months after i found out.

[eimerej5]

again, just an update. for the past few weeks, i thought i was okay already, healed and moved on.
last week pa nga, we went out of the country with the kids to celebrate our anniversary. kaso this
morning lang, i don't know what happened. something triggered and i cried again because of what happened.

ang hirap makaget-over. this is 6 months after i found out.

sis, mahirap talaga.. minsan akala mo nakaget over ka n, un pala hindi pa.
Ako, there are moments when i feel so alone and hurt. I feel something is going on and yet i am trying to ignore it... ayoko naman kasi na paulit ulit na lang at laging iyon ang topic ng arguement namin.. We really never argue except for that. Naalala ko sabi pa niya ang lalim dw ng galit ko dun sa tao, sabi oo sympre, she is the reason why i lost my faith in u, she is the reason why i hurt so bad... Grabe parang pinangtanggol pa niya ha... naku, eto n naman ako naiinis at nhuhurt n naman. naalala ko kasi...

sana makamove on na talaga tayo.... yung tipong kapag bumalik yung alala na un eh wala ng pain tayo na mafeel....

[smoothie]

^sa akin naman. mas galit ako sa kanya kay sa dun sa girl. siya yung may utak, siya yung may
katawan, kaya naman niya iwasan.

and hindi ko makakalimutan nung bago kami ikasal na sinabi niya sa akin na kung may doubt
ka sa relationship/akin, huwag natin ituloy. wala akong doubt kaya ko siya pinakasalan pero yun
pala siya pala.

ang sakit talaga.

[fegloria1954]

INFIDELITY does not only happen when your spouse shows interest - or actually follows through on that interest - in someone other than you, the rightful spouse.  Other acts of infidelity to one's spouse are:
- taking one's spouse for granted
- failing to keep promises to one's spouse
- belittling one's spouse
- use of internet pornography
- alcohol or drug abuse
- other addictions
- gambling
- putting the children first, that results to one's spouse not being the priority anymore
- work-a-holism, that results to one's spouse not being the priority anymore
- volunteerism, that results to one's spouse not being the priority anymore
- putting parents first
etc.

How do you move on after an infidelity?  How do you mend your marriage?
I found this very enlgihtening article from MAYO CLINIC that you might want to read:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/infidelity/MH00110

The article says you could also consider counseling, but understandably many of us adults do not really want to be told that we were the one who made the mistake or that we were wrong, nor do we want to be told what we should do.  If you don't think counseling will work for you, you might try doing what my husband and I did:  we did the RETROUVAILLE Program,

While doing the program, no one told us what we should do.  We only heard those team couples talk about their lives, their realizations, what they opted to do, and how they continue to work at improving their marriage and love relationship.  Siyempre nainggit kami sa mga puede palang makamit if we work at  improving our marriage and love relationship, kaya we agreed to embrace all the concepts, tools and techniques we learned about in the program and try to work them in our lives.  At siyempre rin, nahirapan kami pareho to make changes in our own selves, after all ingrained habits can be difficult to unlearn.  But, for the sake of improving our marriage and love relationship, up to now we each and every day make our respective positive decisions to make positive changes in our own selves.

And all I can say now is salamat na lang na we had arrived at a mutual agreement to do the program, and to work what we learned into our daily life.  Wala na kami sa hellhole where we used to be.  At masaya na ang mga mata ko ngayon pag ngumiti ako.  Hindi kagaya noon when nakangiti nga ako, pero malungkot ang mga mata ko.

Mommy Fe
helpyourmarriage@gmail.com
0918-918-7670
(02) 532-1446

[feisty_angel4]

Update lang din, I just saw the pic of my husband's cousin with the kabit sa fb.. at ginawa pang primary picture! Ang sabi pa ng pinsan nya sa akin noong nabisto ko na bestfriend pala nya ang kabit ng hubby ko that she didn't know anything and that her loyalty was with me. Wheww! Ang kapal kapal talaga ng mukha, kaya pala naging bestfriends sila! hahaha.. kasi malandi din yung pinsan ng hubby ko eh. Naging kabit din sya! Same feathers talaga flock together, hayyy, mga babaeng hindi marunong tumingin kung anong tama at mali. Nagiging kunsintidor pa! They hate me kase hindi pinili yung beastie nya. Grabe, after I treated her like a sister, she could do such a thing. Still making ties with that witch who almost broke our family apart. Kapal talaga! Well, good riddance! My hubby told me that if that cousin of his will ask about how we are, he would really let her see how happy he is and finally awaken from a nightmare. And that he was thankful that the witch made him realize the most important thing was already with him all the while. Hindi ako marunong makipag plastikan so if family gatherings will arise, I will just avoid her. ^^

[fegloria1954]

Sometimes "keep your friends close" is not enough.
Sometimes "keep your enemies even closer" is better.

But then how does one determine when and when not to?

Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, and, to change the things I can,
And, the wisdom to know the difference.

Change?  Who should change?
I should not forget that:
Only I can change myself.  I cannot change him.  I cannot make him change.
Only he can change himself.  He cannot change me.  He cannot make me change.
Then I must remind myself:
I am one positive decision to making a positive change in my married life with my husband.

I learned that a couple of years ago.  I realize I must work that in my life.

[eimerej5]

Update lang din, I just saw the pic of my husband's cousin with the kabit sa fb.. at ginawa pang primary picture! Ang sabi pa ng pinsan nya sa akin noong nabisto ko na bestfriend pala nya ang kabit ng hubby ko that she didn't know anything and that her loyalty was with me. Wheww! Ang kapal kapal talaga ng mukha, kaya pala naging bestfriends sila! LOL.. kasi malandi din yung pinsan ng hubby ko eh. Naging kabit din sya! Same feathers talaga flock together, hayyy, mga babaeng hindi marunong tumingin kung anong tama at mali. Nagiging kunsintidor pa! They hate me kase hindi pinili yung beastie nya. Grabe, after I treated her like a sister, she could do such a thing. Still making ties with that witch who almost broke our family apart. Kapal talaga! Well, good riddance! My hubby told me that if that cousin of his will ask about how we are, he would really let her see how happy he is and finally awaken from a nightmare. And that he was thankful that the witch made him realize the most important thing was already with him all the while. Hindi ako marunong makipag plastikan so if family gatherings will arise, I will just avoid her. ^^

Great to know that you and your hubby are happy now..
About the cousin, avoid her na nga lang or just be civil with her. Be the better person.

[eimerej5]

A GUY told me that it is "POSSIBLE for A Man to really say NO to a woman who is offering herself to him. If that Man really doesn't wanna engaged with another woman. BUT sadly Not all man can say NO especially if the other woman is persistent...

[lengski]

hi mga sisses, luckily I haven't encounter pa naman ganito prob, i'm just curious kasi if you are in my shoes, what will you advice a friend with husband cheated on her by payed sex. alam nyo na, nagbayad si hubby nya to have sex with total stranger, rented a room for a couple of hour.

she accidentally discovered it and confronted him. una beses pinatawad nya, second time, pinatawad nya ulit. i understand naman kasi important sa kanya relationship nila.

so mga sis, what do you think yun pwede ko advice and tell her so her husband stops paying for sex?

tia!

[euwie]

^^sis, bakit nagbabayad? ldr ba sila? grabe naman yun, parang addict na sa ganun yun ha.

[lengski]

i know his husband, mabait sya. kaya nga nagulat ako when i heard the news.

what puzzles us is why he did that so i asked my hubby for the possible reasons. sabi ni hubby ko, based on how he knows him, possible peer pressure or he's being adventurous recently. behavior that boys will always be boys.

my friend loves him with all her heart and i believed her when she told me that her husband didn't do it to hurt her. i can still remember the exact words that she said, "my husband told me that he's so pathetic having to pay women just to have sex with him while people he knows will just whisper on someones ears then something will happen after. you'd given me everything and despite all of that, i was weaken by temptations. he tried to be perfect for her, but he is not perfect. he sinned but it doesn't mean he doesn't love her anymore."

siguro nga, its something like us women will never understand. pero my friend forgave him unconditionally.

what i want to ask you sisses is, how can i help ease her pain and learn to trust him again. i want to help them kasi sayang talaga, they have a really wonderful relationship.

and to my bros out there, paki explain po bakit nagagawa pa rin ng males yun despite having a happy marriage? and what could we still do for you not to be tempted by these acts?

salamat po. ^___^

[OD]

^ youre right the cheating guy is being adventurous thus the need to outsource and even resort to paid sexual encounters just so to appease unbridled libidinous needs. In relation to that, I believe there are certain facets in the couple's sexual relationship that have remained unresolved or more aptly, unmet in so far as the straying partner's needs/kinks are concerned. Is your friend open to discuss extensively matters of this kind with you? Coz love, even to an overwhelming degree, cannot guarantee a safety net against human foibles.

[jazhmine012005]

Share ko lang experience ko mga sis.

Well kakakasal pa lang namin ni hubby last July12 this year, before kami ikasal he had lots of ex kasi medyo playboy sya before kami nagkakilala. May ex sya na kahit sinabihan nya nang kasal na sya and mag-kakababy na kami that girl keeps on texting him tapos sinasabing she's still inlove with my him, na kung maibabalik nya lang yun ati hindi daw sya makikipag-hiwalay kay hubby tapos kung sila daw talaga para sa isat-isa gagawa si God nang way para magkabalikan sila (take note kasal na kami ni hubby nun ganun pa rin sinasabi nung girl) then one time sabi sakin ni hubby gusto nya makipag-meet dun sa girl para i-end na yung kabaliwan ni girl at tigilan na kami syempre ako di ako pumayag kasi yung girl ganun yung mind mamaya kung ano pa gawin nya sa hubby ko. Then one time may nabasa ako sa cp ni hubby nakalagay na sunday daw sa "SM" ee di si ako naman deadma kunwari napansin ni hubby medyo wala ako sa mood kaya in-explain nya sakin sabi nya baka na wrng send lang daw yung girl ee di si ako naniwala pero may konti pa ring kaba. Saturday naka-receive ulit nang msg si hubby sa cp nya sabi nung girl "galing daw silang SM nang tita and cousins nya nakakapagod daw -GM" ee di sabi ni hubby GM lang talaga yung una kong nabasang text nung girl. Syempre as a girl yung instincts natin di ba masyadong malawak, talagang may duda ako, kasi si hubby pinagpipilitan akong umuwi muna samin and spend some time with my parents sabi ko sige uuwi ako pero later na mga 3 or 4 pm sabi nya agahan ko na lang daw kasi gusto nya rin daw nang time for himself para makapag-labas nang stress, mag gagames lang daw sya sa room namin, mag susurf sa net and kung ano ano kasama mga friends nya. Tapos nung bandang 3-4pm im trying to contact him pero dinya sinagot yung callko pero before that mag-ka-text kami pinaguusapan namin si baby. Then bandang 4:30pm he texted me sabi nya mamaya na daw ako tumawag and may importante lang daw syang ginagawa. Then bandang 5pm tumawag sya sabi nya sakin we need to talk, mag-meet daw kami sa house namin, tapos he called me naman ang sabi nyasa church na lang daw kami mag-meet malapit lang kasi church samin. Tapos there he confessed na nag-meet daw sila nung girl and kinausap nya para tigilan na kami, ee si hubby medyo concern din sa girl kasi for sure daw iiyak yung girl kaya nag-hanap sya nang place na private, wala daw syang makita dun sa trinoma kaya ang ginawa nya na lang sa Sogo sila ni girl nag-usap pero nung mag-uusap na daw sila ni girl, bigla daw syang niyakap ni girl and kung ano ano na sinasabi and ginawa tapos one thing led to another pero sabi ni hubby pinigilan nya daw sarili nya naitulak nya yung girl and di nya daw tinapos yung deed, sa C.R nya daw tinapos yung sa kanya, alone. Then pinag-bihis nya daw si girl and nag-usap sila. Ayun todo iyak daw si girl, nag-sorry din sya kasi nga ganun pa nangyari pero hindi naman daw si hubby ang nagsimula si girl daw. Tapos yun pauwi na sila si girl ayaw daw pansinin si hubby tapos umiiyak daw palayo. Back to church, as in todo promise sakin si hubby na totoo lahat nang sinabi nya, alam nyang mali ginawa nya but he was weak that time daw kaya nadala lang sya, accident lang and hindi nya talaga ginusto pero never nya daw talaga tinapos yung deed kasama yung girl. He was so sorry tapos he promised na he will become stronger and never nya daw kaming ipagpapalit ni baby. Syempre si ako naman naiyak kasi nga kahit sino naman siguro and 1wk pa lang namin nun kakakasal then sabi ko uwi na kami sa house namin para dun mag-usap, pagdating namin sa house todo iyak talaga ako tapos si hubby todo sorry, nagpasampal pa sya sakin 3x nang malakas kasi i need to punish him daw para maalala nyang di nya na dapat gawin yun and he deserve it naman daw, ee ako hindi ako mahilig manakit kaya ayoko talaga pinilit nya pa ako para sampalin sya, kaya yun sinampal ko sya ee mabigat kamaya ko kaya namula talaga face ni hubby. Nung una nasa isip ko hindi ko sya papatawarin basta basta dahil sa ginawa nya, pero di ko natiis si hubby. Honest kasi sya kahit anong kasalanan nya sinasabi nya sakin as in super honest kahit alam nyang masasaktan ako sa sasabihin or i coconfess nya sasabihin nya pa rin kasi ayaw nyang may tinatago sakin. Kaya ang ginawa ko pinatawad ko si hubby kasi una sa lahat umamin sya sa ginawa nya second hindi naman daw nya tinuloy (kasi kung ibang lalaki daw yun for sure itutuloy yun), pangatlo makikita mo talaga sa itsura nyang nagsisisi sya, pang-apat ayokong masira pagsasama namin dahil lang dun sa girl and panglima inisip kong kasama talaga sa isang relationship yun lalo na sa mag-asawa. Kaya in the end pinatawad ko si hubby. Si girl after a days nagtetext na naman kay hubby (take note sabi nya okay na daw sa kanya lahat tanggap nya na and kung pwede friends na lang sila at gusto nya maging ninang nang baby ko) (No way!) hindi na pinapansin ni hubby yung texts nya pero ako sa sobrang inis ko sabi ko kay hubby tatawagan ko si girl sabi nya ako daw bahala, ee di tinawagan ko yung girl ayaw sagutin yung call ko number ni hubby gamit ko, then tinext ko nagpanggap akong si hubby then nagreply sabi ko sagutin nya yung call may sasabihin akong importante ee di expect ni girl si hubby tatawag, sinagot ni girl yung call nung narinig yung voice ko binaba yung call ko, ee di ako inis na inis tinext ko yung girl sabi ko nung si hubby ang katext mo kanina ang bilis mo magreply narinig mo lang voice ko binaba mo yung call. Nag text back si girl, kinakamusta ako tapos sabay sabing malolowbat na daw kasi sya later na lang ako tumawag wala daw sya sa house nila, ee di sabi ko ulit nung si hubby katext mo wala kang nabanggit na malolowbat ka na sabi ko anyway sige ill call later. Tapos later on tumawag ako sa girl sinagot naman nya una yang sinabi sakin ayaw nya daw nang confrontation (sinabi na din sakin ni hubby yun before na takot daw si girl sa ganun) kaya sabi ko naman dont worry di kita aawayin (kahit gustong gusto ko na sya murahin pinipigilan ko sarili ko) ee di sabi ko kay girl wag na syang magtetext or tatawag kay hubby kasi ayaw na namin magkaron nang kahit anong connection sa kanya, sinabi ko binura na din sya ni hubby sa lahat ng social network sites and yung number nya sa phonebook sa cp nya (gamit ko that time cp and number ko). Sabi ni girl yun lang ba, okay dont worry. Tapos sabi ko yun lang then i dropped the call na. Tapos ngayon okay na kami ni hubby, nung una medyo hindi pa kami okay everytime na naaalala ko yung ginawa ni hubby i always cry tapos makikita nya ako tapos we will discuss it na naman. Hanggang sa dumating sa point na kahit naalala ko di na ako umiiyak kasi  nakakapagod na, bad para sakin kasi nga si baby nasa stomach ko pa and past na naman yun even though andun pa rin yung sakit hanggang ngayon iniisip ko na lang kung sakin masakit pano pa kaya kay hubby kasi mataas level nang guilty and conscience nun ganun kasi sila pinalaki nang mother na. Kaya yun.

The end (haba hehe)

[ybev]

Hndi ko alam Kung salot ba talaga ang fb....I found out bf/hubby  flirtatious  act tru net, at first denedeny Nya na hndi daw sya yung nag me message dun sa girl ng mga iloveyou and imissyou,,my nakikigamit daw sa fb account nya, pero never ako naniwala, kaya talagang piniga ko pa yung fb account Nya at again may nakita ulet ako, that time gusto Ko ng ms ayah at feeling ko binagsakan ako ng mundo ko...sobra kong dinibdib yung pangyayare kaya naman na rush ako sa ER due to difficulty of breathing,,kaya feeling ko mapapatawad ko Lang sya pero yung pain [textspeak!] hanggang sa mamatay ako anjan pa rin. At, may nerve pa yung babae mag message sa akin na they are just friend and nothing daw between sa kanila ni kuya..nag kuya pa ang hinayupak na yun. Tapos ayun Sabi ko sa hubby ko idelete mo yang bweset na babaeng yan...ndi Nya ginawa..ako pa ang blocked sa account ng hubby ko..haiz gusto ko silang patayin.. Tapos malalaman ko may secret fb account si hubby at ang profile pic eh yung mukha nung girl tapos info ko. LDR kasi kami pero I think it's not enough reason para gawin nya yun. Then sa ym naman may nakita akong pic sweet moments Nya sa bang girl,,,buti pa nga sila may ganung moments sa pool. Wala syang time even to [textspeak!] me or call lahat ng effort galling sa akin in which Kung tutuusin mas madami akong obligation sa bahay, sa laundry, sa skul and duty...samantalang sya duty Lang...kaya after sa mga nangyayare I decided to went and stay in there place syempre nakikitira Lang ako at dun ko na witness lahat ng kasinungalingan nya..nagalit at nagwala ako sa kwarto....sabihin ba naman sa akin na Lumayas ako sa kanila....na t**** ako dun sa sinabi nya...feeling ko lahat talaga sa kanya pahirap..kaya ngaun gusto Kung gumanti Kung may pagkakataon.

[december]

mahirap mag-move on kung paulit-ulit naman kung gumawa ng kalokohan.  akala ko ok na kami, akala ko ako lang kasi sweet naman sya sakin, cp nya di naman itinatago sakin, sex life namin mas intense kesa dati, ni hindi ako kinutuban.  then yesterday morning while nasa cr si hubby may nagtext sa kanyasabi ko basahin ko nalang baka importante & he said ok.  ang text "good morning sa honey ko! are you in the office na hon? ang nasa isip ko baka-wrong send lang kaya dinelete ko.  di ko alam kung bakit napunta ako sa call log at dun bumulaga sakin ang number nung nagtext.  doon na ako nagduda kay ni-reply ko kunwari ako si hubby.  ito yung exchange text namin:

me:  yes. bakit, miss mo na ako?
kabit: sobraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hon. ikaw u miss me?
me: miss na miss.  kung di ka busy mamaya watch tayo movie.
kabit: weeh di nga,sa monday pa tayo diba? ikaw hon nai-L kana naman sakin noh? siguro di ka nakatulog kagabi sa sarapppp ahhh ohhh
kabit: oi sa sobrang sarap mo sakin nakalimutan mong i-abot ang tinake-out natin, love ko pa naman japanese food.

di na ako nakasagot kasi confirm ko na. kasi nung isang gabi may dalang japanese food si hubby, sabi nya dumaan daw dun sa office nya si jhun(bestfriend nya) dinala daw nya sa japanese restaurant.  ang g**o yun pala ang kabit nya ang dala nya dun at siguro nag-check-in pa sila katapos kumain kasi dumating sya 1am na.  shot-shot daw sila pero wala naman akong naamoy na alak, sabi nya di daw sya uminom kasi sinisikmura sya, si jhun lang daw pinainom nya.  at yun naabutan nya ako na hawak-hawak cp nya, inabot ko sa kanya cp tapos nung nabasa nya niyakap nya ako at dinala sa kwarto. explain sya ng explain na wala daw yun, fling lang.  ang kapal talaga ng mukha

[guilleanne]

sis december, binabasa ko pa lang, miski ako nasasaktan for you. grabe fokfok na fokfok mag text ang walangyang kabit ng asawa mo. siguro hindi nya kayang bumili ng japanese food kaya tinanong pa yung tungkol sa take out. dapat sa kanya dog food lang. nakakainis.

Ang dad ko mga sis prior sa paghihiwalay nila ng mom ko, super daming naging babae. Super hindi ko maiisip pano natiis ng mom ko yun feeling ko martir sya. Kaya ako sabi ko sa sarili ko one strike policy lang ako pag dating sa ganyan. pero syempre mahirap mag salita ng tapos..

[december]

sobrang sakit talaga sis, ni hindi ako makatulog.  kita ko naman na sincere sya sa paghingi ng sorry at talagang naging extra sweet sya sa akin kesyo wala na daw talaga at wala daw yun parang trip lang.  minsan ok ako sa kanya, minsan bigla nalang ako nagwawala, bigla ko nalang syang babatuhin ng kung ano-ano sa sobrang galit ko tapos sya yayakapin nya ako.  pero walang epek yung payakap-yakap at sweetness nya.  ngayon nga habang nagta-type ako nanginginig ang mga kamay ko sa sobrang galit, andito lang sya sa likod ko tulog na tulog, di ko nalang ginising para awayin pero i packed his things tapos nilagay ko sa sasakyan nya. 

may nabasa na naman ako sa cp nya, nakalimutan nya atang i-delete, dated aug-11, ganito ang text "hon where kana ba? punta ka na dito bilis wet na wet na ako kakiisip sayo. kaw ha lagi ka late sa usapan natin"  pokpok na pokpok talaga ang malanding yun!  nung araw na nabuking ko si hubby tinawagan ko yung babae, boses malandi talaga as in pang-bedroom voice at napaka-malumanay magsalita.  di ko napigilan sarili ko minura ko sya at ayun binabaan ako at hanggang nagyon di ko na makontak. 

hindi pa rin ako mapalagay kasi wala akong assurance na naghiwalay na nga sila, sabi ko sa husband ko magiging ok lang kami kung iharap nya sakin ang kabit nya.  imposibleng gawin nya yun.  at ini-insist din ni husband na walang sex na involve sa kanila pero di ako t**** para maniwala.  eh kasi naman kahit laging late na sya umuuwi, nagdo-do naman kami as in almost everyday at pansin ko rin this past few months mas naging intense sya makipag-do akala ko nga may tini-take sya na gamot kasi 40 na sya at di naman sya ganun dati , yun ang ginawa nyang palusot na kung nag-do daw sila before sya umuwi dapat daw di na sya makipag-dp sakin kasi pagod na at tapos na sya.  iwan ko talagang ang gulo ng utak ko.

[engroselle]

naiiyak ako while reading your story.

naiiyak ako sa galit! kung ako nasa sitwayon mo, i would kick him out of the house. pupuntahan ko yung babae at ipapahiya in public! they won't get away with it!

if he comes back to me, hindi ko na sya tatanggapin.... yun ang deal naming mag-asawa. 1 time lang ako magpapatawad. kung lolokohin pa rin nya ako, goodbye na. di ko sasayangin buhay ko sa kanya. may 3 kids ako. mas kailangan nila ako.

kaya mo yan sis. tatagan mo lang loob mo. hindi ikaw ang talo dito. sa mata ng tao at mata ng Diyos, wala kang ginawang masama. nagmahal ka lang. kung hindi nya makita yun, malas nya. sinasayang lang nya ang buhay nya...