GUYS, would you consider dating a fat girl?

[insta_momma]

^ siguro when you see some of his friends wife kaya lumaki na dahil nanganak na and gaining weight comes with aging, totoo yun kasi mas bumabagal metabolism when we get old. unless they lessen their food intake talagang mananaba ng mananaba. some of his friends gfs siguro hiyang sila sa isa't-isa? most girls or women who are single makes an extra effort to look good, it's their way of "attracting" boys or men. nahalata ko kasi I was at my thinnest when I was single. subjective din naman kasi kung ano ang chubby or fat para sa isang guy. someone who's obese is considered fat and someone who's overweight is considered chubby, para sa akin lang yan.

[little_princess]

^ ah baka hiyang lang pero they don't have kids pa naman and a lot of them are "fat/chubby" na when they met their current partners. no big issue lang talaga for them. meron din iba tumaba over the years but it's not something that they tease about na the girl needs to diet.

[abuanddiego]

^is your hubby a foreigner? a friend of mine also told me that weight is not an issue in his country, sa personality daw sila nakafocus. most asians kasi have slim body kaya topic for ridicule ang weight. it's very refreshing to hear from men na hindi sila bothered by our weights, yung iba kahit suki pa ng gym at pumuputok ang mga maskels di ka nila ipupush at mamaliitin. but magsuggest lang if humingi ka ng advice or ikaw mismo yung magopen about diet and workout. I admire these types of men, sila yung alam mong hindi lang vanity ang dahilan kaya nagwoworkout at may respeto sa kapwa kahit ano pang size nila.

[little_princess]

Yup he is i'm ine if the petite ones na nga eh! Personality talaga sila and looks as well but they are not hung up about weight as much as asians. People there nga raise an eyebrow if i say i am fat hahaha

[FOURever]

^nakakapangtaas eyebrows naman talaga when petite people say they're fat.

[Mr.Punch]

It's really great that more "enlightened and mature" guys are dating fat girls. 

...Because that means we "unenlightened and immature" ones have less competition with the better-figured girls. 

To those fat-dating guys, you can have them.  We won't get in your way.  We're happy for you.  (And we're happy for us too.) 

[FOURever]

^good point

[minatay91]

to all the guys..

please say yes so that there would be more fat women around. and less competition for us, the non-fat ones..  Encourage them to be comfortable in their own skin

[Roadtrip_2020]

No.

End of discussion.

[sacred cow]

It's really great that more "enlightened and mature" guys are dating fat girls. 

...Because that means we "unenlightened and immature" ones have less competition with the better-figured girls. 

To those fat-dating guys, you can have them.  We won't get in your way.  We're happy for you.  (And we're happy for us too.) 

AMEN

[tamera_lorraine]

Read this quote on my fb wall

"Beautiful in my opinion has nothing to do with looks. It's how you are as a person and how you make others feel about themselves."

I'd really like to meet another girl that I'd find more beautiful after getting to know her

nice to hear may mga guys parin pala na hindi tumitingin sa looks! =)

[sacred cow]

nice to hear may mga guys parin pala na hindi tumitingin sa looks! =)

sorry to burst your bubble, but don't get my post wrong, I said "'I'd really like to meet another girl that I'd find MORE BEAUTIFUL after getting to know her''
which means that I already find her initially attractive. walang lalakeng hindi tumitingin sa looks, but we do differ in what we find beautiful.

[III]

sorry to burst your bubble, but don't get my post wrong, I said "'I'd really like to meet another girl that I'd find MORE BEAUTIFUL after getting to know her''
which means that I already find her initially attractive. walang lalakeng hindi tumitingin sa looks, but we do differ in what we find beautiful.

i agree po..honestly figure at looks kaagad ang nakikita ko...tapos pagnakilala ko pa sya and super nice, mas nahuhulog ako, pero pag di sya nice, panget na sya sa paningin ko....

i've got an obvious answer sa topic..NO.

[tamera_lorraine]

sorry to burst your bubble, but don't get my post wrong, I said "'I'd really like to meet another girl that I'd find MORE BEAUTIFUL after getting to know her''
which means that I already find her initially attractive. walang lalakeng hindi tumitingin sa looks, but we do differ in what we find beautiful.

what i meant sa post ko eh indi naman palaging looks lang may kasama pa ring ugali

[budzwhiz]

^ Wala naman yatang guy na looks lang ang tinitignan. Well, initially, it's the appearance siguro that prompts them to make a move. Pero kahit naman gano kaganda pa yan, kung pangit pala ang ugali.. nakakaturn off yata. Same for us girls diba, kahit gano pa kagwapo kung puro yabang lang naman e wala din yan. I think the only guys who'd consider appearance as the only factor are those looking for palipasan, syota. Or dirtbags. But I don't know... haha

May mga nakikita akong big women, pero ang gaganda pa rin. Probably because they're confident of how they look. The way you carry yourself affects how people see you. Sexy kasi tignan yung confident. Wag lang sosobra. Haha! And depende narin sa lalake yan.

[carmilina]

of course maraming NO dyan.. shallow minded mga lalake most of time

[sacred cow]

of course maraming NO dyan.. shallow minded mga lalake most of time

better to be hated for telling the truth, at least we know what we want and what we don't want.
kesa naman gayahin namin kayong mga babae na hindi alam ang gusto at masyadong wishy washy...will say you want
something but really mean another.

[minatay91]

If I was a guy, no.

From an aesthetic and realistic point of view,

It's just not sexually attractive in culture, and even Africa is slowly changing its mind.

Fat bodies just remind me of pregnancy, disease, stress and a lack of discipline.

It's no longer 15th century and ancient times wherein fat meant luxury and being able
to buy food.

But guys "might" consider dating a fat girl, given there's not much competition.
It's just difficult trying to climb a mountain, especially if it's bigger than you.

Hard to swallow but that's life.

There's a reason why fat girls aren't really celebrated as "sexy" in media,
and there's a reason why mannequins aren't fat (aside from saving on mannequin material)

Face it,

nobody falls in love with personality at first sight.

[sacred cow]

If I was a guy, no.

From an aesthetic and realistic point of view,

It's just not sexually attractive in culture, and even Africa is slowly changing its mind.

Fat bodies just remind me of pregnancy, disease, stress and a lack of discipline.

It's no longer 15th century and ancient times wherein fat meant luxury and being able
to buy food.

But guys "might" consider dating a fat girl, given there's not much competition.
It's just difficult trying to climb a mountain, especially if it's bigger than you.

Hard to swallow but that's life.

There's a reason why fat girls aren't really celebrated as "sexy" in media,
and there's a reason why mannequins aren't fat (aside from saving on mannequin material)

Face it,

nobody falls in love with personality at first sight.

^ buti pa 'to, hindi delusional in fairness, dati in some parts of the world fat women ang considered attractive kasi iniisip na kapag mataba mas malusog at mas makakapag produce ng healthy offsprings.

[inluvewithmikewesten]

Pero kakabilib pa rin guys that would date full figured girls (especially the goodlooking guys).

I have this guy teammate na diring-diri sa malulusog na girls and would never date them daw. Ang kaso siya di naman tabatchoy!!! Ang kapal ng mukha.