Who should be the first one to say "iloveyou"

[IronLady]

e syempre kung ligawan stage edi dapat guy! lol.. kung kayo na, kahit sino lang.. kung yun naman talaga nararamdaman mo eh..

[anir]

doesn't matter who must spill it first...

that most important is the sincerity of your words...

[c3eJ]

it doesnt matter who says it first.. if that's what you feel eh.. at least you expressed it.. andun yung hesitation satin mga girls na unang magsabi ng iloveyou sa guy kase nga of the fear of rejection and yung [textspeak!] marereciprocate yung feelings mo.. eh what if love ka din pala nung guy pero [textspeak!] nya din masabi na love ka nya with the same reason na natatakot [textspeak!].. sayang naman diba?

as long as sincere ka sa sinabi mo.. that's all that matters..

[bratinella08]

dalagang pilipina, guy muna... 

[KissLover]

what if kung guy lang ang nagsasabi?
ligawan stage...

[ysa.belle]

^o bat andito ka? ito naman ang thread na guguluhin mo? 

for me, it doesnt matter if who says it first as long as totoo yung sinasabi. meron kasing iba diyan na sinasabi lang para masabi.

[KissLover]

nagtatanong lang... usually kasi ang nangyayari kapag ligawan stage lalaki lang ang nagsasabi pero kapag kayo na babae na lang ang nagsasabi (napipilitan na lang ang guy)

well... action speaks louder than voice... halikan mo na lang kaysa mag-iloveyou ka pa!

[ebosh]

Question lang.......
Kapag ba nag I Love You senio kaso hindi kayo sure if you feel the same way, what do you do? Do you say I Love You back? Thank you? or smile na lang? hehe....
Saken kase everytime he says that parang naghihintay cia ng sagot eh di ko naman alam ano sasabihin ko kase 'Love' is such a strong word for me and can be translated into a lot of meanings. Kaya I seldom say it lalo di ko naman bf yung guy..
Sorry OT ata ako...
Thanks! 

[ylisza]

dalagang pilipina, guy muna... 

tamaaa! hehe.. 

[candy_tone]

if  dating i prefer the guy to utter i love you first because i want to know if he is sincere while saying it. If you are not sure if you love him back just smile and say that he should give you time to sort out your feelings. 

[IronLady]

^^^kapag di ko type, iniiba ko agad ang usapan ng magets nya na di ako interested. pag masigasig talaga pero di ko pa din type, at friends naman talaga kami, dinidiretso ko na hanggang friend lang turing ko sa kanya. pag like ko yung guy at nag-ILY sya pero di pa ko sure kung yun na ba ang tamang oras para sagutin na sya, nagt-thank you ako sabay smile o hehe!

[justin3]

guys dapat... ALWAYS. kahit na prinsipe ng katorpehan pa sya.

not because of pride o hiya yan ah. napaka unlady-like naman if pinangunahan ni girlet si boylet.
ano yan, i looooove you Piolooooooo!     i looooove you Justin Biebeeeeer!

mag hunos-dili naman kayo girls kahit na atat na atat na kayo. sabihin ko na... ang cheap ng dating ng girl if she utters the first "i love you" sa guy ha.

hey, even Posh Spice didn't propose first to Beckham even if she had bought  earlier yung engagement ring, na mas mahal di hamak sa binigay sa kanya ni Beckham.

maybe in giving gifts, cards, letters, ok lang na mauna ang girls.

ano, you still insist in answering na dapat girls mauna o "it doesn't matter"?

sige, dagdagan ko ng questions:

=== sino kadalasan ang nagyayaya ng (unang) date?
=== sino ang unang nagyayang makipag carnal knowledge?
=== sino ang unang nagyaya mag check-in sa mot-mot?

ano, any GTalker here na gumawa na ng 2 out of 3?

hey, we're talking of first-timers here ha? wag yung sanay na sanay na kasi isang Basketball Team na ang nayaya/napagsabihan and she is into creating her own Azkals Team na.

[felicityinlove]

Well dahil dalagang Pilipina tayo, dapat yung guy mauna mag-sabi ng I love you.  But once you are in a relationship, it really does not matter kung sino mauna magsabi nun. In my case, I say I love you at least once a day to my fiance and he does that too.

[viellemacey]

for me, pag bf na it doesn't matter kung sino mauna. 

[babae_po_ako]

what if he says "i love you" habang lasing cya in front of your office mates.
can that be considered sincere

[karmark16]

Hmmm... I dunno, I guess it's not important who says it first as long as the person really mean it. To love a person is something very special eh

[yellowkitten]

I'm still waiting for him to tell me he loves me.

We've been together for a little over a month.. It's like this kasi. We're childhood friends and our families have been friends forever. When I moved to Europe, we met up and in that same night we slept together. At first it felt like a one night stand. And then we just continued doing that and our families just assumed that we were together(i.e. I stayed a lot in their house) and eventually we just decided that okay, we are together. It happened naturally and the transition was really smooth. We're still getting to know each other and I think I love him. Or at least I'm  so very close. The other day we were in the bath tub and we were staring at each other and having this insanely intense moment and I felt like he was going to say something but he didn't. I know he's falling in love with me. He might not say it, but I can feel it. he's good to me and I've met ALL of his friends and we hang out with them a lot. he's touchy din when we're out like he's constantly kissing my cheek infront of others and holding my hand.

so yeah, i'll just wait because i don't want to be the first who says i love you.

[k_heart]

Kung di pa bf/gf at dating stage pa lang,yung boy. Pero pag in a relationship na,kahit sino.

[kisses bratt]

I dont think na kailangan na may mauna...[textspeak!] ba ang nararamdama mo?
Mas nakakhinayang pag di mo ansabi yung totoo mong nararamdaman sa isang tao either sa kaibigan, fmily or special someone kasi parang "one chance lang yun" at you never know kelan ulit magkakaroon ng chance and at the same time..."its a precious thing na they will always remember sa kanila" how you treasured them.. they may not answer you back pero makikita mo nangingiti sila..kahit na obvious na pilit pa din di pahahalata...
nami miss ko tuloy ang nanay ko...
I always say I love you to my hubby...my family and mga very close friends of mine...
Mas maganda di ba na malaman mo din yung response nila once you told them  your feelings, pero may mga tao nga hindi expressive.. basta ang importante sa akin, nalaman nila ang nararamdaman ko.. how much i loved them.. how grateful i am for having them in my life..

[Serena.]

It doesnt matter at all. wala namang karera pagdating sa ganyan. Mababaw para isipin pa. Basta naramdaman mo na, sabihin mo, WHY NOT? MAY MASAMA BA? wala naman masamang magconfess ng love sa isang tao.