Who should be the first one to say "iloveyou"

[pinkmallowpie]

is there any difference between saying "i love you" and "love you"?  everytime i say love you to my special someone, he would complain. parang hindi daw kasi sincere ang dating kapag love you lang ang sinasabi ko. it's like i don't mean it daw. ganon ba talaga yun??? pls enlighten me

[JHAZbewithyou]

Mas maganda siguro kung guy..

[blackroseMD]

is there any difference between saying "i love you" and "love you"?  everytime i say love you to my special someone, he would complain. parang hindi daw kasi sincere ang dating kapag love you lang ang sinasabi ko. it's like i don't mean it daw. ganon ba talaga yun??? pls enlighten me

I get his/her point.... I LOVE YOU... this is a complete sentence...
Remove the I and it'll not be complete... Kung walang "I" sino yung nagmamahal sa "YOU"?... I also hate it when someone says, "morning!" - tagaluging mo yun, umaga!... tagalugin mo yung LOVE YOU,- mahal ka... oh diba? haha!

On topic:
 It doesn't matter... wag pahirapan ang situation... (this is if you guys are both single and not comitted) If you like the person say it straight... Kesa namang itago mo nalang sa sarili mo habang buhay... I did this one, it ended up bad, the person didn't like me back.. I'm broken hearted but still no regrets, it made me stronger....

[janix athena]

It depends, kung couple na kayo, then it doesn't matter.

If you're still dating and pakiramdaman stage, it should be the guy. Guys prefer it that way. They want to be the hunter not the hunted. Kapag girl ang nauna parang ikaw yung nanligaw at sya yung magbibigay ng matamis nyang OO. Lol.

Pigilan natin ang sarili natin girls. Wag masyadong transparent that we blurt out "I LOVE YOU" sa taong pwedeng hindi pa handang magsabi nun.

Para tong spoiler sa movie, we want to see how the movie ends but we want to see it for ourselves, not have someone share the ending with us.

Saying "I love you first" is taking the fun out of the chase for guys. Let's not ruin it for them, let them have their fun.

[Kriman]

The boy syempre,

[yellowkitten]

It doesn't matter the one who truly feels it should say it. I was the first to say I love you to my boyfriend. I always say he loved me long before that, he just didn't realize it ;-)

[AnnieC]

Kahit sino naman yan. Basta sure sila sa sasabihin nila 

[ri-anne]

parang mas ok ata kung yung guy...

sa case namin ni hubby, nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami, sya yung naunang nagsabi....
and matagal bago ko sinabi sa kanya yung words na yun....kaya tuloy pag napapag-usapan yung mga dati, reminiscing..alam na alam nya yung instance kelan ko sinabi yun (in-anticipate nya ata kasi ng matagal lol! )

[hotminty]

noong boyfie ko pa lang siya, wala na yata akong maalala who uttered it first sa sobrang intense hehe baka memory gap ko na, pero ngayon hubby ko na, unahan pa eh, that's because it is something to be told otherwise parang may kulang sa bawat isa sa inyo every single day

[sacred cow]

Ideally lalake, pero experience has shown and a lot of dating gurus/coaches/pick up artists would tell you that it's better to leave those kind of things to the girl especially kung hindi pa naman kayo.

Mahirap kasi yung magsasabi ka ng "I love you" tapos hindi ka naman pala love ni girl, tapos rejection lang aabutin mo. It's better kung sure ka nang gusto ka talaga niya, like when you keep going out and then she asks "ano ba talaga tayo?" kesa ikaw pa (guy) magpropose. If a girl likes you/loves you she'll let you know...you don't have to ask or corner her by telling her I love you tapos ipressure pa sya to say I love you back or maging awkward situation nyo when she rejects you.

Parang ganito...yung Star Wars example with Han Solo and leia nung their lives are in danger na

Princess Leia - I love you
Han Solo - I know *grin

although, inisip siguro ni Princess Leia...naknamputs, ako na nga 'tong nag I love you tapos hindi man lang nag I love you back or g**o 'to ah...pero deep inside, she feels more attracted to him as compared to if he mundanely answers "I love you too" which is too generic and expected of the situation.

If kayo na ( I mean yung serious na kayo na), kahit sino magsabi ok lang 

[Parissydney]

Hala saken iba. Naging kami na hindi kami inlove. Pero sobrang gustong gusto namin isat isa hahaha. Ngayon na fa-fall na ko. 2 weeks pa lang naman kami eh. So pano un? Wait ko lang siya una mag drop ng L word? Pero nagsasabihan kami ng IMY

[sacred cow]

^ ok lang yan, say it when you mean it. dito lang naman sa atin uso yung nag-iilove you kapag bago, sa ibang bansa it takes them months just to say those 3 words kahit magbf na. I think it means more kapag ganun, kasi at least sure kang hindi lang basta infatuation nararamdaman mo. enjoy mo lang at bahala na kung sino mauna, hindi naman nababawasan ang relasyon nyo porket hindi nyo pa nasasabi yung words na yun

[Mommy•Shey]

Doesn't matter kung sinong unang nagsasabi ng I love you. Wala nang pa Maria Clara effect ngayon eh. Tsaka, mas maganda nang sinasabi mo yun lagi may occasion man o wala. Malay natin hindi na natin makita yung taong yun, (  wag naman )

[Alucard]

It doesn't matter. besides, mas magandang ipakita mong mahal mo iyong tao kesa sabihin mo

[silke]

si bf a week after aging kami nag- iloveyou na. now nakailang ulit na nya sinabi un everytime magkikita kami pero di ko pa masagot ng "i love you too". last time nga sabi nya sakin mahal ko pa daw ex ko. and hindi patanong yung pagkakasabi nya. it's like he's making a statement. i told him na i've moved on from the guy and hindi ko na yun love pero i haven't moved on from the pain, i guess. medyo natrauma lang siguro talaga ko.

[IamColleen]

I'm a girl, and I am always the first one saying "I love you". tapos wala pang sagot.





Hindi nya ba ko mahal?? hehe 

[huggykaye]

there's no rule on who SHOULD be the first to say it... just say it when you truly mean it then it won't matter if the other party would say "i love you, too"... it's like saying i love you no matter what..... 

[simang]

Wala naman rule, babae man or lalaki ang unang magsabi ng i love you. I don't think saying it is something you plan. Most of the times it feels more meaningful if you say it spontaneously, like that's what you feel right in that moment.

In my case, my guy told me he loves 2 weeks into dating. As in 2 weeks na magkakilala pa lang kami. We were not even clear if we were exclusive that time. Nakatambay lang kami sa sala nuod tv and he said it. At that time I was just enjoying my time with him, i like him very much, though alam ko in my heart na hindi ko pa sya love, so I didn't answer back. I just smiled at him and kissed him. That time hindi pa ako naniwala sa kanya right away, pero syempre di ko sinabi sa kanya yun, although feel ko ineechos nya lang ako. Pero he proved me wrong everyday after that. Siguro it took another month before ko sya nasagot na mahal ko din sya.

[FayeP]

doesn't matter kun sino, ang mahalaga is kun [textspeak!] nagsabi eh meant talaga un...madali kasi mag I love you pero ang hirap patunayan at panindigan....

[alice_alice]

Kung ligaw stage pa of course I'll wait na sabihin muna ng guy if I feel the same way I'll respond.

Pag naman mag-on na kahit sino mauna no biggie.