DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[redsh0es]

^No ex allowed talaga.
Based on my theory, at experiences l, at experiences ng friends ko, hindi pwedeng purely friendship ang kakahantungan ng mag-ex after breakup. Its either si girl or boy or both of them ay somewhat umaasa parin na magkabalikan sila. Hindi pwedeng walang malisya ang isa sa kanila.
Or, if they happen to be pure friends, success story kumbaga, yung present bf/gf naman ang merong effect. Syempre hindi maiiwasang magselos sa friendship ng mag ex.
Kaya i tell my friends na pag break na, break na. Wala nang friendship na kasunod, mahirap eh, complicated talaga.

[j.adore]

Agree. I believe if they truly started as friends, saka lang possible maging friends ulit after the breakup.

On weddings, tama yun ask the fiance respect naman hindi yan reunion. I think inappropriate yun unless they share a child.

My husband initially thought of inviting his ex kasi part of the group. I asked for respect since I don't have any exes hovering around as well. Ending, he didn't invite the group. Medyo sad but it's either that or masira araw.

[Ziyi]

I think it's case to case basis. I'm friends with some of my exes, meron din naman akong ex na I lost touch na although wala nman nang animosity na natitira between us. But there is this one ex na namumukod tangi na di kakayanin ng sikmura ko na maging friend ko afterwards. He even had the audacity to wanna keep in touch and be "friends" na parang di nya na realize yung panggagago na ginawa nya or he does realize it kaya gusto nya friends pa kami para mabawasan guilt nya. So yeah, I guess depende sa storya nyo ni ex..

[stylus]

Ayoko makipagfriends sa ex ko dahil ayoko rin na friends si hubby sa ex nya. Basta yun.

[fille_09]

No. We're just strangers with some memories 

[mysterioza_me]

tama na siguro na civil lang kami

[kim28]

^ tama lahat ng exes ko civil lang kami pag nagkita hi and hello

Pero may isa talaga akong ex na may communication pa kami naguusap sa social media before ako mag deactivate nagkakamustahan how's family life.  Kasi bff ko sya bago naging kami at ok naman paghihiwalay namin pinagtatawanan nga lang namin mga kalokohan namin. Ok rin kami ng wife nya pag nagkikita kami.

[agape]

I want to stay friends with my EX-BF but I don't know if I can. He said friends na lang daw kami. His flirtatious office-mate who disrespected our relationship took his heart away from me. Alam naman niyang may ka-relasyon na, dikit pa rin ng dikit, ang galing magpa-damsel in distress, so si EX-BF feeling hero with her. He wants to stay away from me because the new GF gets jealous, so now I want to keep close. Mamatay siya sa selos, mang-aagaw siya eh.

[j.adore]

I want to stay friends with my EX-BF but I don't know if I can. He said friends na lang daw kami. His flirtatious office-mate who disrespected our relationship took his heart away from me. Alam naman niyang may ka-relasyon na, dikit pa rin ng dikit, ang galing magpa-damsel in distress, so si EX-BF feeling hero with her. He wants to stay away from me because the new GF gets jealous, so now I want to keep close. Mamatay siya sa selos, mang-aagaw siya eh.

Hehe good idea to wreck havoc on their blooming relationship BUT it'll backfire if you still have feelings for him.
Kainis yang ganyan so if there's an opportunity to give a taste of their own medicine, go.

Unfortunately, machismo culture sa Pinas kaya nagwork ang padamsel in distress. You can try it too.

[chichi143]

isa lang sa mga ex ko ang naging friend ko. nung nakakasalubong ko siya dati dahil magka-work kami, batian at beso kami.

some can still see the chemistry sa amin noon. pero oh well.

the rest.. ewan ko. mahilig ako magunfriend eh. para makatulong sa pagmomove on. so ang ending, waley na!

[mysterioza_me]

napag-isip-isip ko lang, kung magsusustento siya willing ako maging friend siya but not to the extent na close kami like nagsasabihan ng personal problems

[kvandenhaak]

I am friends with all of my exes except the first one. But it's because we parted ways in good terms. So yes, I maintained contact and friendship with them.

[cybelekronos]

my ex online bf, nangumusta sa email kahapon, nag email sya para humingi ng advice sa recent girl na meet din nya online.. wtf, natawa na lang daw ako, sa dami ng pwede hingan ng payo ako pa talaga..

nanakakainis na nakakatawa..

sagot ko para sa ex na to, yes ok lang maging friends kami tutal online lang naman.

pero yung recent.. no. never. pwede lang wag ko sya makikita baka masuntok ko lang


bitter ko lang 

[iam_me]

^ramdam ko ang pagiging bitter sis
ayokong maging friends kami not this time hanap na lang sya ng magiging friend nya
bitter lang din hahahah

[cybelekronos]

^ apir sis, eh kasi naman un nga lang friend na niloko ka ayaw mo na ulit maging kaibigan yun pa kaya, ex bf na alam lahat sayo tapos niloko ka pa rin, sino naman matutuwa makipag kaibigan sa ganon tao..

#bitter

[imyourangel]

Ayoko makipagfriends sa ex ko dahil ayoko rin na friends si hubby sa ex nya. Basta yun.

Same tayo sis. No way.

Besides, Exes are X's for a reason. X = very wrong. Lol

[misslovelyjoy]

One of my exes is part of the group. Civil lang kami. Nag-uusap and nagkikita lang when may get together. Ayaw ni bf na may communication pa with my civil ex friend. So pinadelete niya number sa phone ko and blocked him sa fb.

[meishan]

you can never be friends with your ex.. may officemate keeps telling me if you're friends with your ex it's either one of you still love the other or hinde niyo talaga minahal yung isa't isa.

[aihartyu]

definitely no. if possible di na kami magkita forever.

[jamien]

Yes! para alam mo na totally over ka na sa kanya