DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[aclaneasyon26]

No communication with any of them right now, pero I'm Facebook friends with all except my first ex.


Ex number one is too full of himself 

Ex number two is already married and with a kid --- no reason to talk to him. He gets a little weird when he's drunk though, nagmemessage siya makipagkita or whatever. I brush it off na lang.

Ex number three is also taken na. He's been trying to fix his relationship with his girl and I'm also trying to patch up things with my son's dad --- so us talking would just not be helpful at all.

[mysterioza_me]

Nope. Hindi ko sila friends pero hindi ko din naman sila kaaway. Dedma lang.

[iggy40]

Depends which ex.

I have couple of exes that I can still talk to without feeling weird or awkward. Maybe because of the duration or the relationship extended to my family and friends, or simply walang malice or its maturity din. Yes!

Then theres few that I feel indifferent already, then iba that the breakup was messy---that until now, may love-and-hate feeling. So, NO!

Each love is different thats why they say "nothing feels the same with you". However, just dont forget to learn from each.

[KrabbyPatty!]

Wala talaga akong "ex boyfriend" kasi di naman kami official puro MU-MU lang na almost bf pero my family knew them well.

I'm not too friendly with them anymore. Civil lang kami sa isat isa, more like acquaintance na lang. Pag nagkakasama kami sa gatherings, nagpapansinan lang kami casually. Ayaw din kasi ng BF ko ngayon na makipag-friends friends ako and ako rin naman I can do without them being my friends. 

[snowkeis]

Civil lang. Meron din naman kami pinagsamahan. And depende sa naging relationship nyo ni ex. Meron ako ex na friend ko sa FB. Meron isa na hanggang ngayon bitter pa. Haha! So depende. Civil lang siguro.

[ms.bumbay]

Depende naman kung LOVE ko talaga ex ko ayoko makipag friends kasi masakit yun. Kung di ako serious sa EX ko eh okey lang na makipagfriends ako..

[gc.garcia]

No.

When you have history together, especially bad history, no amount of friendship can get past that.

You can't be friends with someone you can't trust.

[britzm]

we could have been friends but he abused my trust. i have trust issues and told him he's one of the few people that belong in my trust circle (friends pa lang kami noon). he took advantage and swooned me. then left me for another girl. after all he did, i know he's a keeper. na curios siguro pano lokohin ang mga taong katulad ko.

[gc.garcia]

It's so hard to be friends with someone who you have tremendous history with.

It's awkward none the least and I feel like whatever milestone you both reach at certain points in your lives, whether you're both happy with someone else or at peace with being alone. It's always going to boil down to that one particular moment in time where you or him or the both of you have hurt each other beyond words.

I guess there's always going to be those lingering feelings however long it had been, specially if that person had meant so much.

[prettyellowish]

Pareho kase kame wala na pakielam so wag nalang maging friends mas better ang ganun wala pang hassle sa mga present partners.

[HAYLEELOVE]

Hindi na rin siguro. Friends sa FB pero in a way na hangang tingin na lang sa Timeline for curiosity sake. Haha!

[Filipinasadhart]

Hindi na ayoko na sila maging friends. Isa na rin reason kase masasaktan ako at mag reminis pa ko sa nangyari.  Ayusin ko na lang buhay ko mas okay pa yun keysa makipag friends sa kanila.

[baliwsayo]

Nag-mature na siguro ako kasi kaya ko na maging friends with exes. Lol!

Kaso yun ex ko ang di kaya. Nawiweirduhan ako. Yabang niya sa kin dati so tinanggap ko ng di siguro kami puwede. Tapos a year passed, naka-move on na ako so okay na to be friends ulit (he is a friend since HS so sayang naman di ba), so I contacted him. Usap lang regularly tapos gulat ako nagprofess na he never got over me. WTH??! Na-shock ako siyempre kasi ang hirap kaya mag-move on tapos ganun ganun lang? To be honest pinag-isipan ko mabuti kung gusto ko pa magkaron ulit ng relationship with him kasi alam ko naman na maski papano I still care for him. Pero alam nyo yun, parang nakakaumay na after mo maghirap magmove on babalik ka na naman? Feel ko ang stupid ko pag pumayag ako na magkabalikan kami. Anyway, di ko na lang muna siya kinakausap para matulungan ko siya na makapag-move on na din. Sana nga maging friends pa din kami pag okay na siya.

[MR.TURKO]

Depende sa klase ng break up. at sa lalim ng relasyon.  Kung subrang nasaktan ako ayaw ko na makipag friend.

[ohmygorjosh]

i don't think this is possible based on how we broke up.

[lonely_dad]

i prefer not, pagkatapos ako utangan ng nanay niya tapos di na bayaran naku di bale na lang

[britzm]

i prefer not, pagkatapos ako utangan ng nanay niya tapos di na bayaran naku di bale na lang

this is hilarious. sakit ng tiyan ko hahaha

[lonely_dad]

this is hilarious. sakit ng tiyan ko hahaha

kilalang user kasi ang taong yun, eh ako itong t**** palibhasa mahal ko yung anak niya that time kaya ayun nagpapakabulag ako sa nanay na nanggagamit

[yonamarie]

Parang eversince the break up ayoko na siya maging friend.
But he was trying to be. Kaso, parang di ko gets bakit.
And what his purpose being friends since siya nagend ng relationship namin.

[misslovelyjoy]

Parang eversince the break up ayoko na siya maging friend.
But he was trying to be. Kaso, parang di ko gets bakit.
And what his purpose being friends since siya nagend ng relationship namin.

Tanong ko din 'to sa sarili ko eh. Siya nag-end ng relationship. I act na parang wala lang. Okay sige break na tayo ganun. Tapos siya message message and something. Parang ayaw niya ko magmove on paramdam siya lagi.