DO YOU PREFER TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR X OR NOT?????? WHY

[Shadow Angel]

No ang taong iniwanan ko or iniwan ako hindi ko na binabalikan. Ayaw ko ng may kaugnayan pa sa ex, what for? Ayoko ituloy ang life ko na kasama pa sa eksena ang ex kahit pa extra lang sya. Dahil before naman humantong sa sumuko na ako or break up alam kong ginawa ko na lahat.

[mysterioza_me]

Fwb ang nagiging result kapag nakipagchummy-chummy pa sa ex.

[tychenemesis]

For me, depende kung paano pakikitungo niya sa akin after the break up. I have exes na friends pa din kami until now. Hindi kami nag uusap madalas, kapag may holiday or birthday greetings lang tapos konting kwento kwento and that's it. I guess we are being civil to each other. 

[yellowminion]

We are not friends pero civil kami. And I like that better kasi respeto na rin lang sa mga current partners namin ngayon. But we are okay in the sense na pag nagkikita kami sa gatherings ng mga common friends, hindi na awkward and nagkakamustahan kami ganun. But I do not want to get close kasi iba pa rin if you give yourself that limit na hanggang dun lang. Saka pa wala na irng false hopes sa inyong dalawa.

We don not have each others mobile number. We used to be friends sa fb pero nung nagka-bf ako, ni-unfriend niya ko and I understand. Now she has a girlfriend na and he looks really happy. Ngayon ko lang na-realize na possible pala yun...na eventhough this person have caused you enormous pain before (and maybe ikaw rin have caused him pain), darating din pala yung time na you can be happy because at last, you both found your happiness with other people. And that feels really good.

[DeathToMondays]

When the ex that broke your heart tries to befriend you, they're only doing it for themselves. In my case, he was clearly angling for someone he can use [again] for his lechery. 

[books_mags]

ok lang. doesnt matter. as long as the ex can admit to his faults and say sorry, why not. 
i had an ex who fooled around with more than 5 girls and we are ok now. 
my other ex who slept with a girl from his religious group had been begging me that we should remain friends, sorry but no because despite his very religious background, he cant admit his mistake and apologize.  hindi lang naman ako tamang hinala, i caught them spending the night talaga.  he kept giving me religious quotes (example : If God bring you to it, He will bring you to it.) na parang  hindi niya ma-admit na may kasalanan siya at test ni God.  when  i directly asked him if he doesn't feel remorse or don't i deserve an apology, siya pa yung napikon.
 nakakabwisit lang at sayang sa oras kausap.

[badw33d]

better NO.

sometimes, we have to put in a bit of respect for ourselves. :-)