Calendar Method. Is it safe? how?

[patchuchai]

ganito sis, habang nag pump kasi kahit pano may na-re-release. you could search that sa Google pre-ejaculation.  Ayun kaya nga we usually do the calendar 8 day method. from the start ng menstruation count ka na ng 1 until the 8 day, iyon lang ang safe. lagpas sa eight medyo may possibility na, accdg to my gyne ha.

[lonely_dad]

dati ang ginagawa namin yung 7 days before and after

[sdee]

hi mga sis, it is our first time na unprotected s*x it is my 9th day of my cycle.

bali day 1 to day 6 yung period then on the 9th day had s*x then after nun may few blood discharge everytime i wipe. pero nawala din nman yung blood discharge. may question is, is it sure na safe days pa din siya? TIA

[NeilRudecat]

Hindi po tama ang 7 days before and after.

Walang ganitong method.

If we will analyze:

When do we start counting that 7 days?  On the first day of mens or on the last days.  In both, situation, pwedeng mabuntis dahil sa possibility ng Short Fertility Cycle.

[sdee]

Hindi po tama ang 7 days before and after.

Walang ganitong method.

If we will analyze:

When do we start counting that 7 days?  On the first day of mens or on the last days.  In both, situation, pwedeng mabuntis dahil sa possibility ng Short Fertility Cycle.

how come majority here works good for them ang safe days na 5days before and after?

[NeilRudecat]

HIndi naman kasi high ang probability ng Short Fertility Cycle. 

According to Ob Gyn doctors, for someone with a fertility cycle of 28 days...the ovulation happens on Day 14...in the middle of the cycle.  Before ovulation, the 3 to 5 days prior to that could be considered fertile days as the sperm could survive during that time.  After ovulation, the egg will live up to two days. So we can say that Day 10 to Day 15 is fertile.  If we follow the 7 days or 5 days after mens...and start counting after mens...Say Day 5...add 5 or 7 and you will get Day 10 to Day 15...Fertile Days!  Possible pregnancy.

how come majority here works good for them ang safe days na 5days before and after?

[luckysiete]

I agree with  5-7 days before and after menstruation, but when do we really know kung kelan ang after menstruation?  Kung clear discharge na (no red nor brown disharge)  or after the red discharge?

[sdee]

Sainyo ba sis you have tried the 5days after?

[simang]

Cycle Day 1 technically is the first day of menstruation. Dun dapat nagsstart magbilang for this method, whether you're trying to prevent pregnancy or trying to get pregnant. Ganyan po ang pagbilang nyan.

[kvandenhaak]

Ang cycle ko medyo umikli recently. Dati 28, ngayon 26 na lang. Sana hindi ako mabuntis.

[lonely_dad]

Sainyo ba sis you have tried the 5days after?

mas safe ito kesa yung before kasi baka late dumating eh

[sdee]

mas safe ito kesa yung before kasi baka late dumating eh

thank you! bali kasi parang pang 9th day ng cycle ko yun first time kasi namin na inside. kaya kabado ako pero sabi naman nga din ng ob safe pa din naman daw siya. super paranoid ko lang siguro.

[lonely_dad]

ok na yung 5 days after. wag lang 7 days baka me makalusot eh 

[Sharmaine003]

Hi po new [textspeak!] po ako dto, my mga question [textspeak!] po ako....i had my period po Sept 26 to 30, Oct 24 to 30 po, then Nov 13 po me and my bf both know n [textspeak!] pong penetration na ngyre and sa labas po niya nilabas yung sperm nya po then on Nov 28 po ng gabi ngkaroon po ako ng spotting the 29 to 30 po heavy period na po sya then Dec 1 to 2 po spotting nlng sya ulit prang patapos n po yung period ko....ang question ko [textspeak!] po... posible po bang mapreggy khit wlang penetration, sa labas nya po nilabas ang sperm nya, and ngka period na dn po? And [textspeak!] po yung dahilankung bakit nddelay ang period? I hope masagot nyo po yung questions ko mejo kinakabahn at nppraning na dn po kasi ako salamat po

[hyunhee00]

Ano ba feeling kapag sa loob? for 5 years withdrawal lang ginagawa namin ni boyfie gusto ko sana sa loob pag nagkita kami pero parehas kaming takot hahaha willing naman sya mag wait hanggang maikasal kami kaya lang 1 year n kaming LDR kaya medyo sabik. naiisip ko bili nalang ako ng emergency pill. anyone?

[NeilRudecat]

Hi hyunhee00,

Dahil wala naman masyadong nerve endings sa pinakaloob ng vagina, hindi naman yata nararamdaman yun pag sa loob.  Isang proof ng findings na ito ...ang vagina ay dinadaanan ng baby kapag nanganganak ang babae.  Kung maraming nerve endings sa loob e di sensitive sa touch at lalo na sa pain.  Sobrang magiging masakit ang panganganak na hindi kakayanin ng babae.

Ito rin siguro ang dahilan kaya nahihirapan mag-orgasm ang maraming babae.  Dahil nakafocus na lang lagi sa stimulation ng vagina. 

Now going back to the topic:  Ako, effective kong nagagamit ang isang calendar-based Natural Family Planning (NFP) method.  Kino-combine ko ito sa iba pang NFP methods at sa Withdrawal.  Hindi ako nakabuntis.  Last 2018, nagkaroon ako ng additional 4 partners.  Dahil sa confidence ng bawat isa sa kanila na hindi sila mabubuntis, halos laging nagre-request na sa loob.  Minsan nga, nagkita kami nung isa ng Saturday morning, then nung pangalawa nung afternoon, and finally, nung pangatlo nung Sunday...lahat sa loob.  Walang nabuntis.  Kung sa computation ko ay pwedeng mabuntis, kahit anong pilit, iwi-withdraw ko.  Yung isa nga, plano niya iipitin niya ako para hindi ko ma-withdraw dahil gusto niya sa loob.  Ang ginawa ko, hindi ko sinabi na malapit na ako...then sa labas.

Siguro ang exciting lang ay yung makita ng babae na nanggigigil na ang lalaki pag lalabas na.  Nakaka-turn on ito at gusto ng babae na sabayan niya ng orgasm.

Warning nga pala ...yung time na sobrang taas ng libido (high sex drive) at ginugusto ng babae na sa loob ...yun mismo rin ang moment na mataas ang posibilidad na mabuntis.

Notes:
"...penetration to the far reaches of the vagina by a very long penis is NOT ESSENTIAL and may NOT even be noticeable. Many important factors are more important than penis size in giving a women pleasure."

-- Sexual Anatomy Chapter 4 handout in SOSC 3 (nakuha ko ito sa digitized photocopy post ng isang girl na FB Friend)

"...the inner two thirds of the vagina are substantially less sensitive than the outer third. In a series of experiments, Dr. Kinsey asked five gynecologists to examine the genitals of almost nine hundred women in order to find out which areas were the most sensitive. The deep interior walls of the vagina really have few nerve endings and are quite insensitive when stroked or lightly pressed."

-- She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. Dr. Ian Kerner (Sex Therapist)

[Faithy2018]

Hi po. I just want to ask bale [textspeak!] periods is 14 to 17 then nagsex ng somewhere 22 to 23. 28 days cycle sya. Then nakalagay sa e ang estimated na fertilization is 31. Possible ba yun. I mean pasok ba sya dun sa sex days. Or me iba pang nakad. O after nung 22 or 23. Nakakaconfused pp kase if ang sperm is 3 to 5 days ang buhay. Then if pasok dba dapat magmemeet [textspeak!] egg at sperm around 26 to 27? If un [textspeak!] ovulation window nya. Thanks po

[futboler_dati]

^ possible na mabuntis... pasok sa mga unsafe days yung araw na nagsex...

[kvandenhaak]

^Or she can make her life easier by using contraceptives. Another alternative is using apps to track her period.

[Faithy2018]

Sorry mga sis wrong info [textspeak!] period is start ng 17 to 20. Then nag sex ng somewhere between 23 and 24. May chance ba mabuntis un if [textspeak!] estimated na fertility is from 27 to 31. And ang sabi is [textspeak!] sperm nabbuhay ng 5 days. May chance bang mabuntis un