Can men get too attached to someone he is having casual sex with regularly?

[sugardrop]

My brother from another mother buddy fell hard for his fbuddy. Their set up is just like that of fwb pero he got too attached. Now that she likes a co-worker, para syang wasak ngayon. One week hindi nakapasok sa work since he can't focus. And he admitted just now that he loves her. So yes, men can get attached to girls they have casual sex with regularly.

[ryan22]

everybody can get attach to the person you are having sex with.

[missybee]

watch "How I met your mother". Barney Stinson is being funny but most of it are facts

To guys: If you dont wanna get hooked, stop at 2 "meetings"
To girls: If you want him hooked, try 3 "meetings" then use the "cat-string theory"


Damn, i'm breaking the bro-code by exposing this 

I like this.
Happened to me, lol.
Anyway, I think 30% out of 100 lang ang na iinlove, the other 70 is that, they're in denial stage or ayaw talaga at wala sa plan.

[loijochen]

watch "How I met your mother". Barney Stinson is being funny but most of it are facts

To guys: If you dont wanna get hooked, stop at 2 "meetings"
To girls: If you want him hooked, try 3 "meetings" then use the "cat-string theory"


Damn, i'm breaking the bro-code by exposing this 

hmmm.. just curious what's that cat-string theory?
does it really work?

[kaiz]

i know somebody na started as fubus then got inlove tapos now they're married. actually last week sila kinasal.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

i know somebody na started as fubus then got inlove tapos now they're married. actually last week sila kinasal.

^ Wow! Success story, huh? I wonder how many in a million or in a thousand or in hundreds? 

[simang]

Two of my college friends started hooking up months after our graduation, the guy was still in a long term LDR (then gf was in the states), while my girl friend just broke up with her 2-yr long bf. it started as one night stand. It went on for several months until magbreak si guy and his gf; a year later naging official mag-bf-gf sila and 2 years later they got married. ;-)

Kwinento na lang nila sa amin yan nung kasal na sila. We had no idea they were fubus before they were a couple, since both are part of the same barkada, pag lumalabas kami nun, very casual sila with us, di mo talaga mahahalata. Siguro it helped na they were friends and they see each other often apart from the sexy time.

[ryan22]

i agree with this. oxytocin yung hormone na responsible for this.

[louise1]

Two of my college friends started hooking up months after our graduation, the guy was still in a long term LDR (then gf was in the states), while my girl friend just broke up with her 2-yr long bf. it started as one night stand. It went on for several months until magbreak si guy and his gf; a year later naging official mag-bf-gf sila and 2 years later they got married. ;-)

Kwinento na lang nila sa amin yan nung kasal na sila. We had no idea they were fubus before they were a couple, since both are part of the same barkada, pag lumalabas kami nun, very casual sila with us, di mo talaga mahahalata. Siguro it helped na they were friends and they see each other often apart from the sexy time.

good for them.

[sexykha]

for me, yes. men are humans as well they also have feelings just like girls.
so that's possible

[Observer54]

for me, yes. men are humans as well they also have feelings just like girls.
so that's possible

-- WEEEHHHH joke lang! hahaha 

[sexykha]

^ahahaha tse!

[ChocoCat]

I slept with a guy once and then after a few days he texted me asking me if I want to do it again because he wants to. I told him it's okay with me but he gave me a warning not to fall in love. I replied with a laugh. I'm wondering if he's afraid we might fall in love with each other. He's usually the one who "jokes" about getting in to a relationship and getting me pregnant and stuff. Again I usually just laugh it off. He's actually confusing me lol! I'm also thinking if I offended him with the laugh response.

[CITIgirl_04]

I think with this question, men who have experienced this can only answer it right. And successful relationships which started in this can only share their experience and what they exactly felt.

But personally speaking, IMHO, I think it's hard not to get attached to someone you're 'regularly' having casual sex with as 'regularly having casual sex with' is some sort of an unspoken commitment with each other with a very deep level of intimacy since it's two bodies becoming one(hey it's a song right?? haha).

That's all. 

[mc21]

...Try not to kiss
...Just make casual sex everytime you see each other
...the usual foreplay for both BBJ DATY
...Basta walang kissing
...it will take more than years to fall in love.
...believe me, i hve proofs   

[t_r_i_s_h]

^ no kiising is hard.

well maybe i havent really done it with someone I didnt like. but yeah I really wonder if guys fell for this. kasi i must say na-hook ako dito eh hahhaa

[mrgrey]

I think with this question, men who have experienced this can only answer it right. And successful relationships which started in this can only share their experience and what they exactly felt.

But personally speaking, IMHO, I think it's hard not to get attached to someone you're 'regularly' having casual sex with as 'regularly having casual sex with' is some sort of an unspoken commitment with each other with a very deep level of intimacy since it's two bodies becoming one(hey it's a song right?? haha).

That's all. 

I had relationships that started as casual sex and meron din namang casual sex lang talaga. The first two na naging long term relationship siguro dahil im younger then and easy to fall in love. I'm thinking the casual sex worked for the 3rd because we were more mature and we both know the rules already.

[t_r_i_s_h]

@mrgrey i agree. getting yourself in a casual sex kind of relationship when youre young is a no no. and if youre also vulnerable like kaka break lang and the likes. thats a no no.

just my opinion 

[louise1]

"pwedeng madala" on the moment because he likes the girl but not to get too attached with the girl.

[k_fine]

happened to me. started as fubus and he asked me to marry him but i said no as i can't imagine him as my husband. don't know where he is now.