Can men get too attached to someone he is having casual sex with regularly?

[Miss.Pancake]

^oops. Yeah dapat FULL yun. Magkatabi kasi yun "D" sa "F". hahaha! SAgawa tuloy nun post.

[ohcmon]

OT: I'm a lot older than most of you guys/girls so naturally, I am more conservative when it comes to intimacy. But how do you start becoming a FUBU? No, I am not interested in having one. I am just curious. Ano yun kalabitan lang?

Not naman kalabitan, but happens after a night out/kwentuhan/"coffee" etc. Mahirap explain eh, basta you just know haha. Usually it starts as a one-time thing, hanggang sa maulit na nang maulit nang maulit nang maulit. Lol

[kvandenhaak]

^^Finally, me sumagot din! Thanks for the reply. Napaka-open talaga ng mga Pinoy pagdating sa ganyan. I mean, I live in Canada and a lot of people I know are locals but they are conservative.

[Eastsider]

^Agree ako diyan sis. Tsaka mature na yun kasi may kids na. Unlike minsan sa mga guys na wala pa.

TRUE. kaso minsan syempre left out din ako sa attention kasi nga may kids. one time nag mall kame. Edi dami nang gastos. nung napagod na ko kakagala, nag aya ako magmotmot e biglang tumawag yung anak nagpabili ng kung [textspeak!] ano.. ayun. yung pangmotmot pinambili na lang namin ng hotdogs, biscuit, chichiria, chocolate, pasta, giniling etc. HAHA  pero nung nakita ko siyang mag grocery natuwa ako kasi ang dedicated niya sa kids niya kaya dapat lang na maintindihan ko siya O:)

[Miss.Pancake]

^That only means your with a good person sis. Swerte mo. 

[Eastsider]

^ thanks! swerte na din. haha cute pa 

[Miss.Pancake]

^Sinong cute? Yung kids o siya? Kung both yan ayjusko! Inggit na ko talaga sayo. hehe

[Eastsider]

^HAHA! siya po 2 daughters kanya e. di niya naman kamukha. kamukha siguro nung nanay. Tsaka din siya mukang 35 muka [textspeak!] 25-27 ganun kaya di awkward pag nasa labas kami hehe

[sugardrop]

Naalala ko yung co-worker ko na na-attract sa current partner nya ngayon kasi he wanted so much to have a baby na but his ex had an abortion. So when he met this single mom na a few months old pa lang the baby, he fell for her talaga and treats the child as his own.

[tisaygirl123]

I think YES.

[telekikay]

most, but not all. men are less emotional and have the tendency to be driven physically.

[tisaygirl123]

^^
OT. What if he's continuing giving gifts, efforts, and asking what's our status? Ano mo ba ako?
is he attached? inlove? confuse?
btw, I'm not demanding him to give such things like effort, time etc.

most, but not all. men are less emotional and have the tendency to be driven physically.

[telekikay]

^minsan kasi, its a crazy game to play. mind games. pwedeng gusto ka talaga nya o baka he just want to continue what you have.  mas maganda nga tinatanong ka na nya kung ano meron kayo, nasayo na ang bola. pagsamatalahan mo na este sagutin mo na para hindi mabitin yun guy.

[tisaygirl123]

^minsan kasi, its a crazy game to play. mind games. pwedeng gusto ka talaga nya o baka he just want to continue what you have.  mas maganda nga tinatanong ka na nya kung ano meron kayo, nasayo na ang bola. pagsamatalahan mo na este sagutin mo na para hindi mabitin yun guy.

^ Sinabi mo pa, he's crazy. hmm. He said he likes me, I said I likes him. That's it. I don't want it to be more deeper. Coz maybe we'll end up hurting each other. Haha baliw ka hindi ko gagawin yun huh. Sinagot ko naman na siya told him "WALA, HINDI KITA KAANO ANO."
 

[telekikay]

^eh di well and good. i guess both of you are mature enough to handle the situation at least malinaw na.  eh di while in the process of deciphering your relationship, mag take advantage ka na. dami dyan sa group buying sites na deals oh! lolz!

[tisaygirl123]

^ Mas mature siya. He's 30+ na while I'm 20+. haha! Paanong take advantage? I don't do that for the sake of my own. Masama makarma and besides I'm enjoying he's company kahit single ako.

Medyo suplada din kasi ako. Kahit sa clubs. When I go out with my friends, hindi ako nilalapitan agad not because of my looks but because nakaka intimidate daw yung look ko. so friends ko muna and then pag ok na sila They talk to me. pero usually pag hindi ko gusto I leave them nalang and alone ulit.
Pag may ok na nakilala GO. but not doing the casual sex.

OT na yata.
well, for me not clear pa if he's getting attached but feeling ko naman YES! 

[telekikay]

^oh ayun naman pala hahaha sagutin mo na. sayang oras, para UNLIPOPS na din si kuya lolz! just make sure, he's into you ha. baka mamaya ikaw pala ang patay na patay...ikaw ang malilinlang sa huli lolz!

i was pertaining to your state of mind, hindi naman pwede ma define ng age lang ang maturity

[tisaygirl123]

Ayaw.. Baka anakan nako non! and hindi pa ako handa sa ganong stage. 9months na din naman akong single and move on nadin sa ex.
Ako ang patay na patay? Hindi ko masabi. feeling ko naman hindi.
one time, I was in Fortstrip with my friends and he's with his friends too, sabi niya Hwag daw akong lalapit when I saw him or don't say hi in front of his friends. Reaction ko lang is like (AH OK? Sige I'll snob you na parang hindi kilala)
then, we're in the same club, siya naman ang punta ng punta sa place namin with my friends. especially nung may lumapit na saming mga guys punta siya ng punta and parang sinasabi niya doon sa mga guys na I'm with him kahit hindi naman 

end up, sympre nakita ako ng mga friends niya although kilala na ako pero hindi pa ako nakikita. Wala naman silang say. mga friends lang na babae nakasimangot. We're both drunk that time pero I could say naman na hindi ako patay na patay sakaniya 

Mature siya sa dami ng experience sa buhay. so there!
OT na tayo dito 

[telekikay]

ok. let's hope so na you like each other. i just dont get the part of acting like total strangers in front of people.  if i recall it right, if a guy/girl is into you, he.she should be proud. but then again, baka meron kayong agreement about those matters.

ok, BT!!! lolz!

[tisaygirl123]

^ Hwag na hoping kasi ayaw ko din naman now in the first place. I want to remain single. 
and We have an agreement, even here in office. Kilala siya ng officemates ko through name pero no chance to meet him personally, same with me They know me as me, but they dont have an idea how I looked like. Just a description na -> Cute, Maputi and Half Asian/Middle eastern look.

Hindi ko din gusto ipakilala sa parents ko or anyone. Motto ko kasi BF ko lang ang may karapatan makilala ang lahat saakin 

^^ Sorry girltalkers!
BT na po!