NBSB Ladies, anyone? :)

[annlegolas]

wow, im so glad i found this thread.... im 28, turning 29 this year and nalulungkot ng konti na wala pa rin ako bf hanggang ngayon kaya naghanap ako ng mga forums kung may mga nbsb na tulad ko at this age (aside from my friends)....

it's by choice kaya ganito me, kasi nung nag-aaral ako, ayokong magkaboyfriend, kaya etchapwera yung guy khit magparamdam... tpos nung nag-work na, choosy ako lolzz, ayokong bigyan ng pag-asa yung guy kung di ko siya crush.... tapos may problem din ako kapag mas bata yung guy na may gusto sa akin.... hmmpp sana nakipag-dating na rin ako noon...  neways, iisipin ko muna kung anong klaseng guy ang gusto ko talaga at yun ang hihilingin ko... sa ngayon di pa ako sure... bahala na

[anjelica]

^^parang ako [textspeak!] din...lol! darating na lang siguro ang bf sa tamang panahon

[~yufa~]

wow, im so glad i found this thread.... im 28, turning 29 this year and nalulungkot ng konti na wala pa rin ako bf hanggang ngayon kaya naghanap ako ng mga forums kung may mga nbsb na tulad ko at this age (aside from my friends)....

it's by choice kaya ganito me, kasi nung nag-aaral ako, ayokong magkaboyfriend, kaya etchapwera yung guy khit magparamdam... tpos nung nag-work na, choosy ako lolzz, ayokong bigyan ng pag-asa yung guy kung di ko siya crush.... tapos may problem din ako kapag mas bata yung guy na may gusto sa akin.... hmmpp sana nakipag-dating na rin ako noon...  neways, iisipin ko muna kung anong klaseng guy ang gusto ko talaga at yun ang hihilingin ko... sa ngayon di pa ako sure... bahala na

actually pansin ko nga eh...ako nung nag-aaral ako, may nagpaparamdam, ako may ayaw. now that i want one na, tsaka naman walang dumadating...hmmm. is this karma?

[anjelica]

^^hahaha! feel ko din karma! choosy pa kasi ayan tuloy ala ng umaaligid! hahaha!

[spinnn]

No boyfriend since birth... present! Hihi. May isang nagparamdam, and nagustuhan ko din naman siya. I wanted to have my first bf after graduating college, and alam niya naman yun. Sabi niya, hintayin daw ako... pero.. wala na. Haha. Not meant to be, I guess.

[douxmadchen]

nbsb? haha. present, mga sis!

ako, i just turned 18 recently. wala akong boyfriend until now. may mga nangliligaw sa akin pero talagang ayoko pa. KAHIT CRUSH KO RIN YUNG IBA. feeling ko kasi, sa ngayon, distractions lang sa studies ko. mabilis akong kiligin kaya mahirap na. although, i know it's nice to have an inspiration... most of my friends will comment, "taas naman kasi ng standards mo eh!" or "i-try mo, malay mo naman diba? baka sya na pala.." kaso, ewan, talagang di ko ma-explain, i want to have a boyfriend at the same time ayoko talaga. laging sinasabi ng dad ko, "madaling mahulog ang loob ng babae, kahit gaano pa nya kaayaw yung lalake, in the end, gusto na rin nya" --- maybe this is the reason kung bakit ayoko ring i-try.. baka nga mahulog ako nang bonggang bongga. isa pa, ayokong ma-disappoint sa akin si dadi...

[kissmyhappiness]

Can I join the club? Haha. I'm already 19, but still no boyfriend (unless a one-night fling counts). A lot of people say it's because I look unapproachable and snobbish. Or maybe it has something to do with the fact that I came from an all-girls high school so when I reached college, I had no idea how to interact with guys. Ayun, na-culture shock ata ako. Haha. Not to mention, my dad has a history of cheating on my mom, so, I don't know, maybe malaking factor din to kaya hindi ako masyadong nagtutrust sa guys. So yeah, I can already see my future as a spinster. Oh no. Wag naman sana XD

[anjelica]

^^Oh no wag naman! atsaka bata ka pa naman sis. kapag kaedad mo na ako aba maalarm ka na...lol!

[pinkarma]

nbsb here, i thought magkakaroon na until niloko niya ko and bumalik siya sa ex niya hay.

[lennix]

OMG! Pa join. I'll be 29 in october, never had BF, haven't gone out on a date whatsoever. By choice or by circumstance? I'm not really sure. Just to give you a background, my parents were so strict when I was growing up, I'm the eldest kasi I have 5 siblings. My Nanay and Tatay would always tell me I won't be allowed to have a BF until I turn 18. Which they did not really have to worry about kasi wala naman nanligaw sa akin  . I remember when I was in grade 4 a classmate was making kulit and always making pa cute and he even gave me a bracelet. But of course it's not considered naman as panliligaw kasi babies pa kami no, hehe. And when I was 13 someone sent me a love letter and when my Mom found out about the guy she called me "malandi". Galit na galit ako sa nanay ko and I promised to myself not to be involved in any guy kasi I thought that was being "malandi". So there, years passed and here I am still an NBSB. I don't go out always, work at bahay lang most of the time, lalabas lang sa gimik pag importante like birthday ng friend or outing ng barkada. I get pressured when my friends would ask me kung kelan ako mag kaka BF. E paano nga iyon kung wala naman nanliligaw? Iniisip ko nga na baka sobrang pangit ako, pero kasi may mas pangit naman sa akin na nagkaka BF, hehe (peace). My Mom would tell me kasi daw hindi ako nag-aayos. Pero ayaw ko naman mag-effort para mapansin. This is me, kung hindi nila ako magustuhan na ganito ako, hindi ko na problema iyon. A friend offered to give me textmates para daw ma-expose ako pero I don't believe in that. Kai personally okay lang na single ako, pero naiiyak ako pag may nagtatanong kasi ang hirap mag-explain. And believe me ang hirap pala pag inaasar ka na NBSB!

[i.love.siomai]

Waah! i belong! i'm 21 and still no bf. i had a past relationships pero di serious so i thin nbsb din ako?hehe..what's sad about it is when friends are asking me if sino daw bf ko ngayon.sagot ko naman parati eh wala ako work.lol! ewan ko ba.natakot lang kasi ako sa parents ko nung hs.parang naiisip ko pano pag nagkabf ako and then nalaman nila.pano ako makikipagdate?haha sila pa naman yung tipong aalis ako ng bahay then tatanungin san ako punta? sino kasama ko? as of now may nanliligaw pero parang ayoko..ayoko din kasi magbf ng wala pa ako work..gusto ko pa rin malaya.hehe walang pumipigil sakin.pero nagdidate naman.hehe choosy din kase.haha

[gylbie]

present...

25yrs old na at NBSB pa rin... meron naman lumandi sa akin.. pero hanggang landi lang.. then u willl found out meron rin [textspeak!] ibang nilalandi pa....

meron naman paramdam sa ibang bansa.. pero ayaw ko... hahaha.. di ko feel ang Long distance relationship... hahaha... gusto ko mafeel na meron ako kasama manood ng sine... kumain sa labas.... ayaw ko ng [textspeak!] and col lang lagi...

hay... [textspeak!] nga choosy ako.. pero di naman e... basta mabait , maka dyos at mahal ako.. okay na ako doon... hahaha.. if gwapo at mayaman... Bonus n lang un... tee hee!...

pressure rin ako sa nanay ko at friends ko.. panay tanong kase e... ano magagawa ko kung wala [textspeak!]... sana di lang sila nagtatanong... hinahanap na rin nila ako noh... hahaha....

[blythe07]

i turned 26 this year and NBSB rin! haayyy..

some guy recently asked me if i believe in courtship then followed it up with "are you still single?" then when i said yes, ang sabi ba naman, "di ka naman siguro NBSB?"

i mean, what does he mean by that? parang ang dating kasi sa akin, ayaw niya sa NBSB. why do most of the guys avoid NBSB ladies? hindi ba parang swerte nga sila coz they're gonna be the first boyfriend of the girl? i just don't understand it...

[beachpatrol]

Minsan nakakalungkot para sakin, pero ganun talaga. Siguro di pa tamang panahon dahil ang busy busy ko ngayon. Smile nalang

[deliciously_ridiculous]

only had 1 bf in my whole life but everything in our 9 year of togetherness is nothing but a big LIE. feeling NBSB tuloy ako ngayon.. but im okay, ill be okay...

[lizziebare]

i turned 26 this year and NBSB rin! haayyy..

some guy recently asked me if i believe in courtship then followed it up with "are you still single?" then when i said yes, ang sabi ba naman, "di ka naman siguro NBSB?"

i mean, what does he mean by that? parang ang dating kasi sa akin, ayaw niya sa NBSB. why do most of the guys avoid NBSB ladies? hindi ba parang swerte nga sila coz they're gonna be the first boyfriend of the girl? i just don't understand it...

ang rude naman ng guy na yan sis. meron kasi mga guys na gusto mga girls na mataas ang market value, mas gusto nila yung ligawin na girl or had several past relationships dahil feeling nila mas pogi sila or something. tsaka takot silang maging clingy yung girl pag naging sila na dahil sa siya ang first bf nito which sounds really pathetic and unmanly.

I consider myself nbsb din since di nagprosper yung last courtship ko, the guy was kind of a liar and ngayon gusto niya bumalik, ayaw ko na. may nagparamdam din dati kaso masyadong feeling bf at demanding kahit wala pa namang ginagawang pormal na panliligaw. ngayon may mga nirereto sakin mga friends and relatives ko, pero hanggang text lang sila sa umpisa tapos wala na. btw, I'm turning 27 this nov. pero enjoy naman sa ngayon kasi I love to travel and shop, dine with my family and friends.

naalala ko pala, a male colleage of mine habang nag-iinuman kame, sinabi naman na nakakaawa daw ako dahil single ako! kapalmuks talaga, sana nga sinabi ko na mas nakakaawa siya dahil wala siyang breeding. kahit ganito naman, enjoy naman ako sa buhay ko at hindi naman ako pangit.

[blythe07]

ang rude naman ng guy na yan sis. meron kasi mga guys na gusto mga girls na mataas ang market value, mas gusto nila yung ligawin na girl or had several past relationships dahil feeling nila mas pogi sila or something. tsaka takot silang maging clingy yung girl pag naging sila na dahil sa siya ang first bf nito which sounds really pathetic and unmanly.

I consider myself nbsb din since di nagprosper yung last courtship ko, the guy was kind of a liar and ngayon gusto niya bumalik, ayaw ko na. may nagparamdam din dati kaso masyadong feeling bf at demanding kahit wala pa namang ginagawang pormal na panliligaw. ngayon may mga nirereto sakin mga friends and relatives ko, pero hanggang text lang sila sa umpisa tapos wala na. btw, I'm turning 27 this nov. pero enjoy naman sa ngayon kasi I love to travel and shop, dine with my family and friends.

naalala ko pala, a male colleage of mine habang nag-iinuman kame, sinabi naman na nakakaawa daw ako dahil single ako! kapalmuks talaga, sana nga sinabi ko na mas nakakaawa siya dahil wala siyang breeding. kahit ganito naman, enjoy naman ako sa buhay ko at hindi naman ako pangit.

think it's rude for the guy to say something like that? parang ang pangit lang kasi nung entrada nung tanong niya no? wow, we share the same sentiments girl! yung mga guys din na namemeet ko before, hanggang courtship lang. wala ng kasunod na happy ending kaya NBSB pa rin ako ngayon. i only had a couple of guys na naglakas-loob manligaw pero i must admit, ako din naman may kasalanan ba't di nagtuloy-tuloy e.

pero this guy who sounded like an anti-NBSB person finally asked me if he can court me. akala ko nung last conversation namin, na-turn-off na siya coz i've never had a boyfriend pero he decided pa rin na manligaw. hopefully, maganda ang kalalabasan.. hehe! parang i like the guy na rin kasi...

[mooncake and leaves]

My Mom would tell me kasi daw hindi ako nag-aayos. Pero ayaw ko naman mag-effort para mapansin. This is me, kung hindi nila ako magustuhan na ganito ako, hindi ko na problema iyon.

I'm not sure I completely agree with this. Look, bali-baliktarin man natin ang mundo, people (not just men) would always be visual. I'm sure you're a  great person and trust me, I've said the same thing before- but no matter how great you are, there are also a lot of women with great personality who   make an effort with their appearance. Most people are not going to see your personality right away. The thing is not to be "papansin" but to at least, highlight your assets. You look good, you feel good and you would look like someone who can take care of things, including a relationship.

why do most of the guys avoid NBSB ladies? hindi ba parang swerte nga sila coz they're gonna be the first boyfriend of the girl? i just don't understand it...

I think it has been discussed before. The idea was that NBSBs are usually more idealistic than someone who's been in a relationship. While that may not be completely true, with guys who avoid NBSBs, I think it has more to do with fear that they won't meet your expectations and that they would be constantly harangued with demands that they are not likely to encounter with someone who's used to disappointments lol kidding. Nope, but seriously, I think that's the mindset some guys have.

[lizziebare]

think it's rude for the guy to say something like that? parang ang pangit lang kasi nung entrada nung tanong niya no? wow, we share the same sentiments girl! yung mga guys din na namemeet ko before, hanggang courtship lang. wala ng kasunod na happy ending kaya NBSB pa rin ako ngayon. i only had a couple of guys na naglakas-loob manligaw pero i must admit, ako din naman may kasalanan ba't di nagtuloy-tuloy e.

pero this guy who sounded like an anti-NBSB person finally asked me if he can court me. akala ko nung last conversation namin, na-turn-off na siya coz i've never had a boyfriend pero he decided pa rin na manligaw. hopefully, maganda ang kalalabasan.. hehe! parang i like the guy na rin kasi...

well, that's good to hear sis. hope it will turn out good. as for my case, yung mga guys na expected ko na manliligaw nila eh biglang mawawala tapos yung mga pursigido naman yun ang ayaw ko, hehe... not yet my time.

[angelique_1523]

Count me in! Well, i'm 20 sabi nila bata pa daw ako pero kamusta naman NBSB nga ako. choosy ako daw ako and naghahanap ng perfect man, Nope, I just cant find the guys who can really show efforts or maybe after they showed it I'm pushing them away. Marami lang ako sigurong hinahanap but i'm really looking forward that i can find it to christian born again guys out there with same beliefs and faith. all things are possible naman. I will wait for my turn to be happy and in fact, if happiness naman, i have lots of friends and family who loves me.  me mga [textspeak!] din [textspeak!] na nakita ko na iba at [textspeak!] iba hindi pa. so ganun na lang muna. If I  can get my dream or my career I guess God give it first than to beloved and love by someone.