Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?

[FayeP]

wala, pag tawag at nasagot ko, sabihin ko ok lang ako then bye bye na...pag text message, deadma, pag email deadma din, pag FB messenger, deadma din...delete lang...ex na nga eh wala na puwang sa present at future...

[Shadow Angel]

After 5 years bigla nagparamdam si ex naku no reply ako kahit badtrip ako messages nya. May kanya kanya na kaming buhay hindi na lang manahimik. Mukhang forever nya di malilimutan ang name ko dahil pinangalan nya sa 2 kids nya ang name ko.

[FayeP]

^sis Shadowangel, TOTGA ka siguro nya, well, his loss hehe

[Shadow Angel]

^more than 6 years naging kami pero di sapat na dahilan para gawin nya un respeto na lang sa naging wife nya.

[mysterioza_me]

After 5 years bigla nagparamdam si ex naku no reply ako kahit badtrip ako messages nya. May kanya kanya na kaming buhay hindi na lang manahimik. Mukhang forever nya di malilimutan ang name ko dahil pinangalan nya sa 2 kids nya ang name ko.

Hahaha 😂 Kaloka eksena ni Ex.

[FayeP]

^sis Shadow Angel, nagtatry if papatol ka, kapal lang hahaa

[Shadow Angel]

^magdusa sya kung di man sya masaya ngayon sa buhay nya wag na nya ako idamay.

[tigerlili]

DO NOT ANSWER. DO NOT ACCEPT FRIEND REQUEST.

[mysterioza_me]

^True. Lalo na if may current partner ka na.

[twelvth_goddess]

I have an ex na lesbian and we had a messy break up. Taga ditto din sya sa office pati her current gf. From time to time, nage email saken expressing regrets, cherna ek ek. Hinde ako sumasagot. I saw her at a leader session that I attended few months ago and I told her to stop emailing me. Eh meron na naman. So being the level of petty that I am in right now, I emailed her back, attached all her previous emails na hinde ko sinagot, and BCCed her girlfriend.

[mysterioza_me]

^Good for your ex kasi kay current girlfriend mo lang sinend at hindi sa HR. Sa company namin considered na yan as harassment lalo na winarningan mo na siya na tumigil pero nageemail pa din siya.

[goddessella]

I have an ex na lesbian and we had a messy break up. Taga ditto din sya sa office pati her current gf. From time to time, nage email saken expressing regrets, cherna ek ek. Hinde ako sumasagot. I saw her at a leader session that I attended few months ago and I told her to stop emailing me. Eh meron na naman. So being the level of petty that I am in right now, I emailed her back, attached all her previous emails na hinde ko sinagot, and BCCed her girlfriend.

You go girl! konting konti na lang, gaganituhin ko na din my ex.

[twelvth_goddess]

^^Actually I had no choice but to also file a harassment case against her. Kase yung gf nya, nasisiraan ng ulo sa existence ko kahit hinde ko sila nakikita. Pano naman kase mga sinulat ng jowa nya sa emails nya to me. Tapos she found out na yung mga composed songs nito ni tibs were about me and not her. I filed harassment charges against them both so etong ex ko, nasuspend and yung possible promotion nya to VP was retracted. Yung gf nyang kamukha ni Inday Garutay, naka preventive suspension due to her threats. Honestly, kung hinde lang ako preggy ngayon, baka nabalian ko ng leeg sa bwisit tong babaeng to.

[goddessella]

^ Saklap pala. sorry, i'm not sorry for them. wag mo na sila pansinin, and don't be too gigil on inday garutay. tingin tingin sa mga pretty pictures para yun mapaglihihan mo. safe delivery for you and your baby!

I'm on the same boat, but at least not in the work place. magkatabi kami nang condo unit ni ex ko na afam. may bago na shang jowa na mukhang female version ni Danny Devito, sa totoo lang. And i'm getting to know somebody else too, pero i have no clue kung anong trip nya at nung naamoy nya na may bisita ako one evening (i invited my new friend for coffee after ng date namin) ayun wlang ibang ginawa kung hindi mag doorbell ng magdoor bell. kung ano anong excuse. hindi ko sana pagbubuksan nung una, kaso mas mahirap i-explain sa new friend ko. ayun tuloy, mukhang mauudlot si new friend. i mean i totally see it from his point of view. nobody wants to be with someone who's going through a messy breakup. kaya parang trip na trip ko gayahin yung ginawa mo and send Danita Devita his messages.

[leigh_iyah01]

My ex still greets me on my birthday. We were together for 6 years, pero hiwalay na kame for 7 years na. Every year since hiwalay kame, laging ganun. Minsan nga pati Christmas and New Year, pero we are not friends in any of our social media accounts. Since nag-ggreet siya on my birthday, I also greet him sa birthday niya for courtesy lang. Nung birthday niya last year, nag-Thank you siya and niyaya niya akong lumabas on his birthday. Pero siyempre, nagdahilan ako. Para saan pa. Sabi niya kaya daw gusto niya ako i-treat marami na raw siya utang sa akin. Pero I still said No. I don't know anong utang yung ibig niya sabihin.

Tapos nung birthday ko this year, he greeted me again. Meron pa siyang wish wish ek ek. Pero funny kasi hindi naman niya na-seen yung thank you message ko. Ang weird lang na maggreet siya tapos hindi naman niya papansinin yung reply ko. So this year, hindi ko na siya iggreet para matapos na rin. And siguro respect na lang din sa current bf ko.