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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #60 on: March 01, 2018, 03:43:30 pm »
why do ex suddenly pops up in your life after you moved on or after years of growing apart? guys ang laging ganito

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #61 on: March 01, 2018, 04:31:13 pm »
^If you have truly moved on, it shouldn't affect you sis. Just ignore and carry on...

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #62 on: March 01, 2018, 04:34:32 pm »
^what i mean is whats the real reason behind it?

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #63 on: March 02, 2018, 09:25:20 am »
^yeah guys always comes back. But most of the time they are just testing the waters, maybe during that time they are lonely and they tried to message all their exes to see who would reply. Baka it?s an ego thing.

Sa akin pag ganyan may nag message out of the blue kung ayaw ko kausapin i don?t repy. Minsan i reply just to find out kung ano ang kailangan niya. For me an ex is an ex wala na ko gusto balikan ni isa sa kanila so kung mag message man deadma na lang. it does not affect me in any way.

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #64 on: March 02, 2018, 02:32:19 pm »
^what i mean is whats the real reason behind it?

Pwedeng lonely sya / at a messy time with his gf, or possibly even single. Naghahanap ng pampalipas oras or fun, umaasang it would be less effort makakuha non from an ex.

May iba na testing the waters talaga ika nga, baka may mabalikan pa.

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #65 on: March 02, 2018, 11:08:18 pm »
They are just lonely and/or bored.
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #66 on: May 29, 2018, 08:59:14 pm »
probably bored sila or kakabreak lang sa pinagsawaan at alam nilang you will accept with open arms kaya suddenly contact ka :)
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #67 on: May 29, 2018, 10:24:14 pm »
Seen zone, ignore, keber or replyan mo pag bored ka din.
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #68 on: May 30, 2018, 09:09:13 am »
Bored lang yun pag bored din ako magrereply ako pag hinde deadmadela.  ;D

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #69 on: June 13, 2018, 03:33:42 pm »
Either ignore or chat with him but just know your limitation

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #70 on: June 19, 2018, 09:21:21 am »
if you had no closure, might as well talk to him. but if you parted ways nicely naman say hi/hello then a little catching up that's it. if it progress into something more nasasaiyo na yon.
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #71 on: June 19, 2018, 09:38:10 am »
Bootycall lang yan kapag biglang nagcontact ang ex lol.
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #72 on: October 21, 2018, 01:02:26 pm »
Booty call alert! :D
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #73 on: October 22, 2018, 02:16:11 pm »
My ex has been messaging me pero hindi ako nag re reply. Last night ginamit pa ang mom niya, hinahanap daw ako ng mom niya miss na daw ako.

Ang masasabi ko lang napaka delayed naman ng reaction mo ex. Almost 3 months na tayong wala ngayon ka pa naghahabol. You had your chance, i kept asking you to fix things between us but you kept saying you are too busy. You just ignored me. Ano sa tingin mo forever lang ako maghihintay hanggang gusto mo na ayusin yung satin.

I told you i will be dating na diba pero deadma ka lang so i did and i have a new bf now. Too late for you. Kahit gamitin mo pa yung family members mo it's too late. I hope you learn your lesson not to take for granted the ones who love you and is there for you. 

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #74 on: December 28, 2018, 09:53:54 am »
Nothing. Ex na pala eh. In fact, iba-block ko pa sya haha.

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #75 on: February 01, 2019, 08:45:01 pm »
My ex for the past 14 years keep bugging me.. At first kina usap ko sha kasi i asked for his forgiveness dahil i cheated on him when we we?re together. So ok na. Nag asawa na sha. Ako bf lang,. Then one time he sent me a message na hiwalay na daw sila ng asawa niya. So i didn?t reply kasi unang una ayoko na talaga sa kanya and kahit single ako hinding hindi na ako babalik sa kanya. Then nung umuwi ako sa pinas last december he message me again, asking kung pwede daw kami mag meet and binigay niya pa yung number niya. Nakakatawa talaga. Kasi hoping ang Bakla. So finally after his nth messages nagreply na ako. Sabi ko ?Sorry i?m not interested.? Please leave me alone?

Ayun hindi na rin sha nagreply. Account pa ng mom niya ginamit niya kasi hindi kami friends s fb. Kairita lang kasi dahil feeling sha as if babalik pa ako sa kanya.

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #76 on: February 12, 2019, 01:07:33 pm »
^ ahh mabuti naman hindi naman na pala nang iistorbo. pero kung gusto mo totally mawala na sya sa buhay mo, mas makakabuti pati rin siguro mga taong attached sa inyo dalawa alisin mo na din. siyempre kung gagawin mo yan with consent nila para hindi naman lalabas na ikaw ang bitter and bilang respeto na rin sa kanila na siguro naman naging okay yung samahan nyo nun kayo pa ng ex mo.
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #77 on: June 25, 2019, 06:30:34 pm »
Don't entertain old flames  ;D

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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #78 on: August 28, 2019, 12:13:39 pm »
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Re: Your ex boyfriend suddenly contacts you what should you do?
« Reply #79 on: August 29, 2019, 06:16:03 am »
Booty call lang yan 👎🏻
If a girl understands your b******t, stick through your mistakes, smiles even when you've done nothing for her , it's obvious she's a keeper. But it's also obVious that you don't deserve her...

 


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