Moving In together

[Clarisa]

bf and I are living together for more than a year now.. actually dito mo makikita yung tunay na ugali ng isang tao kapag magkasama kayo sa isang bahay..

[kaye27]

for me i can consider it, to know each other better.. Pero iba iba naman tayo ng gustoeh. meron agree meron namang ayaw ng ganitong set up. Basta if it will help you strengthen your reationship, why not?

[Pretty_ava]

nothing wrong with me...pero naman kase, jusmiyo.uber conservative sila nanay ko, nung bf ko pa lang si hubs, no no yan, as in...para bang masusunog ka sa impyerno pag ginawa mo yan, yan ang pananaw ni lola ko.

pero ako, ika nga to test the water...para walang sabit pag di na nagka ayos.....kaya nga madaming nakikipag divorce or annul diba, kasi hindi sila compatible.

[AmbersMom]

before we got married, we lived together for about a year or so...

he moved in when we were like 8 months pa lang...

his parents knew about it but ok lang daw kasi they knew how responsible he is but parents ko naman they dint know a thing kasi nasa province and bihira lang lumuwas ng manila...

for me it was a good decision kasi we were able to really get to know each other inside and outside...


until now di pa din nalaman ng parents ko na nag live in muna kami before getting married... should i tell them pa ba?     

[mib3b3]

^naku sis, wag mo na sabihin, bakit pa married na kayo.. hehe

anyway ako, sabi ko nga sa mga friends ko, "semi live-in" kami, hehe.. meron bang ganito?? kasi every weekends talaga, dun ako nakatira sa house nila. mas love pa ako ng nanay niya, tee hee!

at alam naman ng parents ko at OK lang sa kanila (wala na naman sila magawa dahil wala sila dito sa pinas at hello ang tanda ko na kaya, hahaha )..

pag-isipin mo muna sis, lahat naman ng bagay may pros and cons eh, kung gusto mo talaga eh at ready ka, then go pero isipin pa rin ang consequences..

[parisblues]

i heard that there was a study/research about this in UCLA ata.. highest rate of divorce daw un if couples live together before marriage

[parisblues]

feel ko lang ha.. mas scary un if u live-in together kasi mas may malaking chance na he won't get married to you. lol. it happened na kasi to my friend na girl. live in sila for how many years tapos na uli din naman sa wala. benefit kasi free access lahat. they do all things na talaga like a married couple.. formalities nalang ang kulang. ayoko ng ganon kasi wala ng suspense or excitement pagkayo na. boring kaya un.. u don't have a lot of things to look forward to when u get married.

[cute1022]

I have tried this set-up for 3 years in college. And yes, I was young pa back then.
Base from that experience, I won't recommend this. 

[emostef]

well in my case, halos same with yaskulet, we're not living in together but most of the time nasa apartment niya ako. he asked me to stay with him narin but i like it only 40% and 60% of me is not ready for it. for me kasi we can only stay together and really live together if we're married. he already looked for a place or rather asked some friends but i dont know how to tell him. im not really happy with that idea yet. i want marriage first.

[jeune]

^
That's exactly what I'm feeling right now, so I told him I'm going to extend my lease in my apt and maybe move in with him next year, if he's lucky lol.

[MADAPACKER]

i'm torn between gusto ko and ayoko.. okay lang sana sakin kaso parang wala nang excitement pag araw2x ko siya nakikita. tsaka as if naman papayag parents ko. papatayin ako ng daddy ko.

tsaka di naman sina-suggest pa ni bf yun. buti na lang.. pinapatulog niya ko sa kanila every weekend pero di alam samin yun set-up na yun.

[dianni]

my bf and i are living in together for about a year and a half na.. makikilala mo lang talaga ang isang tao when you are living under one roof.. si bf di sya perfect.. super layo nya sa pagiging perfect pero i've learned to love everything about him..

[AmbersMom]

^naku sis, wag mo na sabihin, bakit pa married na kayo.. hehe

anyway ako, sabi ko nga sa mga friends ko, "semi live-in" kami, hehe.. meron bang ganito?? kasi every weekends talaga, dun ako nakatira sa house nila. mas love pa ako ng nanay niya, tee hee!

at alam naman ng parents ko at OK lang sa kanila (wala na naman sila magawa dahil wala sila dito sa pinas at hello ang tanda ko na kaya, LOL )..

pag-isipin mo muna sis, lahat naman ng bagay may pros and cons eh, kung gusto mo talaga eh at ready ka, then go pero isipin pa rin ang consequences..

yun din inisip ko eh .. hehe ganyan din situation namin before when he decided to move in with me...

i live alone din since i was in college.. so every weekend dun ako sa kanila to spend time with his family.. ok lang naman sa parents nya...  then after few months live in na...

[tipC_shoegal]

why don't you enjoy dating your boyfriend first before you finally decide to move in with him? isn't it better to build excitement first before committing yourself to such?    it's not "playing house" when you start sharing a life with someone and if i may add, the opposite sex; so you better be cautious with the decisions you're about to make.

i am actually in favor of living in with the boyfriend prior to marriage granted that we're both emotionally, intellectually and financially mature. marriage is not something you need to rush so living in is a recommendation of mine. if things won't go as planned, well, you have to be ready to pick the pieces up and blame no one.

[miss_chievous]

i moved in with my guy after my parents left, literally moved in kase sa bahay nila ko naktira, as in with his dad and brother. at first i really dont like that idea, but bf keeps insiting, until i i gave in after he gave me all the perks of living with him! uto-uto din kase ako!haha.. at first mahirap, halos ayoko lumabas ng room nia dhil baka masalubong ko dad nia,nahihiya kase ako big time, but nung tumagal i got the hang of it na. kumapal kapal na muka ko

so now, im still living in their house,there are times that i really want to move out na lalo na pag nag aaway kme..pro i end up staying. my friends doesnt like the idea kase wala na daw thrill pag nag asawa kme at baka mag kasawaan and yah, sometimes, i agree...*sigh.

[miss resilient]

feel ko lang ha.. mas scary un if u live-in together kasi mas may malaking chance na he won't get married to you. lol. it happened na kasi to my friend na girl. live in sila for how many years tapos na uli din naman sa wala. benefit kasi free access lahat. they do all things na talaga like a married couple.. formalities nalang ang kulang. ayoko ng ganon kasi wala ng suspense or excitement pagkayo na. boring kaya un.. u don't have a lot of things to look forward to when u get married.

sa palagay ko oo..parang why pay when you can get it for free..di ba?

[nikigo]

nag move in kmi ng bf ko.. pero after 3 months umuwi dn ako. cgro ind pa kami ready, rami na kasi kaming problema. hay. ewan. [textspeak!] mag trial and eror ka. hehe.. try move in for 1 month if di kayo mgkatalo edi wag muna baka ind pa ready. hay. neverminde 

[ficklemind]

my bf and I also have plans to 'live together', hopefully next year when we are very stable na financially. 

right now, ang setup namin ni bf, salitan lang. on weekdays, sa kanya kanya kaming bahay but on weekends its either sa kanila or sa amin kami nagsstay and our parents lets us sleep on the same room na kaming 2 lang.
kaya siguro hinde na sila magugulat if i-announce na lang namin na maglilive-in na kami.

[aulive]

hay ako din ayaw ng nanay ko ng ganyan.  magagalit talaga yun.  pero most of the times dun ako sa kanila kapag off ko  and kapag naka VL.. hehe pero nung sinama niya ko sa province nila para ipakilala sa mom niya, nagulat ako kasi may sarili kaming room, tapos yung iba niyang kapatid sama sama sa isang room. nakakahiya  nga e. tapos 2 weeks din kami dun, malayo kasi e. pero sabi ko dito sa min kasama ko yung mga kapatid niyang girls sa room..

[hellzangel012]

we're planning na.. hihi excited na ko!!