How to Bring Back Kilig, Romance, Spark in a relationship?

[happymonthsary]

Hi there. I'm no expert in this but I do have a blog that might help. It's called http://www.happymonthary.wordpress.com
My boyfriend and I love to surprise each other all the time--and this has really helped us keep our relationship fresh. I think the key is staying positive and being grateful for what you guys have. Hope this helps! 

[cgirl]

^ OMG!!! I so love your blog. Actually yung first entry pa lang ang nabasa ko, yung nagpropose yung bf mo. So sweeet!

But i think you missed the letter s in your link.

[hannabishi]

this, i think is one of the advantages of being in an LDR. my beau and i have been in an LDR for 1 year and 9 months today and the kilig factor is always there. never nawala. when i go back to pinas grabe parang first monthsary pa lang namin lagi.

[Starliiight]

kami ni boyfie meron kaming tinatawag na "me day" yun yung time na hindi kami magtetext or mag-uusap. gagawin lang namin yung gusto namin gawin, like go out with friends or pamper sarili, etc. para the next time na magkikita kami or tatawagan namin isa't isa na-e-excite kami kasi na-miss namin ang isa't isa.

mahilig din kami i-surprise ang isa't isa. as in nagiging competition na kasi nagpapabonggahan kami ng surprise. haha.

[starlitgrove]

Surprise each other. It doesn't have to be bongga - bring him lunch or meryenda at the office, make him a sandwich baon, write him a love letter even when there's no special occasion.

Travel together. It doesn't have to be out of the country. Try that now infamous line, "Starbucks tayo" and go to the Tagaytay branch. Nothing like the cold air, hot cup of coffee and you two hugging to bring the kilig back.

Spa together. Sarap, promise. Run together sa UP grounds and then go street food tripping (isaw, fishballs, dirty ice cream, green mangoes and bagoong!).

Dress up for him. He loves your legs? Wear shorts and sexy heels. Remind him why you're such a catch. Wear a sexy or silky nightie to bed.

Text him something naughty. 

Make him ask you out on a proper date, just like when he was still courting you. Don't make yourself too available.

Watch the sun rise together.

[glamtasha]

"Love makes the world go round....but sometimes the world spins so fast that romance gets put on hold.."
more than 2 years na kami ng boyfriend ko pero parang wala pa kaming 1 year, dahil sobrang enjoy kami with each other, no dull moments.. 


im not the typical malambing girlfriend, im not showy and vocal... this book really helps me to make my guy fall fo me over and over again..  ito ang sikreto ko.. dito ako kumukuha ng creative ideas, para maging malambing naman ako kahit minsan..



title of the book: "Love Stuff" (515 Delightful, Delicious, Sexy, Silly, Fun, Frivolous, Passionate, Positive, and (above all) Romantic Things to do with your One-and-only...)
"Love Stuff" puts romance front and center with 515 creative ways to fall in love with your one-and-only ALL OVER AGAIN..this book is ideal to bring back the kilig, romance and spark in a realionship... 

[shiela25]

been married for almost 3 years.  parang wala na ngang spark.  hindi na kami nagd-date ni hubby na kaming 2 lang.  parati kasama anak namin.  nakaka guilty naman kung iiwan ko yung anak ko kasi wala naman kaming yaya.  but i feel that i'm stuck in a rut, and parang feel na feel kong kantahin yung, "you've lost that lovin' feeling"...

i dunno, maybe it's just me expecting too much.

sis, advise ko lang take time and make an effort talaga to have a monthly date with your hubby, just the two of you lang, siguro you can ask your mom or in-laws to take care of your baby muna... to bring back the spark in your relationship...hindi naman kelangan grand ang date nyo kahit dinner lang or spa together...trust me it works...

[red_apple]

  oo nga no.. ngayon ko lang narealize... medyo nawalan na rin pala ako ng time sa bf ko... we're going 3 years now and ok naman kami.. but then like you girls sometimes I feel bored.. and my bf feeling helpless siguro kasi ako lang lagi yung nag eexpect from him.. baka na pepressure na rin sya.. not realizing na ako rin pala nawawalan na ng effort for in our relationship unlike before... Malaking tulong yung mga tips nyo.. thanks for that! i'm sure kapag ginawa ko tips nyo lalo kami magiging super ok ng bf ko... 

[cgirl]

"Love makes the world go round....but sometimes the world spins so fast that romance gets put on hold.."
more than 2 years na kami ng boyfriend ko pero parang wala pa kaming 1 year, dahil sobrang enjoy kami with each other, no dull moments.. 


im not the typical malambing girlfriend, im not showy and vocal... this book really helps me to make my guy fall fo me over and over again..  ito ang sikreto ko.. dito ako kumukuha ng creative ideas, para maging malambing naman ako kahit minsan..



title of the book: "Love Stuff" (515 Delightful, Delicious, Sexy, Silly, Fun, Frivolous, Passionate, Positive, and (above all) Romantic Things to do with your One-and-only...)
"Love Stuff" puts romance front and center with 515 creative ways to fall in love with your one-and-only ALL OVER AGAIN..this book is ideal to bring back the kilig, romance and spark in a realionship... 

Saan 'to nabibili sis?

[maimai_09]

It comes first from communication

[ms_babhie_anne28]

dapat hingi din tayo ng tips sa mga male girltalkers... ano point of view nila dito.

[x-y]

^ yeah tama. it would be better if we hear it from the guys too.

how much yun LOVE STUFF?

[bronze]

look super hot (like bitchy hot) for him.... hahaha

[ms_babhie_anne28]

^^ yeah... kasi baka satin yung ginagawa natin akala natin bumabalik yung kilig pero sa kanila pala hindi. dapat may boys din.

[raven12]

^yeah let's ask them too! Like in my case for example. One time I surprised him and text ko siya palagi kahit busy. Nasakal siya daw dahil ganun. o diba? It hurt like hell kasi ako kilig and I thought he liked it pero hindi pala.

[x-y]

^ naku, i experienced that too! super gumagawa ako ng mga kilig "da moves" ko pero di pala niya yun gusto! sakit kaya nun...

[ms_babhie_anne28]

kaya dapat may mag-post naman dito na guytalkers.

[oyetken]

this, i think is one of the advantages of being in an LDR. my beau and i have been in an LDR for 1 year and 9 months today and the kilig factor is always there. never nawala. when i go back to pinas grabe parang first monthsary pa lang namin lagi.

we been married for almost 4 yrs .frm very start si hubby is nasa abroad na, that time n kasal kmi 1 mon lang vacation nya nun,then every yr nauwi siya  and sometimes postpone pa.. 1st andun pa un kilig fling but now parang nasanay na din ako everyday were not together kmi [textspeak!] ng son ko  ngttmpo ako s knya for being workaholic minsan [textspeak!] kmi mgtxt and chat .i tried to understand him but may times na parang [textspeak!] ko complete or contentment .do you think naiisip kaya nya yun..

[beautifuldreamer]

to rekindle romance?....

travel together...
happening with common friends
surprise him on something that is extra ordinary
give him something that he longs for
talk about the things u wished for both of you

[glamtasha]

"Love stuff" book- National Bookstore 249.00.. available naman siguro ito in all bookstores..