Falling for a much Older Guy!

[choleb]

Older guys are more mature.. I would definitely fall for them if there is one ... 

[muahmuahmuah]

this is what i figured out. when i was so wrapped around dating pinoys only it was a must that theyd be at a max 6yrs older. of course i had a checklist of other qualities but age would be an issue even if they were a few months younger.

being with older pinoy men didnt work for me. i even had conclusions which birth year i would be compatible with and which years i should avoid. i always thought an older guy  would be the one id intimately and engagingly mesh with in conversation but those who came close to sparking my interest in them have been younger men who've equally matched up to the accomplishments of the older men ive dated or been with.   so back to discerning my age issue i'd bend my dicsriminating rule to a non-pinoy. nyaha.

[dcccxxi]

my hubby is 15 years older than me

[its_giselle27]

my bf is 6 years older than me Luvettt

[laey]

Nainspire ako sa thread na to. I'm attracted to this guy kasi. 13 yrs my senior. Because of this thread, i might give this one a shot. Good luck to me.

[isobel]

when i was younger, i never had a boyfriend kasi, aside from bata pa ako, i thought ambabata pa ng mga guys noon! kahit na ka-age ko sila or a few years older naman (pag masyado na malaki yung gap, nandidiri na ako), bata pa rin tingin ko sa kanila and i just couldn't see myself having a balanced, healthy relationship with any of them. parang hindi ko mapagkakatiwalaan kaming parehong hindi maging petty or emotional or whatever. and i didn't want to be looking out for two people pa when looking out for myself was hard enough.

but even nung may nagpaparamdam na older men, patay-malisya lang kasi ayaw kong patulan. feeling ko naman masyado na silang maraming alam, baka kung ano pa matutunan ko nang wala sa oras, wag na lang. i like taking my time learning life's lessons.

now that i'm in my mid-20s, i have a boyfriend who was my former classmate and suitor in high school. feeling ko tuloy pinahabol ko lang siya now that he actually knows what he's doing, hehe!

bottom line is, older, younger, or same age...none of that really matters so long as you're both attracted to each other, you both love each other and you both try your darndest to make the relationship work.

[icze]

my ex bfs are older than me.... i am dating older guys... 7 years older... as long as not more than 15 years older.

[fruityp0p]

I think it doesnt matter as long as he loves you and he treats you right.. my bf of almost 6 years is 17 years my senior.. i love him so much.. he's my strength and I feel like I'm a better person when Im with him.. 

[baliwsayo]

I've never dated older men talaga.. di kami level ng utak eh. But now, will try to reconsider na. Hehe. Kasi I've met someone older na medyo ka-jive ko, enjoy naman kausap but I've never dated him officially yet.. lagi may mga asungot kasi. Isipin ko pa.. feeling bato na kasi ang puso ko. Naks. 

[laey]

Naeexperience ko na din yung hindi makarelate sa kwento.. Like kung yung mga songs at movies na gusto niya. Minsan nababanatan ko na din na, sa generation namin, iba na. 

May nasabi din siya, diba sa generation niyo kung sino mag-aya, siya magbabayad. sabi ko, ay saken hindi ganon. 

[trustingsoul]

i think im falling....haaaay

[ellenmitchie]

I'm into this kind of "love."
I like older guys so much. I never fall for someone who's around my age or younger than me. Siguro type ko, pero I can never imagine marrying someone who's around my age. My first ex was around 5 years older than me. Even though 5 years age gap na yun, parang immature pa rin sya. Yung isa naman, 7 years age gap. Pero ganun pa rin. 

Mga nagugustuhan ko talaga umaabot pa ng 10-15 years ang age gap. No problem naman on my part, pero pag tinatanong kung ilan taon na si guy, minsan hindi din nila maintindihan bakit ganun mga type ko. Siguro dahil na din na mas mature lang talaga ako mag isip, o dahil mas mature naman talaga ang babae mag isip. lol Basta, ayoko talaga ng ka age ko. Sakit sa ulo pag may away na! lol

[Lady Blue]

Preferred ko talaga ang older guys. My first serious boyfriend was 15 years my senior.
Nagkaroon na rin ako ng mga boyfriends na 1-2 years lang ang gap pero iba talaga pag much older ang guy.

I had a boyfriend na 35 years ang tanda sa akin. Shocking? hehe  It was a very nice experience though... I was pampered; sya, no hang-ups, no drama, accomplished, very matureand VERY intelligent, which is the first thing that I look for in a guy.
And I wasn't shy na makitang kasama sya hehe.. Hindi naman din kasi halata yung age nya, he's fit, magandang magdala ng damit, mabango, blonde at mayaman. Hahaha! Sugar daddy?!
Too bad he was too busy....

Oh well, my current partner is 18 years my senior. He's 46 and I am 28. He's 6'3" and I am 4'11". My gosh the height disparity! hehe.. As usual, I am pampered, the works... buti na lang hindi ako brat and of course, he's intelligent.

[ivy u.]

wow! shocking nga! haha..ok lang yan sis, basta mahal niyo isa't isa, wala naman yan sa edad..ako yung xbf ko 9 years age gap namin..then yung asawa ko ngayon 6 years agwat namin..hehe

[Lady Blue]

Hi sis, foreigners ba bf mo? hehe

the last two, yes

[purpleblush18]

Ako prefer ko talaga older guys.  Siguro hanggang 10 years na gap ma coconsider ko.  Ayoko din ng ka age ko.  I am 27, feeling ko kasi hindi kami magkakaintindihan kapag ka age ko lang, at lalo naman if younger sa akin.  Lahat ng mga naging bf ko older sa akin.  May naging bf ako na halos ka age ko lang and he was the worst. hehe

[freeswan]

sabi ng pastor namin ang acceptable age gap ng lalaki sa babae is:

guy's age divided by 2 plus 5.

ex. 40 si guy so 40/2+5 =25. so dapat at least 25 si girl.

[pinkberries]

looking back, never talaga ako naging attracted sa mga ka-edad ko.     my bf is 6 yrs. older than me at mas nagkakasundo kami compared sa exbf ko who was 1 yr older lang.   Pero parang di ko din carry ang mga 10 yrs plus na age gap.

[beatrize zuri]

same with me, never din akong naging attracted sa mga ka edad ko. si hubby 11 yrs age gap namin pero hindi naman siya over sa tanda    36yo lang naman siya yun nga lang wala na sa calendaryo  , nakakatuwa lang kasi wala sa hitsura niya yung edad niya. syempre hindi din naman kami palaging magkasundo kasi iba ang taste ko sa gusto niya pero still nagbibigayan pa din kami sa mga bagay bagay. basta all i can say is im happily married with 3 beautiful kids 

[Lady Blue]

sabi ng pastor namin ang acceptable age gap ng lalaki sa babae is:

guy's age divided by 2 plus 5.

ex. 40 si guy so 40/2+5 =25. so dapat at least 25 si girl.

I wonder kung saan naman nakuha ang formulang ito.