Author Topic: Falling for a much Older Guy! (Read 94915 times)

trustingsoul · « **Reply #100 on:** October 04, 2009, 12:56:25 am »

i've never been in a relationship with a much older guy.. madalas i get attracted to them lalo na sa hollywood actors

pero for a relationship hmmm wag lang siguro mas matanda sa eldest brother ko, hehe who's 11 years older than me.. para naman matawag nya pa rin kuya yung kuya ko if ever hahahaha.

spicyangel · « **Reply #101 on:** October 04, 2009, 12:08:29 pm »

i am now falling in love with a man 9 yrs older than me.. and i dont know how to handle this.. he's so hot.. di ko alam if ano feeling ng ganun kalaki ang age gap kung pano magmahal

sofiacutie · « **Reply #102 on:** October 04, 2009, 12:38:52 pm »

haha. kakatawa ka sis. pero ako din, i find older guys sexy. haha. apir!

t_r_i_c_i_a · « **Reply #103 on:** October 04, 2009, 01:01:50 pm »

^^ yep! older guys are irresistably hot. :p

my bf is 10 years older but we never felt the gap.. well di naman kasi siya 40-ish feeling ko nga kahit 40-ish pwede pa rin maging cool. i'm 21, he's 31. we share the same type of music, ako lang daw ang naging gf niya na hinahatak siya mag clubbing. narerealize lang namin yung gap whenever we share stories ng high school days namin tipong nung hs siya wala pang internet. hehe! grade 1 ako, nung 1st yr college siya. hehe! pero in general feeling ko same wavelength lang kami ng pagiisip sabi nga niya mas matured pa nga raw ata ako sa iba niyang mga naging gf na mas older sa akin. nakakabaliw daw pala magmahal ng bata. hahaha! he might be older, more stable but i still run the show. haha! he's really nice.. nauutusan ko pa yun sa bahay. haha!

jhaney · « **Reply #104 on:** October 04, 2009, 04:39:35 pm »

^Same tayo 16 years din age gap namin. Dame din kaming similarities kaya siguro swak din kami. Dame ko ding natutunan sa kanya.

a_y_e_n · « **Reply #105 on:** October 04, 2009, 07:13:34 pm »

never pa ako nainlove sa mga older men. although mas gusto ko sila kausap, madalas sa mga bata or ka-age ko ako nagkakagusto.

i guess ok lang yun as long as single or walang commitment. meron nga kame nakasabay sa pre-wedding seminar namin, yung girl mga early 30s siguro ikakasal siya sa fiance niya na nasa 60s na. wala lang, nakakatuwa kase yung guy eh.

dropdeadgorgeous · « **Reply #106 on:** October 05, 2009, 09:15:12 pm »

nasa pagdadala yan. level ng pag iisip ng nagmamahalan,age doesnt matter a lot..

twinkletown · « **Reply #107 on:** October 06, 2009, 02:06:19 am »

^ yeah, numbers lang naman yun eh..mahalaga is how you treat each other...

spicyangel · « **Reply #108 on:** October 06, 2009, 05:51:25 am »

ano kaya feeling nila pag pakipot ang babae? naiines kaya sila? how about pag nagbigay ka ng i miss you note? ano kaya feeling nila?

twelve5 · « **Reply #109 on:** October 06, 2009, 07:06:22 am »

dun sa mga 10 yrs + ang age gap, di ba issue yung sets of friends nyo?

syempre most of your friends are in your age group. tapos yung sa kanya, ganun din. paano when you guys go out as a couple. di ka ba naiilang sa age ng friends nya (meaning: maturity level, interests, etc), and vice versa?

marami ba kayong common friends?

twinkletown · « **Reply #110 on:** October 07, 2009, 01:54:05 am »

when i had a relationship na 10yr ang gap, ok naman ang circle f friends namin. hindi problem

fashion_addict · « **Reply #111 on:** December 28, 2009, 01:26:36 am »

glad to join in the club. i also like older men better. i prefer to engage in a flirtatious activity or relationship with them. i've had this realization after my first bf who's my same age.

the thing about older men, they know how to carry a conversation and are stable and firm. they are also mature enough to handle even the simplest decisions such as deciding where to eat, as opposed to younger guys who would pass the ball to the girls thinking that it flatters women by giving them a chance to decide (well, in my case, i don't like that. if i don't have any idea, that means i don't and will not have any as of the moment).

My first ka-date after my same-age-bf is a 28 yr old guy who's 10 years older than i am

second ka-fling and pseudo-serious ka- date is 14 years my senior

and my boyfriend and fiance right now is 11 1/2 years my senior.

And older men fit me more because I think and act years older than my age. and for some weird reason, i always attract older guys. and i don't think that that's a bad thing.

sugardrop · « **Reply #112 on:** December 28, 2009, 11:32:38 am »

I don't see any problem at all as long as the guy isn't married or attached. Most of the guys I've dated are more than 4 years my senior. The oldest being 11 years my senior.

I like older men better than guys my age.

sugardrop · « **Reply #113 on:** December 28, 2009, 02:15:26 pm »

As some people say, "Men are like wine. The older they get, the better they become."

But it's not applicable to all men in general. There are some na kahit tumanda na, wala pa rin direction ang buhay and immature pa din.

i_am_sweet · « **Reply #114 on:** December 28, 2009, 04:39:57 pm »

CLiche as it may sound, "age doesn't matter". I'd like to add something though... kung sa sobrang tanda nya at nagdate kayo and people would most likely say "uy, ang sweet naman ng mag-tatay" or "napakabait naman nyang apo...", better think about whether you can handle the comment or not.

shopaholic18 · « **Reply #115 on:** December 28, 2009, 06:33:29 pm »

so far so good...ngayon lang ako nagka bf ng older sakin...6 yrs gap namin and siya lang tumagal kong bf...now were 3 yrs and a half and counting...i like that he's mature enough to guide me in every way...we don't have petty quarrels din and malawak mag isip...i myself alam kong immature ako minsan pero hindi niya ko pinipilit magpakamature agad in a snap...hinahayaan niya lang akong marealize yung mga mali ko sa maayos na way...can't explain pero i like older men or should i say 6 yrs older than me...

stameygirl · « **Reply #116 on:** December 28, 2009, 07:26:59 pm »

Quote from: autumn_lal on September 24, 2009, 02:31:17 pm

A cuz of mine aged 19 married a 51 year old guy..i was thinking then..hmmm, ano kaya itatawag ko dito Para naman kadiri kung tatawagin ko lang sa first name nia, para wala kong respeto ke lolo

Not sure if that was love, siguro for convinience na rin coz they were in the pit of financial problem then...oh well...what's love got to do with it?

Was the guy a foreigner? Also, ano status ng guy? bachelor, annulled, widowed?

Not a case of marriage due to pregnancy?

trustingsoul · « **Reply #117 on:** December 29, 2009, 11:22:31 am »

just recently, i learned na 10yrs older pala sa akin yung guy na i'm attracted to..hehe -_-

Chinita Princess · « **Reply #118 on:** December 29, 2009, 02:25:39 pm »

I also prefer older men pero maximum na yung 8 yrs na gap. lol

Sabi nga nila, mas mabilis mag mature ang girls compared to guys kaya dapat di talaga magka age ang magkarelasyon. That's just my preference naman.

Pero so far, sa mga naging bf ko, 4 yrs lang ang pinakamalaking gap.

dreamfairy07 · « **Reply #119 on:** December 30, 2009, 10:55:46 am »

he is 7 years my senior, but he doesn't look like one. kahit itabi mo sa friends niya na mas younger at mas older, siya pa rin yung mukhang bata.

i like him more than my previous bfs.. mas older, mas maasikaso. same wavelength ng pag-iisip. mas seryoso. mas funny. mas responsible.

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