Falling for a much Older Guy!

[swtgrl_bee]

I had an ex BF who is 6 years older than me. Pero one month lang kami. hehe. My present BF is 5 years older than I am click naman

[sierracielo09]

ako din before, mas gusto ko older guy, gusto ko kase spoiled ako, kaso ako pa ang nam-baby sa hehe
nothing wrong with it as long as you love each other at wala kayong nasisirang pamilya

[*nikka*]

The age thing never really mattered to me before, as long as I liked the guy then GO. hehe.  But to compare my past boyfriends (One was one year older than me and the other was one year younger than me) with my present boyfriend, my boyfriend now is just perfect. He's 8 years my senior, I'm 25 lang kc while he's already 33. But I really love how he treats me. No boyfriend of mine has ever treated me this way. I agree with all the other girls who said na pag older guys, they tend to pamper you more. And he always makes me feel really special. Tapos, we're in a long distance relationship kc yet I feel so secure with him. Kc feeling ko naman wala ako kelangan e worry coz he never fails to make me feel secure in our relationship every single moment.  I guess, iba talaga pag mas older sayo yun guy.. kahit views nila about life, their priorities. 

[jellyclock]

same here! always attracted to older men. there's something about them that's really appealing.

[jyrrel]

i used to be attracted to older men... lalo na nung college days... heheh

naging BF ko yung professor ko na 11 years older sa akin... pero single siya...

it lasted for almost a year.  it was okay naman... yun nga lang i had to adjust before sa kung anong trip niya... kasi panget naman kung siya ang magpi-feeling teenager di ba? heheh

pero now that i'm 31 na... ayoko na ng mas matanda kasi hindi na appealing eh... hahaha

at that time kasi, i was 19 so he was 30 pa lang, on his prime pa kaya hindi pa ganun kaalangan tingnan. eh ngayon ewan ko na kung anong itsura niya kasi 42 na siya...

yun lang, naishare ko lang...

[luisacart]

omg. i was backreading this thread desperately trying to find a GTalker na same ang situation sa akin. wala akong makita! =( ako yata ang may pinakamalaking age gap sa atin. the guy i'm dating is 23 years older than me. yikes!

i'm worried that if my family finds out they would freak out. i have never in my life imagined myself falling for someone that old. i have a friend who was really into older guys and i would often tease her about her romantic preference.

in fairness, Rick doesn't even look over 35. nung una ko siyang nakita akala ko he was 30-32. i was like, pwede pa rin. but since he's a decade older than my older kuya (31 yrs old) i'm worried my family might take it wrong and think i'm being taken advantage of.

he's super sweet naman. he makes an effort to really try to do things i'm pretty sure someone from his generation will not enjoy. like watching the simpsons because he knows that's my favorite tv show.

ewan ko. i don't know how this would work out. i just wanted to know kung meron ding may mga sissies tayo na nasa ganitong situation din.

[smcav]

my ideal is 3-5yrs gap sakin.  no more no less. hehe!

[joy.0116]

why not???

[antooken]

ako naman hindi ako mahilig sa mga older guys.
pero may naging bf ako na mas matanda saken.
i think he's 3 years older than me.

[lhen_ish]

ako naman i dont have a standard sa age or what wag naman masyadong bata sakin ang labo nun...all my ex same age ko or matanda lang sakin ng buwan..

when i met my husband 8 yrs older sya sakin wala na talaga nasapol na ko hehe

pag tinamaan ka naman talaga ni kupido oh  hahahaha

[ana0416]

ako naman since nagkabf ako lagi older sakin ng 4 yrs. y0ng kasing age ko naman 2 months lang feeling ko hindi click sakin y0ng younger ones din...kaya lagi bf ko older sakin pinaka tandaan ko i was 16 my bf is 30 yrs.old naging ok naman kaso bata p ko pinalitan ko siya pero 4 yrs. ang gap,lapitin daw me ng older guys sabi ng mga friends ko kaya ok lang,now my bf 4 yrs. gap namin

[schizoprano]

I'd really prefer guys who are a bit older than me, up to 5, maybe 7 years older.
As a matter of fact, I had a personal rule that I would never ever date a younger guy. But I might change that rule... haha!

[jyrrel]

^ same here sis... hehe...

parang feeling ko as i grow old, i want someone who's a little younger na... hahah

wala lang... para feeling ko bata pa rin ako...

 

[raineluna]

ako first bf ko mga 7 years older. then after nun parang ayoko na ng older, parang ang awkward. so after nun ngkaron ako 2 consecutive relationships na ka-age ko.

then ngaun bglang i like this guy who's 5 years older. hahaha.

[ladymd]

Ex ko was 20years older than me. And surprisingly siya ang halos kasundo ko sa lahat ng bagay, and we had fun when we were together. Adventurous ako so nakikisakay siya sakin, very understanding and maalaga. For me age is not really an issue as long as masaya kayo and you understand each other.

[jaymilu_620]

Ako attracted sa ahead saken kase I find them more mature than me.napansin ko [textspeak!] pag ka age ko [textspeak!] guy imature pa mg isip kaya we end up nothing. Ngayn h2b ko ahead skin ng 5years and andmi ako narrinig na saide comments na kesyo pang hndi 5years gap namin kundi 10years.medyo kairita but I dnt mind them kase they never know kng ganu kasarap mahalin yung tao..kahit 20years pa kunwari gap namin ..I'll accept him still

[blow_fish]

me too, attracted to older men. mas comfortable ako sa older men.

[claramalaika]

i ahd bf's same age ko or younger and now i settled with an older guy... 10 yrs oolder than me.. his 33. but sa differences [textspeak!] naman pinag iba mas batang isip pa nga si hubby ko [textspeak!] now

[yeyen]

well..ako ddin kasi attracted sa older guys eh..

yong ex ko, 5years older than me...
then yong special friend ko naman, 11years ang gap namin...

mas matured kasi sila..
madalas pati mas mahaba ang pasensya eh...

[twinkletown]

^ correct mas mature sila...

kasi currently im dating a guy younger by two years, may maturity level naman pero iba pa din yung older sa akin!