Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?

[chichi143]

hindi eh... :-(
i don't share things with him.

[FOURever]

Happy fathers day to your daddies!

[Escapaira]

Hindi.

[Crystalpenelope]

I miss my dad.  When he was still alive, I was his favorite - papa's girl.

[chinablue]

i used to be. but now i stopped talking to him. it's been a month na pala. sometimes i would find myself crying na lang. i miss my father, but there are some things i can't forget that easily. i didn't greet him today.i guess i'm not the good daughter i believed myself to be before.

[mimiku]

My Dad and I are not really close. Well he's quite an enigma, never yielding. I spent almost my formative years without him (he was an overseas worker back then), so it is hard for me to let him in. Plus, he's not really that expressive with his feelings. He's quite an eccentric man, very bright but eccentric. Perhaps due to this, he and my mom don't go well together. They keep on fighting, even when I was young... well until now. It brought a lot of trauma to us, most especially to me.

I'm not mad at him. I am now matured enough to understand and accept him as he is. He is a good provider. And no matter how stoic he may appear to me, I still love him... silently.

[isa.v00]

isa.v00, find a common ground O kaya saan ba siya magaling? Ano expertise niya? Makipagkwentuhan ka at manghingi ng advices tungkol sa buhay ganon..

Hmm. What if we have different interests? He's really into sports while I'm not. :|

[j.adore]

^then maybe incorporate your interests unto him? O kaya kwentuhan mo lang siya ng mga nangyayari sa buhay mo (except maybe lovelife/sex haha).
Pwede din heart-to-heart talk na sabihin mo gusto mo mas maging close pa kayo para mag-effort din siya.

Share ko lang, teenage days ko I drifted from him (and my mom) pero once I was over it at nagiisip na ng tama, I realized we just have to respect each other's difference and find a common ground.
Remember, as we grow old, they do too. I don't want to regret not spending time with them or not showing them I love them or not telling them/making them feel I love them etc. etc. kaya sinasabi ko whenever I get the chance

Lagi naman magkakaron ng away or tampuhan but the key is to get over it then focus on the more important stuff, which is magulang sila at kahit anong mangyari eh di naman nawawala yung pagmamahal.

[isa.v00]

Share ko lang, teenage days ko I drifted from him (and my mom) pero once I was over it at nagiisip na ng tama, I realized we just have to respect each other's difference and find a common ground.
Remember, as we grow old, they do too. I don't want to regret not spending time with them or not showing them I love them or not telling them/making them feel I love them etc. etc. kaya sinasabi ko whenever I get the chance

That's so true... I've been getting that advice a lot from others. Kasi nga I'm not too showy with my parents. And everyone's telling me to never miss a chance to tell my parents that I love them. I guess, nahihiya lang talaga ako. Though yesterday (a day after Father's Day), I showed him this video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jzGgZj6hjw&feature=youtu.be) and mukha namang na-touch sya. Haha closest attempt of being sweet ko na yan. HAHA ^_^ Thanks for the advice, j.adore. I really appreciate talking to all girls here. Sobrang helpful

[angelzero]

when i was younger, close kami in a way na ako palagi inuutusan nya to assist him in household chores. ako kasi yung masunurin at hindi sakitin. i dunno when our falling apart began. siguro when i started to date and have a bf parang naging cold na sa kin si papa. kasi minsan late ako umuwi, or pag weekends out of town ako. pansin na pansin ko kasi close sya sa brother ko, tapos ako dinadaan daanan lang nya ko. pero ngayon na engaged to be married nako, somehow napapansin ko na kinakau-kausap na nya ko.

[jo1]

Yes.
I realized a long time ago, the way my dad is, we will never be outwardly affectionate toward each other... pero i have seen countless times how he's got my back in tough situations... even when he doesnt approve of my choices... even when i don't ask for help...

and now he is the best lolo any little boy could ask for

[chinkywinky]

Sobra. My father is my number 1 fan and I'm just so proud to be his daughter. I love him so much that If ever I can trade whatever I have now to make him live longer, I will definitely do that. He's in his 80s now and I know hindi ko na sya makakasama ng matagal and just the thought of not having him for so long makes me die. Ako yung tipong kantiin nyo na lahat ng tao, but don't ever do something bad to my father and there will be blood letting.

[Nhetskii]

Waaahh!  Gusto ko mag share! kaya lang naiiyak ako!
I miss my dad! Best dad in the universe.

[little_princess]

nipe, never will be. i hate my father and he was never a father to us anyways.

[gorgeous_me]

hays, hindi din, ang tigas kasi ng ulo, and ewan ko..minsan pinipilit yung gusto, kahit hindi naman tama, tapos gagawin pa din, tapos kapag may nasira na at gagawin ulit, hindi na maganda, kaya ang daming sira sa bahay, nakakainis...ang gulo gulo ng bahay na, kung ano yung maayos sisirain, hays, nakakastress minsan..and hindi talaga kami nagkwekwentuhan, kaya minsan na-iingit ako sa iba, kasi close sila sa Daddy nila.

[gharz412]

Papa's girl ako so definitely yes! super duper close. Ilovehim soo much... Best that in the whole wide world See you on Sunday Appa!

[littlekinselle]

nope hindi kami close di kami nag-uusap ng about sa plano ko sa buhay,lovelife at mga problem ko at kung ano ano pa, naggusap lang kami basta hindi related sa mga sinabi ko.. Hirap ei may sarili siya opinion at paniniwala kung ano nasa isip niya yun ang tama hahaha tapos ang usapan.

[janedoe007]

No, we're not close.

[alice_alice]

Very close! I'm a daddy's girl
Up unil now hinahatid pa rin niya ako sa work minsan sinusundo pag stranded.
Basta uber close kame. I'm his princess at baby girl even if i'm 26 yrs old

[yown]

Hindi kami close. Kasi alam ko mga baho niya. Nakakainis lang kasi alam ko lahat. Sana hindi ko nalang nalaman ng sa ganun mag karoon naman ako ng amor sakanya. May asawa na ko. Pag nakikita ko pag treat nya sa mommmy ko. Wish ko lagi wag gawin ng hubby ko sakin.