Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?

[SweetieNela]

nung bata ako lagi kami magka-away ng mom ko. super maldita ko daw kasi pero kakampi ko si papa ko non. natatandaan ko kasi na lagi akong sinisigawan ng mama ko. sabi ng dad ko 'kaya lumalaban sayo anak ko binubungangaan mo' hahaha. only girl ako kaya close kami ni papa ko.kahit nung first time ko magkaroon siya unang naka-alam at binilhan pa niya ako ng napkin kasi nasa abroad ang mom ko non kaya parang siya na yung tumatayong mom ko pero nung nag-abroad ang mama ko at nabalitaan kong nambabae ang papa ko hindi na ako masyadong nagsasabi sakanya.nawala yung closeness namin. but lately lahat kami nasa abroad na at hindi kami magkasundo ng mom ko. si papa ko naman lagi ko na ulit kakampi  bungangera na daw talaga ang mom ko kaya huwag ng pansinin, masakit kasi magsalita ang mom ko.talagang tagos sa buto kaya si papa ko lagi ako ikinocomfort. dahil ako lang lagi pinagiinitan ng mom ko at yung 3 kong kapatid na lalaki eh mga prinsipe at hari harian sa bahay. akong only girl ako ang mucha-cha nila  pero sabi ng dad ko ako daw si cinderella  hahaha..

[kathon]

Yup! I'm a daddy's girl. Mas closer kami kesa sa mom ko. Kahit na super strict ni dad, alam ko pano lambingin. Hehe

[runea]

lahat kaming magkakapatid (3 girls) ay close sa aming daddy. bonded kami niyan kasi pareho kami ng mga gusto like food and coffee. mas marami kaming bonding time kasi siya ang sumusundo sa akin nung nagt-teach pa ako. it was a good thing that we we're close bago siya pumanaw last 2009. i have wonderful memories of my dad. 

[nicoletta]

I'm quite close with my dad when I was younger.  He's just happy with me now because he likes my boyfriend. 

[hisana]

Yes! Magka-jive ang personalities namin and he understands me. Yung mom ko kasi sobrang opposite...halos nga lahat na lang about me, she doesn't like. So I like my dad. And he's so easy to get along with and bihira nya ako pagalitan, LOL!

[cecilydee]

Im one of those few or many(?) girls that are not close with their father. He was always out of the country and he never got a chance to become a real father to us. He is only a provider. When he retired, it became obvious that he doesnt really know how to handle father duties especially with me since I am the only girl among my siblings. Many times, we just pass by each other inside our home without asking about our whereabouts or even starting a conversation about our day. Its like we are strangers to each other. I still feel sad about it until this day.. .actually naiingit ako sa mga daddy's girl...but oh well..im thinking nga on my wedding, it will be awkward if my father will be the one walking along with me on the aisle kasi di naman kami close...oopps.

[s_dlam4achange]

Mas close ako sa tatay ko. I admire his self giving trait and hospitality yet it was also his weakness dahil dun nung my work pa sya before most of his relatives seeks financial support on him. He didn't ask for any return kahit kami rin ang mawawalan. That's the only thing he did that i regret the most. But i love my Father so much that he's the only one who understands me though they see me as a rebelious daugther. Hindi sya nagtatanim ng galit. Alam nyang may nagawa kang mali, after he fixed things up he let's you know that you can always change for the better. That's why i'm more open with him when discussing my problems in school and work. Mas masarap sya kakwentuhan. Dahil din siguro we have the same birthday. We're both musically inclined, resourceful, self giving, at mahilig sa adventures. Nung bata pa nga ko lagi tawag sakin buntot, sidekick or bodyguard nya. Kung magkakasakit sya i never leaves his side. I owe him my life and so proud to have a great dad like him.

[prettyliciousme]

siguro dati oo close ka me ni papa..kaso parang ngayon..parang hindi ko na siya kilala..yung papa na dating ganito dating ganyan na tipong gusto ko ganyan yung ugali ng magiging husband ko parang ngayon parang ayoko na..hindi ko na siya kilala..

[17arci]

Yup. Until now na wala na sya. Ewan ko kung bakit parati ko sya napapanaginipan.

[mei-mei]

yup, super love him! he's the best dad talaga. and now, such a great grandpa to my niece that he's my niece's most fave person at 2 yrs old, even more than her own mother.  my dad's exaggeratedly strict, as in when i was already college, he listens to all my phone calls and hatid-sundo ako sa school, bawal lumabas for gimik or parties, no bf until grad na sa college (and how could u really have one sa ganyan?).  exag talaga.  pero dahil super love ko sya and i really feel how much he loves me, i obeyed all his rules.  now i'm married and based overseas, i always cry when i think of my dad and miss him.  kaya kahit mahal ang fare, i make it a point to see him at least 5x a year.  yung love ng papa ko sobrang unconditional, always concerned sya na hindi ako pahirapan kahit sa ngayon na pagbuhat ng luggage ko kahit matanda na sya, or sa paghingi ng money from me kahit na P3k/month lang pension nya.  mula pa bata ako, sya kakampi ko sa lahat!  kaya pag nag aaway kami ng husband ko, lagi ko sinasabi miss ko papa ko.  i don't think i can find a guy like him.  never nya inaway mama ko kahit minsan anong sakit na magsalita mama ko or even sometimes throw things at him.  never sya sumigaw or pinatulan.  love na love ko papa ko!!!

[runaway_bride25]

YES because we have one cool dad. We bond over drinking sessions, (which is almost everyday), may mga asawa na kami, but we chose to stay in his house/in the same town, and everybody works for him in our family business kahit di naman masyado malaki ang pay considering may isa sa amin na mataas ang titulo. Meron ata kaming separation anxiety sa isa't isa 


Para lang kaming magkakabarkada, nagbibiruan, nagiiyakan, pero malaki ang respeto naming magkakapatid s kanya.

sorry iniwan kasi kami ng nanay namin nung bata pa kami.

[dolly]

Medyo, I'm daddy's little girl back then e, nung wala pa akong mga half sisters... Ngayon he can't even show his concern to me in public especially in front of my step mom. (kunsabagay feeling ko lang yun, baka nagkakamali lang ako.)

[shopwisegirl]

ako din daddy's little girl.. pero may gap kami lately.. sana maayos..

[foxylady]

Me and my Dad are really close. Maliit palang ako Daddy's girl na talaga ako. Minsan nga nagseselos na yung mga kapatid ko sa akin. Kasi konting lambing ko lang sa Daddy ko bibigay na siya, eh yung mga kapatid minsan pahirapan.

He works abroad but with the technology right now parang nandito lang siya lagi, I still get to talk to him on a regular basis. Nice nga yung work niya kasi he is here every quarter, so ok talaga. 

[lelaii]

ako din. super daddy's girl.

[daveigh]

No, at parehas kaming 3 mga babae sa magkakapatid. Thing is, we do not hate him anymore, just indifferent, basta hindi na nya kami ginagambala ng mga kalokohan nya. Both my parents failed as being parents (father ko nambabae more than 3x, mom ko was involved on drugs & nagkaron din ng ibang family), good thing my grandparents were there so sila na ang parang magulang namin.

I used to detest them pero now I know na kung di naman kami napalayo sa kanila, hindi magiging ok ang buhay namin. God really knows what's best for us, talagang He does things in weird ways na hindi natin maiintindihan pero sa dulo, mapapa-"Ahh kaya pala" moment ka.

Yun lang, my parents cannot expect any love or respect either, kasi both are earned. But I can talk to them, pero takot na sila sa akin, palaban kasi ako. hehe.

[pompz]

noong teenage years ko hindi kami close ni Dad , siguro dahil I grew up with my lolo't lola kaya parang my boundaries kami, until maging mom ako, ayun naging close na kami kaso after 8 years, nawala naman Dad ko so sad, don ko naisip How much I love him, saka dami ko dapat ginawa or pinakita sa kanya, bago naman sya namatay, sana noon pa pala kami nagbonding. kaya ngayon madalas ko pa din sya mapanaginipan, yung mga dapat ginawa ko sa dream na lang, kaya kayo mga sis, show your dad how much you love him, dad ko sobrang strict sa akin grabe daig pa military, saka may pagka pilosopo pa minsan hehe, but pag iniisip ko yun ganon talaga siguro sya, yan na miss ko ulit si daddy

[lelaii]

^ yess super agree, we as daughters/sons should let them feel na they are loved before its too late.
Mas close kaming dalawa ng sis ko sa Papa, when it comes to buying din ng clothes/gamit si Papa yong kasa kasama namin pati pag pupuntang salon for haircut minsan si papa kasama ko. Hehe funny thing I remember nong junior's prom si papa kasama ko fitting and buying the dress for the said event. Hayyzz lucky and thankful I have my papa beside me.
Ayy kalungkot naman passd away na si Daddy mo sis ...  ako ayoko pa munang kunin si Papa ko I admit hinding hindi ko pa talaga kaya mawawalan ako ng kakampi ayoko kasi sa mama ko sobrang nagger.

[lovelymaeve]

yup. super close kami ng papa ko. kahit ngayon na may asawa na and baby na ko. 

[chirochan]

^ ng bata ako hindi, ngayon oo kasi siya nalang parent ko. i can't meet my mom na eh, kahit nasa japan siya feel ko ang love at care niya kahit di siya showy