Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?

[rheagirl]

hindi eh

[zooom]

Dati hindi. Pero slowly nagiging close kami until the day he passed away. Bumabawi lang ako siguro sa mga sakit ng ulo binigay ko before. And i know di ako yung fave nya sa amin pero i make an effort to tell him my accomplishments para naman maging proud sya nun kahit paano.

[rhoseiteki]

Yes. Lahat kaming magkakapatid mas close sa father namin. Mas showy si papang about his thoughts & feelings kesa kay mamang but mas strict si papang. Hehe... We all love them both

[trizh]

  -- yes superr. dady's girl ako eh. only girl kasi. tsaka wala na rin akong mom kaya super maka-daddy talaga. 

[biyachessa]

My mother and I aren't close. Kami din ni papa, hindi close. Old fashioned kasi parehas. But my father is trying his best to understand me. And I really appreciate it.

[ella1152]

I wish we had.. but I grew up without a dad, he passed away when I was two and parang laging may kulang, there's this emptyness. I feel envy with those who have a complete family, but I love naman the family I grew up with.. un nga lang wala pa rin father figure.

[denise]

When we were kids, hindeee. but as we grow old, sobrang close na. we play "tong-it" pa nga eh. and we're partners in crime din kaya tawag sa kin ng mga cousins ko "Jr." ni dade. Guess effective yung martial law technique na ginawa niya before sa min ng bro ko kaya "tame" kami ng brod ko. heheh

[i_am_sweet]

Yup, especially when we were still kids and when he was still alive.  Reason being he's abroad for 10 months every year so the longing for a dad explains everything.

[c00lit]

nope.  lalo na before but now it's a lot better.  it seems that he's trying to catch up because i'm getting married soon.

[babyjapnurse01]

was a daddys girl til 4 yrs old. then my parents parted ways, no communication at all for 10 years, then i saw him again when i was 15, we were civil, wala lang, he's more concerned with other stuff than sakin... but now that he's gone, i just wanna tell him i forgive him, and if given a chance, i would rather have him again as my dad so i can show him how it is to have me as his daughter.

[u8mypinkcookies]

right now hindi.. we often have arguements...

[thebratinella]

no. when i was younger, madalas niya ako pagalitan sobra kahit wala akong ginawang masama. namumura pa ako. after college, naging okay na kami. hindi lang talaga kami magkasundo lagi. dati kasi nagtatampo rin ako sa dad ko kasi sobrang bait niya sa ibang tao pero sa amin na family niya, deadma lang. like last night, he got home from quezon where he's tending to his and my mom's business. of course, excited ako kasi uuwi pala siya for christmas. nainis ako kasi dinala dito anak ng tauhan niya to spend the holidays. until after new year magstastay dito. i was quite disappointed kasi it's supposed to be a family thing tapos nagdala nanaman ng hindi namin kilala sa house. okay lang sana if it's just for 1-2 days pero 2 weeks?! gusto daw kasi sumama nung kid so sinama naman niya. this is not the first time. years ago, he also did it. dito niya pinagstay sa house mga tauhan niya. he let them sleep in the living room so my brothers and i weren't able to hang out and open our presents. no pictures and stuff during noche buena. nahiya kasi kami mang-istorbo ng tao. di ko minsan kasi masakyan yung ugali ng dad ko na super tulong sa ibang tao kahit kami na family niya kelangan mag-adjust. napapagalitan pa kami if we complain. nasabihan pa ako dati na masama ugali ko pero once narealize niya na inaabuso siya ng mga taong tinutulungan niya, sa amin din naman magrarant. lagi na lang iniisip niya na masama ugali naman even if we're trying to protect him. lagi kasi siya naloloko ng mga tao. mas inuuna pa niya iba kaysa sa amin. hindi na kami madalas mag-argue now pero may times talaga na naiinis ako sa kanya. pati brother ko minsan sumasama loob sa kanya. pag anak ng ibang tao, todo alaga niya. 

[CharlotteG]

My mom and dad divorced. Lumaki ako sa mom ko, pero daddy's girl ako.

Kahit mga kapatid ko sinasabi ako favorite ni daddy. Lahat ng hilingin ko binibigay nya ... sabi nya kasi ako daw pinaka-mabait nya na anak. hehe! Pero syempre pag humingi ako sa daddy ko, pati mga kapatid ko ihinihingi ko na rin para fair. :-)

[xangelix]

Nope. We're not that close with our father. He's always out. By the time I wake up, he's already at work. When he gets home, we're already sleeping.

[jamie_0117]

i have a better relationship with my father than my mother.

mommy ko kase, masyado demanding, gusto ini-spoil sya, at masyadong nagpapa obvious kung sino ang paboritong anak. oo kahit ako ang may accomplishment, credit still goes to my sister (as in automatic kase lumalabas sa bibig nya ang name) - pero nasanay na ko, so deadma na lang.

pero my father - you can tell him anything, and he doesn't judge. my sister & i are very close to him. hindi naman kame daddy's girls, pero nagkataon lang siguro na mas close kame ng sister ko sa kanya, than my brother to him. i think my brother has yet to open to him (30 na ang bro ko ah), pero hindi talaga eh.

[cosmochick]

never, i grew up without him in my life.. then when i was in high school , i tried to reach out to him but favorite nya yung younger sis ko eh.. so marami akong hinanakit sa kanya  to site one example, yung sis ko ,who was still in elementary that time asked for a mobile phone, binili nya agad, ako 2nd year high school na that time, when i asked him for one, ayaw ako bilhan, gasto lang daw.. i had to save up my allowances  to buy my own phone.. mga ganon.. basta marami pa.. kaya ngayon, parang wala lang sya  sa buhay ko at ako rin sa buhay nya.

[ms.rain]

hindi ako close sa dad ko nung bata ako since he's often out of town. lately lang kami naging 'close' since i took care of him when he was confined 3x in the past few years. tapos ako rin tutok sa medication nya and brings him to all his doctor's appointment. im his best friend now. but im also his worst enemy coz inaaway ko sya pag matigas ulo nya and would eat food na bawal sa kanya or do things na makakasama sa health nya. but i do know he appreciates all the things i do for him. coz lagi nya sinasabi na buti nalang girl naging anak nya (only child kasi ako), pag guy kasi, he doubts he'll be able to do the things i did for him. LOL. mga chinese kasi, gusto lalakeng anak diba.... parang ngayon lang nangyari na proud pa papa ko na babae anak nya at hindi lalake. haha.

[chai_girl]

yup close kami ni papa ko, before he died 2 years ago, kasama kpa sya nung nag punta ako ng baguio for work and nag punta din kami ng batangas, nag text sya sa akin after, para nga daw kami barkada. at that time i was very very happy with him kasi ilang years din kami di nagka sama kasi kinuha ako ng lola ko for 21 years then afterwhich nabawi din nila ako ni mama. so when i was with them, first few year di kami close but when i had my son, sobrang natuwa sya and sobrang love nya anak ko, naging close na kami from then on.

kaya nung namatay siya parang isang dagok for me, kasi mahal na mahal ko papa ko 

[nessy]

super!  cya gumigising sken pag may pasok,prepares my breakfast, fix my school uniform, hatid sundo sa school,sa gimikan kasama ko din cya.dats why when he died 9 years ago,nagulo [textspeak!] mundo ko. pero ngaun ok na ko.i got used to the pain of losing him eh.

[changelessme]

yup, nung buhay pa siya