Close ba kayo sa Dad nyo?

[Allesia]

Not anymore. He lost my trust.

[cassiopeia]

yup yup..but im not the only princess...i have a sister kasi..but we're really close to our Dad!!

[Cheesecak3]

yes kaya sobrang affected ako nong nawala sya. I still miss him.

[Starliiight]

super. daddy's little princess talaga ko.

[joongie]

nope. i'm 8 months preggy and he still doesn't know it. 

[sizzlingjess]

i used to..when i was still young.. i was daddy's little girl...i was always with him in his trips, he would always buys me my favorite food haha! he was the best teacher in driving, he never got mad at me.

but as of now. we are not. . . his infidelity has broken our relationship, our family... 

[hersmart4ever]

Mas close ako talaga sa Mom ko kasi mas maalaga. Although ang father ko, maalaga din. It's just that my mom is more understanding and I can share secrets with her.

At some point, naing close kami ng father ko. Pero nagkaron kami ng serious gap na di na na-patch up until he passed away. Although hindi na surpass ng naging closeness namin ang closeness namin ng mom ko, I idolized him before kasi madiskarte siya saka matalino talaga. Pati sa mga anak ko, naging maalaga siya. Too bad, I only appreciated him nung he is no more na.

[teenot]

sobrang close ako sa dad ko...eversince magkakampi na kami ...sweet ako sa knya...before getting married inde na niya ako pinagda drive going to the office para iwas aksidente kasi daw ang malapit ng ikasal eh lapitin daw sa disgrasya...helooo!!! january ang kasal ko mayo pa lang siya na naghahatid sundo sa akin...ganun ka sweet ang dad ko ...sobrang love ko si dadi..during my wedding sobrang tagal niya ako bago binitawan at ibigay sa hubby ko...humahagulgol na lahat ng nasa church sa sobrang emosyon naming dalawa

[kisaki_aimato]

papa's girl ako!
though close din ako sa mam ko,
mas cloce kami ni papa kasi astig tatay ko eh,
mama ko strict naman!

[cgirl]

Ako din, im dad's little girl.

Just this month, tumawag papa ko, iyak ako ng iyak dahil me and bf broke up. Sabi ng dad ko "Hayaan mo na yun, basta ako love kita." and mas naiyak ako

[greyish]

yup...kami ng sister ko...

at mahal na mahal ko tatay namin. and of course si mama din. my sister is a special child and taas kamay ko sa tatay ko sa lahat. lalo na sa pagtyatyaga sa ugali ng nanay ko hehe kasi if ibang tatay yon naku. even my fiance said na idol nya tatay ko kasi tatay nya walang kwenta daw.

when i was in elementary, galit si mama sa hndi ko maalalang dahilan. sabi ni papa "anak kita, hindi kita pababayaan." my father is never so vocal but those words, dadalhin ko na yan habang buhay

[pink_candy]

Ako din, im dad's little girl.

Just this month, tumawag papa ko, iyak ako ng iyak dahil me and bf broke up. Sabi ng dad ko "Hayaan mo na yun, basta ako love kita." and mas naiyak ako

same here... naalala ko lang when I broke up with my ex, i sadly told my dad na wala na nga kami nung ex-bf ko... ang sabi lang nya sakin "anak hayaan mo na yun, he doesn't deserve you. Basta kami ni Mama mo support ka namin kung hanggang san namin kaya".

[che73]

no,never akong naging close sa dad ko even nung kids pa kami ng sis ko.

[mistyci21]

I am a certified dad's girl. Kahit married na ako, madalas pag umuuwi ako sa parents ko, i sleep in between them.

When i had my first period, it was my dad who first knew.

Medyo strict lang si dad when it comes to having relaltionships with guys especially during my younger years. But whenever i have problems, be it about relationships or school concerns, it was my dad who i open up.

Dad was always there for us and had been very active with any parent teacher association in school. He was the one who always attend in our school activities.
I remembered when i lost in an interschool academic contest, he was there to support me.

He is open minded and grooving groovy lagi.

I thank God for giving me a dad like him who have always guided us in all our undertakings!

Later in my age though, i became closer na rin sa mom ko and pag me mga tanong ako especially about practical things in life, sa kanya naman ako nag a ask for guidance.

[burgundy]

^^^ Me too Sis, I am a certified Daddy's Girl. I am very very close to him talaga. My real mom kasi died when I was very young (no memories of her at all), never naman kami naging close ng step-mom ko. So dad was my one and only love, hehe.

[jaymilu_620]

I'm super close with my papa..

When I was child siya yung lagi kong kasama.funny but akala ko I came from his tummy [textspeak!] me tahi siya nung kinuha appendix niya.

When I started school, his always there.

Siya yung aking kakampi sa lahat,dakilang housebund, no.1 fan ko,pero lagi kami nag aaway tpos bati na maya maya. I'm the only girl kaya ganun nalang ang attention niya sa akin.lagi akong nasasabihan that I'm his jr.

Nung college ako inaantay nya ako makauwi para sabay kmi kumain [textspeak!] [textspeak!] nko gana pag wala akong kasabay sa dinner. At 19 I still slept at my parents room .. Dko kinakahiya yun sis hehe

But before I grad sa college I notice na nanghhina siya then sabi nya lage pakiss baby kase bka dnko makaattend ng grad mo. Thankgod nakaattend c papa but me feeling nko na somethings wrong nang lumapit ako I cried talaga .I dnt know why I just felt that.and me lungkot sa eyes nya. Nung may of 2006 nung na nagstart nightmare ko.sumakit daw tummy nya impacho daw so I rush him at the hospital then more test and all me bato daw sa atay nya.which can be cured tru laser. Panatag akong umalis na sana..I'm going sna sa singapore but dnako tumuloy sis kase I just felt that I can leave my father in that case. From may - aug lage akong nandyan as his nurse kuno.hehe nilagyan kase si papa ng drainage bag. So sa pgh sked ng laser [textspeak!] andun lang yung machine. Iba n din attitude nya me moodswings super sungit tlaga.that morning nakapag usap pa kmi sharing his sentiments kinagabihan nashock kmi ng mom ko nagbleeding siya with so many blood coming from his drainage.and he was screaming in my pain.. My heart was teared seeing my real superman were hurting that much.

I prayed so hard nacoma na siya and the doctors were telling us that only prayers nalng. Its like a bombed..then I render my whole day in prayers asking for a minute to talk to him,but nung madaling araw ayun nagising siya and nagbilin na. But the story nagkamiracle..he lives for 1month exactly on his 1month he let go.when I said that I'll be fine .. He passed away .. One of the super hard trial sis..even up to now naiiyak ako [textspeak!] I lost somebody na kalahati ng buhay ko...

So sa mga anjan pa dad nila sis show them how impt they are because we can never turn back the time when they left us...

[piggyxoxo]

not at all....my dad was negative and neglectful

[burgundy]

Malapit na pala ang Fathers day!

I miss my dad. I was very very close to him. I loved him next to GOD nga and I never loved anyone in my life as much as I loved my dad.

My mom died when I was very young pa so I dont have a memory of her. Although my dad remarried, eh hindi naman ako close sa Stepmom ko.. My dad and I always had this special bond. He always tell me na he loves my real mother very very much and I am his favorite child.

When I was a kid, my dad got really sick and need to be bypassed daw. He had to leave for the states dahil sa states daw sya ooperahan. Before he left eh naguusap kami lagi ni Dad gabi gabi. Binibilin nya sa akin na I will be a good person blah blah blah. This really made me upset dahil feeling ko mamamatay na sya. The doctor actually told him na he might not survive the surgery kasi this was in early 80's pa at hindi pa gaanong advance and medicine nuon. Naiwan kami sa PI and everyday I cry to GOD and asked GOD to take care of my dad and heal him. I ask GOD na if He will take my Dad, might as well take me first coz I will not be able to handle it. GOD heard my prayers, hindi natuloy ang heart bypass ni Dad because nuong chineck ulit yung heart nya sa US eh okey naman daw ito at hindi na kailangan ng surgery.

The last time I saw him alive was in 2004, nuong hinatid nya ako sa Airport. I hugged him really realy tight na halos bone crushing na. I never thought that would be the last, but something made me hug him very very tight na as if it will be the last talaga. Im glad I did that.

My dad passed away when he was 70, in 2005. Pero kahit 70 na sya eh hindi pa rin ako prepared. I remembered the last time I spoke to my dad. I told him to take care of himself and get well. He answered na wag na raw akong magworry sa kanya kasi matanda na raw sya. Isipin ko ang sarili ko at alagaan ang anak ko. He asked me when will I visit him again sa PI, I told him na I dont know pa kasi busy pa sa work. He told me he loved me very much and he needs to hang up na raw kasi he is tired na raw. I called back two days after that but sabi ng step mom ko na dad is sleeping pa daw. Gabi nuon dito sa US at umaga sa Pinas. So I just went to sleep na lang rin. Pero nung madaling araw nun, our phone rang with the news that my dad passed away na daw.

Although we know that this is coming because he has been sick for a while. It is still shocking to hear that the one you love is gone forever.

I miss my daddy so much. It has been four years already but I would still cry whenever I remember him. My only comfort now is that I know my dad is always watching over me and his spirit is just around us. Pag down ako at may problem eh I talk to him, cry to him, sayang nga lang kasi I will not hear his voice anymore, hear his comforting words, and get a hug from him.

And since Dad died, I dont fear my own death anymore. I know when the time come for me to go eh I will get to see my dad again coz he will be there waiting for us. For now eh I am just taking care of business here. Inaayos ko ang future ng daughter ko and taking care of my hubby, step mom, and my half sisters.

[champoy]

if there's one topic na nagiging super emo talaga ako, it's about father-daughter relationship.

i used to be really close to my dad...when i was a kid, i'm a super daddy's girl. he would always bring me along pag uuwi sya sa hometown nya tapos dun kami tutulog ng ilang days. hanggang sa nung nag-highschool ako, nung 1st year ako lagi nya ko hinahatid and sinusundo sa school.

things changed nung college na ko.  he was an alcoholic kasi kahit nung bata pa ko.  pero siguro kasi masyado pa ko bata nun kaya wala lang sa kin.  but when i was in college na, sobrang nag-aaway talaga kami kasi lagi syang drunk.  weekly lang ako nauwi tapos lagi pa nga sya drunk so hindi na talaga kami nakakapag-usap nang matino. this persisted hanggang sa nagwowork na ko.  and i think eto yung reason kung bakit lumayo loob namin sa kanya (pati yung brother and mom ko).  as in lagi lang kami nag-aaway kasi he wouldn't listen, he wouldn't stop drinking.  and sa mga away namin, i know i have hurt his feelings hindi lang once. kahit na ilang beses na din ako nag-sorry sa kanya, i know hurt pa din sya.

since then, hindi na nabalik yung closeness namin. although ngayon hindi na kami nag-aaway kasi he stopped drinking and kasi na-stroke sya and naapektuhan yung speech nya.  pero kahit naging ganun yung relationship namin, i still love him so much.  kaya ko nga sya inaaway at pinapa-stop sa pag-iinom dati eh kasi i care for him so much.  ngayon, sya yung reason kung bakit ako nagpapakahirap magwork para matustusan yung pagpapagamot nya and para matulungan sya.  i also make sure na pag nalabas kami ngayon kasama sya.  dun man lang sa ganung way maiparamdam ko na super love ko sya and proud din ako sa kanya kasi super bait nya na dad. and i hope he realizes that...

[cleverjerk0717]

when i saw this thread i am thinking twice to post a reply...

well, we're really close back then, when i was a child, i was really papa's girl, we will even lay down sa sofa watch movie, he will give me everything i want, i am his favorite amongst my 3 siblings...but i should say that counting the times that we have spent time with each other eh, super onti lang talaga kasi lagi siyang wala...then my mom died, when i was 15 yrs old...that's the time we really needed a dad but we felt like we lost both our parents, i started hating him a lot..even before my mom died, i was like 13 yrs old, i read some letters from his mistress knowing that he has a child with that woman...that hurts a lot for a 13 yrs old child, till now they never knew i have knowledge about that..he had a new family, after my mom died, at iba yun sa babae na naanakan nya..i hate him, kasi wala na, watak watak na kame, sirang sira na buhay namin...kung nasan man kame ngayon eh, it was never because of his help...napaka-irresponsable nyang ama i must say...this is true, pero wala pa rin ndi ko pa rin naman magawa na itakwil siya, i still feel like i love him as a father but we will never have those closeness back not untill he will be responsible enough...hay