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illenram08

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #320 on: February 12, 2010, 12:13:58 am »
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kase nakakatamad magpalit ng IDs & documents? hehe. seriously, isa yan sa factor kaya di ako makapagpalit ng last name, pero fino-follow-up yan ng father-in-law ko, not my husband haha!
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nkktamad lang? actually you'll need those handy sometime in the future. why get married if ayaw mo din pala gamitin ang surname nya? Alam mo naman sa union of marriage, kasali talaga ang mga bagay na yan. Lalo na dadating ang araw na magkakaanak kyo anda of course gagamitin nila ang surname ng husband mo (although they can use yours only they wont have middle initial like yours, kc if you give them that, lalabas n magkapatid kyo at indi mag-ina). Hindi kya sila malito kung tanungin sila ng tao bakit magkaiba ang surname mo at ang surname nila? come to think of it, yung nakakatamad na pagpapalit ng documents indi mo habang buhay na gagawin un, maybe a day or two lang. hehe. i know you got my point.

katie_21

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« Reply #321 on: February 12, 2010, 10:48:25 am »
I adapted my hubby's surname, pero now, parang sana na lang hinyphenated ko na lang, since gusto ko ang Surname ko nung single pa ako. :)
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pinkpotato

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« Reply #322 on: February 12, 2010, 10:58:31 am »
what is the difference ba between just having your husband's last name as normal last name and the hyphenated lang?

barbieavril

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« Reply #323 on: February 25, 2010, 02:00:46 pm »
oo, i used his last name.  though i must admit mas ok pakinggan maiden name ko, i still used his.  kasi it's also one way of showing your hubby na proud ka to be his wife.

when i asked hubby nga kung if ever di ko ginamit ang last name nya, magtatampo ba sya or not?  sabi nya, definitely magtatampo sya kasi kasal na kami tapos parang ayaw ko gamitin last name nya.

ayun, gamit ko naman last name and ok na naman, i get used to my "new" name.

janzphynx

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« Reply #324 on: February 25, 2010, 04:38:55 pm »
hindi pa ako sanay na gamitin ang surname nya, hehe, wala pa naman kami 1 year na kasal, hough [textspeak!] iba kong document is napapalitan ko na, pero dito sa office di ko na pinapalitan mga access ko :)

cassiopeia

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« Reply #325 on: February 25, 2010, 05:37:45 pm »
oo, i used his last name.  though i must admit mas ok pakinggan maiden name ko, i still used his.  kasi it's also one way of showing your hubby na proud ka to be his wife.

when i asked hubby nga kung if ever di ko ginamit ang last name nya, magtatampo ba sya or not?  sabi nya, definitely magtatampo sya kasi kasal na kami tapos parang ayaw ko gamitin last name nya.

ayun, gamit ko naman last name and ok na naman, i get used to my "new" name.

pwede ko ba -like yung post mo hehe...ang hindi kasi alam ng iba..if you use your husband's surname.,.,its also a way of submission to your husband. as what God designed for marriage. :D

anziaski

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #326 on: February 27, 2010, 01:05:21 am »
i would pero right now since there are still some legal documents and records na di ko pa napapabago, i use my maiden name-his surname

barbieavril

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« Reply #327 on: March 01, 2010, 05:57:50 pm »
pwede ko ba -like yung post mo hehe...ang hindi kasi alam ng iba..if you use your husband's surname.,.,its also a way of submission to your husband. as what God designed for marriage. :D

oo sis, tama ka dyan. it's one way of submission to your husband.  that way, nakaksunod ka pa sa utos ni God... hehe! =)

Ms.yumyum08

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« Reply #328 on: March 05, 2010, 09:51:36 am »
I'm still using my maiden name, kahit sa mga govnt IDs.
payag [textspeak!] si hubby, dahil napagusapan na namin yun before kami ikasal. btw 2 years na kaming married.

hairt mini

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« Reply #329 on: March 06, 2010, 02:14:01 pm »
Definitely.. I will use my hubby's surname..Though mas maganda ang surname ko..but I'm proud na ako ang wife (to be) nya.. :D

berna15

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« Reply #330 on: March 06, 2010, 02:25:44 pm »
I am using it since day one, sabi ni atty it doesnt matter sa girl if she uses her husband name or not, valid pa din sa contract.

ladykristinn

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« Reply #331 on: March 13, 2010, 01:49:21 am »
alam ko na na offend si hubby dahil hindi ko ginagamit ang surname nya. masyado kasing ordinary ang family name nya while sa akin parang distinct. at saka hindi naman batas na sundin mo family name ni husband.

to compensate na lang kapag nag oorder ako online, ginagamit ko family name nya.

ciarra90210

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« Reply #332 on: August 28, 2010, 04:54:37 pm »
Mga sis. Is it okay to apply as an immigrant to another country using your maiden name? Di ko pa kasi napapachange yung name ko to my husband's surname sa passport.

fab_izzie

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« Reply #333 on: August 29, 2010, 04:30:58 pm »
yes, i'll be using my hubby's surname kaso at magpapalit din ako ng signature kaso hindi ko pa masimulan kasi dami pa papers na aayusin eh which im just starting pa lang.

arlene18

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« Reply #334 on: August 29, 2010, 04:52:18 pm »
for me yes... i will!!!

sylvester_jmc

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« Reply #335 on: August 31, 2010, 04:51:27 pm »
Hay ako... yung parent's ko nakikiusap na huwag ko muna gamitin surname ni hubby kasi hindi chinese surname... :(

Si hubby... gusto niya gamitin ko surname niya once na ikasal na kami sa pinas ( church wedding )

Although kasal na kami ( civil ) gamit ko parin surname ko dahil nga sa request ng parents ko.

officebusters

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« Reply #336 on: September 02, 2010, 11:43:15 am »
opo gamit ko po yong surname ng husband ko after ng kasal namin.

mango

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« Reply #337 on: September 02, 2010, 02:54:11 pm »
yes gamit ko surname ni hubby and am proud coz ako ang wife harharhar

exgoddess

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Re: Using the husband's surname, will you or will you not?
« Reply #338 on: September 03, 2010, 01:00:17 pm »
im not plannin to change my last name becuz i love my last name & also there's some other personal reason..

trizhee

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« Reply #339 on: October 20, 2010, 10:22:55 pm »
when filling up forms im using hubby's surname... haba naman kasi kung hyphenated pa.. same in the office pero sa email hyphenated cause not all people especially client doesn't know im already married cause they say im too young.. haha..

but i did changing surname sa office 1 month after the wedding 2 days pa lang kasi nangungulit na si hubby kung ginagamit ko na daw ba surname nya.. well his surname sounds good than mine but i love my maiden name..  ;)

 

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