is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[cometkeiss]

ofcourse!

[roa1028]

no. they're not worth it.

AMEN!!! 

[primadona12]

IT is a factor to be considEREd of course. of course were affected if we are not liked cause in a filipino setting whether you like it or not you not only marry your bf or gf you also marry their family.

whether we like it or not as well we are affected. but aside from that you need to discern the validity of them not liking you ( if they don't)  if you see no sense in their attitude then dont waste time pondering on it or even trying to impress them.
if they see you are affected they'll continue making you feel bad.
eventually hopefully they will change their mind to their own accord.

[pretty_cavitemom]

For me, I don't really care if ever. Pero siyempre part sila ng buhay ni hubby kaya I'll just do my best to portray the role of a good daughter-in-law kapag kaharap sila. Pagkatapos ng meeting, eskapo na ako. Back to normal ang buhay!

[a_y_e_n]

yes for me. close kase bf ko sa family niya ang yung pinaguusapan namin lagi na gusto niya, magustuhan ako ng family niya and vice versa. pero kung lahat daw ng effort ginawa namin tapos ayaw pa din, pwede na daw siguro na kahit hindi na.

[zaskiya]

yes.
because what is a family for?

[jasmville]

its not a big deal for me whether they like me or not..
what matters to me is that their son is crazy about me.. nuff said. 

[rukia_san]

mas maganda kung oks kayo ng ILs mo, especially when you are living with them (my case). Pero sa case ko din,di ko pa masabi.. kasi they're nice naman sakin, yun nga lang minsan i caught them na ikinukwento ako and may konting nega na sinasabi.. na medyo di na rin trulili.. anyways, di nalang ako pahalata.. basta ok ang treatment namin.

pero kahit ayaw p din [textspeak!] nila sakin, it will not stop me from loving their son(naks!)

[daye_hines1019]

I dont care at all , I grew up without them, I can live without them. And what matters to me are my children, and relationship with husband.

[daybreaker]

My inlaws never had the chance liking me because they hated me before the knew me so keber sa kanila.  Anyways, nung kami pa ni ex hubby sobrang lahat ng bagay pina pakialaman but I do things my way since I believe I'm doing it in my best way possible.  Each time na nag aaway kami ni ex wala syang magandang sinsabi and worst sinasabihan pa nya si ex na hiwalayan ako! tee hee!!

Now that we're separated, I raised my baby alone, send her to the best school possible, give her the best of everything, in short, I've proven my worth eh bango ko sa kanila... sadly, wala ng chance na babalik pa ako sa anak nila...

If only naging maayos sila sa akin before mas makakapag-isip pa akong balikan sila lahat.

[zachry]

its not a big deal, ayaw nila sa kin, de ayaw ko rin sa kanila! quits lang...ngayon andito kami, never talked to them since umalis kami pinas. kahit gustuhin nila ako ngayon, sorry, ayaw ko na sa kanila.

[cgirl]

Big YES! i would want them to love me, i dont want them to think that they lost their son because of me, i want them to feel that they gained a daughter in me. =)

[AnneMP]

It is a big deal for me what my future in-laws think of me.  Kahit na hindi kayo nakatira sa isang bubong, it would be nice kung may magandang samahan.  Kaya nga, for me, dapat i-consider rin ang family ng guy before you go into serious relationship.  If kasundo mo ang future in laws, then they would not present as a problem in the future.

[sexy_triz]

is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

OO naman, [textspeak!] kahit anong gawin mong maganda. magpakabait ka magbigay ka, hindi nila maaapreciate lalo na kung me icocompare sau na mas madami pera..hahahahah..

ganyan mga biyenan ko...

kaya kung hindi nila ako gusto hindi ko rin sila gusto..un nga [textspeak!] kelangan ko pa rin silang irespeto kahit di nila ako nirerespeto, para na [textspeak!] sa asawa ko..[textspeak!] kung iisipin ko [textspeak!] sarili ko matagal ko na silang sinagot sagot sa lahat ng pakikialam nila samin mag asawa..

[anjela18]

i think its a big deal kc considering the filipino culture, mhilig sa kwentuhang ekek, minsang whether we admit it or not, we'll get affected with what they said especially kng kapintasan yung nasasabi. unless.. you're abroad or living in a diff island.. yun siguro di na big deal and u can just be nice prang meron kayo reunion once in a blue moon. pero kng andyan [textspeak!] sila sa tabi-tabi.. it matters.

buti n [textspeak!] nice in-laws ko... warm, civil & accommodating. 

[fashionista_guru]

Actually, I really don't care. Not that I have a rift with them or something. But I don't do things to please them because that is not me. I do not wish to change my personality for them. Love me or hate me ang drama ko. 

[ellheym]

Yes, it's a big deal for me pero kung hindi pa rin ako magustuhan wala na akong magagawa but I am lucky kasi gusto naman ako ng inlaws ko.

[youngmommy]

yes, it's a big deal for me,kasi kapag hindi ako gusto ng in-laws ko syempre unang maiipit at maapektuhan ay si hubby,kawawa naman sya.Pero kung lahat naman ng respeto at pakikisama ginawa mo at hindi ka pa rin nila gusto siguro kapag ganon hindi ka na masisisi ni hubby.

Thank God kasi wala nman akong masyadong problem sa in-laws ko.

[cgirl]

^ Tama ka sis and pwede pa sya maging cause ng away.

[youngmommy]

yah,kaya sobrang big deal talaga.syempre kapag hurt si hubby sa situation nyo ni inlaws hurt din tayo diba?At baka maging daan pa para magkaroon kau ng tampuhan ni hubby at makapigil ng pagiging masaya ng family.