is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[badhairday]

yes it is!

[carlthel]

... after my husband and i got married, my friends came over to the house to visit me, my mother-in-law (may her soul rest in peace) told them that the reason she did not go to our church wedding is because she does not like me... my friends told me and ang sagot ko sa friends ko... nakakalokang tawa lang... so i guess it is not a big deal to me....

[Federico]

no, hindi naman sila ang pinakasalan ko eh, so why bother haha
besides, it is not my problem kung hindi nila ako gusto, sasakit lang ulo nila kakaisip sa akin, pero ako deadma lang

[dorkee]

i have to say, issue sya talaga kasi para kang may kaaway eh. it doesnt feel good pag ganon. who doesnt want a peace of mind? pero kung sadyang masama ugali nila, wala na ko magagawa, i will not care about them na lang till i die.

[satya]

yes it is..

[cometkeiss]

in real world it does. and it always does, like said, blood is thicker than the water. no matter how you ignore everything, at the end of the day, they're family. so i think its better to get everything accept the reality from both sides, then go to another level.

i so agree!

[DrQuinn]

Yes it is...kasi relasyon ang pinag uusapan diyan eh...somehow our parents influences us in decisions we do kahit may mga asawa na tayo...atsaka married people are not the only people involved in the marriage, but also their respective families.

[grumpybear]

Yes it is...kasi relasyon ang pinag uusapan diyan eh...somehow our parents influences us in decisions we do kahit may mga asawa na tayo...atsaka married people are not the only people involved in the marriage, but also their respective families.

Interesting, because I thought the bible said something about leaving all his relations and cleaving to his wife.

Anyway, I'm thankful that the only people involved in our marriage are me, my husband and my child. I wouldn't have it any other way.

[ross_girl]

Kung hindi ko naman sila (in-laws) kasama sa bahay, ok lang deadma. Pero if I see them everyday then it's important that we have a harmonious relationship. We have to like each other whether we like it or not... what an oxymoron.

[AnneMP]

For me, it is important that I'd be accepted as part of the family when I marry my guy since that's what's going to happen - I'd be part of their family whether anyone likes it or not.  I don't want to be in bad terms with anyone on the other side because situations may come when my guy would have to choose between the good of his new family over the good of his "old" family, and I don't want to be placed in that position especially when his family and me are not in good terms. 

It's also important for me that my family and my guy likes each other.  Holiday celebration would be a lot more relaxed, no tension.

Ideally, couples should move out once they get married.  Couples have a lot of adjusting to do with someone at their side ALL the time.  It would be harder to either one if they have to live under the roof of their in-laws.  And much worse if there's tension between AND amongst them.  For example, the Family Stone.

[december]

no its not a big deal for me as long as my hubby is on my side, there's no problem...ang mahirap nyan kasi pag mas kampihan ng hubby mo ang mga in laws mo...

[chinita_charm]

no its not a big deal for me as long as my hubby is on my side, there's no problem...ang mahirap nyan kasi pag mas kampihan ng hubby mo ang mga in laws mo...

yes its true.. on my case i used to make pakikisama to them until i found out that they dont like me pla coz mas prefer nila rich woman for hub.. they're so annoying and madalas magparinig at times.. well deadma .. one time when hub's mom ddnt know am at her back (coz she's busy talking to someone) i heard such words about me.. and i felt like binuhusan ng malamig na tubig.. when she turn around she's shock and sAID "jan ka na pla" ( as if pretending na she ddnt say anything against me.)

now i found out that hub's family is weird. magulo and very different.. "SHOW ME THE MONEY"
despite all that im happily married.. hub is a perfect guy... and we love and respect each other.. un lang

[pinkypop_30]

Yes ... certainly yes

But as the saying goes "YOU CAN NOT PLEASE EVERY BODY" so asa diskarte na yan ... pero kung wala parin ... for me kiber ko ... anak naman niyo ang pinakasalan at pakikisamahan ko as long as I live ... so bahala kayo if you still don't like me .... wala na akong magagwa doon. Tutal I made my part as you DIL ... so bahala na kayo 

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

It may not matter now, but it WILL matter.

[xyrylle_jam]

It matters if you're living in one roof. Pero kung hindi, dead-ma. Wala naman na silang magagawa dun eh ikaw ang gusto ng anak nila. Bakit ikaw ba gusto mo sila?
Ang importante lang naman eh nakakasundo kayo ng partner mo.

[chinita_charm]

It matters if you're living in one roof. Pero kung hindi, dead-ma. Wala naman na silang magagawa dun eh ikaw ang gusto ng anak nila. Bakit ikaw ba gusto mo sila?
Ang importante lang naman eh nakakasundo kayo ng partner mo.

^ ahh yeahhh

[proudmama]

i don't care,  i don't like them either!

[tisay4476]

i don't care,  i don't like them either!

same tayo sis!

[maldita_AQ]

well sabi nga ng iba "hindi naman sila makakasama mo sa bubong mo eh" hindi naman sila papakasalan mo eh"....but as for me,mas maganda if they would like you para may mga lolo at lola naman future kids mo..diba?

[chinita_charm]

^ depende sa sitwasyon