is it really a big deal for you is your in-laws doesnt like you?

[micci]

no big deal for me..yet, i still feel na his mom & titas don't like me..ewan ko ba,parang feeling nila inaagaw ko si bf sa kanila..well,di rin kasi in good terms si bf sa "broken" family nya..

[mars]

yes...since he is close to all his siblings as well as to his parents..if ever that thing will happen, i'll just give my best shot for them to like me, & kung wala pa rin,,then ok na lang kung ano yung situation..

[hannah_lii]

boyfriend ko pa lang pero big deal na

parents nya sobrang mayabang/matapobre. mula nung naging kami, sasakyan nila ayaw na ipagamit kay bf (kasi ako kasama)

lahat ng occassion sa kanila, never ako pina-invite. They never acknowledged me as their son's gf. They never ask or talk about me. Actually i think they're trying to ignore my existence. Baka kala nila by doing that mawawala din ako sa buhay ng anak nila.
Well, they're going to be so disappointed becuse im here to stay.

Altho masakit un gngawa nila, as in masakit mga sis. Isip ko nga by the time we get married and have kids, will they also ignore my kids?

[queen mai]

^ Possible na hindi...bigla na lang mahihimasmasan mga yan na gusto nila makita at mahawakan apo nila...

As if papayag ako ng ganun ganun na lang. Yung mga ILs mismo nagtanggal ng privileges nila over my daughter...bah... yan mga napapala ng mga hindi nag iisip mabuti bago kumilos... o nag iisip na parang bata bago kumilos is MORE like it!!!

[aMz]

Not that it is really a big deal but it matters.  I'm just glad that I am ok with my man's siblings.  His 'rents seems to be nice to me too at least that's how they made me feel.  I hope that it won't change. 

[Rollenes27]

cyempre naman sobrang big deal 2..lalo na kung babae ka..

[red18n]

hindi yun big deal sakin.. kasi as long as my hubby is on my side.. saka hindi nya naman kasi kinakampihan yung nanay nya or kahit na sinong kamaganak nya over me.. pag nagkaganun saka palang magiging big deal sakin yun

[chinice]

alam ni hubby yung nararamdaman ko para sa sis nya, at naiintindihan nya ako kasi kilala nya sis nya more than I do.

[red18n]

I don't care if she hates me so much... 'coz I hate her more than she she hates me!
 
hehe! tama ka jan sis

[super_mum]

OK naman ako sa inlaws ko, that's what I think. But sometimes you cannot really please them and sometimes I can really feel na hindi yung buong buo na gusto nila ako.
So para sa akin, it is not really a big deal kung ayaw nila sa akin. Husband ko ang pinakasalan ko at hindi sila.
However, I still make an effort para maging close sa kanila. Ganoon na lang para tahimik ang lahat.

[mikmik]

Para saken hindi naman big deal yan...hindi ko kasundo [textspeak!] isa kong SIL, napaka-inggitera kasi. At first I tried na pakisamahan sya kasi we are living in the same house, pero napuno na talga ako kaya simula nung nagaway kami hindi na kami nagimikan ever. At wala akong pakialam, ang importante, saken kumakampi lagi [textspeak!] hubby ko. Keber ko sa kanya mainggit sya hanggang gusto nya..hay nako umiinit ulo ko pag naaalala ko [textspeak!] mga pinaggagawa nya saken! 

[simplemind]

i'ts not a big deal for me....ipakita ko lahat ng  maayos kung  ugali..if still not enough well its up to them ...di ko kawalan

kaya lang ang hirap sabihin lage ka may sakit or may pasok ka miski wala pag may okasyon no....

[jk_1234]

No! as long as mahal ako ng asawa ko wala kong pakialam sa kanila

[marief2rnurse]

nagkahiwalay kami ni hubby ng 1 year and away kami ng away nitong uli kami nagsama and medyo bad trip sa akin mom nya and it bothers me parang ayaw ko magpakita sa kanila, but my hubby explained and when we got together again after a fight she talked to us naman and okay na kami.

ofcourse mas maganda kung gusto ka nila diba pero it's not everything.  it all depends on how you feel about how they feel about you.

[nailart]

YES. kasi they will be there almost forever!

[grace24]

yes big deal...if ever magloko si husband pwede nilang pagtakpan kung ayaw nila sa iyo...kaya try p rin natin sila pakisamahan hanggat maari...but in my side ok naman [textspeak!] soon to be in-law ko...

[chyna_08]

no big deal for me. who cares kung ayaw nila sakin, e di ayoko din sa kanila! simple lang ang logic ko dyan...kung ano ang attitude na ipakita nila sayo, ganun din ang gawin mo sa kanila. kung nice sila, nice din ako. pero kung kaplastikan lang ang ipapakita nila sakin, ganun din ang gagawin ko sa kanila! minsan kasi mahirap maging masyado mabait. may mga tao kasi na SADYANG PAKIALAMERA!!!!  gusto nila lahat ng nangyayari sa inyong mag asawa e alam nila. gusto nila lagi silang kasali sa mga plans at decision na gagawin nyo. grrrr!!!!

[jusette]

Congratulations, kung may in-laws kang good sa iyo. Good luck, if not. It's really a big deal for me. Ang masakit walang ginagwa c bf para sa ganitong mga bagay.

[polka08]

in laws?! grrrr..... i only married my husband not his family!
i dont care as long as me & my hubby's ok.

[yushen]

no... pero plus factor kung okei kau ng mga in laws mu...

nweis... kung talagang ayaw sken ng mga in laws ko... kiber, as if naman na sila nagpapaligaya sken 

(good thing okei kme ng inlaws ko)